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Tom Kim A pioneering youth worker, advocate and trail-blazing community organizer, has died at the age of 64 at his home in San Francisco on Wed., April 4, 2007. His late father, Tom Hak Chun Kim, and late mother, Dora Yum Kim, were fond of calling him Tommy. He was renowned for his cooking as well as his passion to right wrongs. Tom was a native San Franciscan who grew up in Chinatown, organized in the Mission and lived in the Western Addition, enjoying all the cultures and diversity of people the city had to offer. Tom came from a family line of leaders. His grandfather Yum Man Suk was a leader of the Korean Independence Movement in California in the early 20th. century (Korea was under Japanese rule); his mother was the first Asian woman real estate broker in San Francisco in the 1950s and a leader of United Nationalities of San Francisco. Tom was also a friend and adviser to leaders such as State Senator Leland Yee, BART Board Member James Fang, Supervisor Thomas Hsieh, Redevelopment Commissioner and longshore leader Leroy King, Rev. Cecil Williams and Janice Mirikitani of Glide Church and former San Francisco Police Chief Fred Lau. A graduate of Polytechnic High School, Tom went on to become a longshoreman, a staunch member of the International Longshoremen's and Warehousemen's Union (ILWU) and one of the original residents of St. Francis Square, an ILWU-built cooperative-owned apartment complex in the Western Addition. He would later serve on the Citizens Advisory Committee to the Mayor's Office of Community Development under Mayor Dianne Feinstein and receive an Award of Merit for his service to San Francisco. Tom was a co-founder and executive director of the Korean Community Service Center, co-founder of RAP (Real Alternatives Program), co-founder of the Asian American Social Work Training Center, co-founder of the National Asian American Psychology Training center, co-founder of the Asian Pacific Caucus of the Democratic Party, co-founder of Asian American Communities for Education, co-founder of the Asian Youth Substance Abuse Prevention (AYSAP) Consortium, president of the board of directors of Richmond Area Multi-Services (RAMS), and co-producer of Lest We Forget: Korean American Oral History Videos featuring pioneer Mary Paik Lee, Olympic diving champion Dr. Sammy Lee, and world War II hero U.S. Army Col. Young Oak Kim. Tom is survived by his sons, Michael (wife, Nancy), Eric (wife, Cindy); sister, Darlyne Rickard (husband, Rick); brothers Kyle and Kerry; nephews, Marc Rickard and Chris Kim and six grandchildren, Thomas J. Kim, Taylor A. Kim, Alexander M. Kim, Shina D. Kim, David Y. Gray and Eric J. Gray. Memorial services will be at Cypress Lawn, Colma on Thursday, April 12, 2007. Visitation begins at 12 noon and formal services at 2 p.m.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Apr. 10 to Apr. 11, 2007.

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Barbara Jean (Chan) Wong

April 12, 2007

A classmate of ours just shared the news of your passing. It seems only yesterday when we were just teens attending Francisco Junior High School and spending Fridays at Cameron House. Those were some happy days and memories. Although we lost connection as I attended Galileo and you went off to Poly, then to accomplish our own dreams, but in the end we will all meet again. May you rest in peace. To your loved ones, my heart goes out to you all at this time and may happy memories help ease your time of grief.

Robert Dwight

April 12, 2007

As a young teen, I had the pleasure of being introduced to Tom in 1969 when he worked at RAP in the Mission District. I soon became a youth volunteer for the organization and had many discussions with him about community organizing, world politics and life. He was a good friend, mentor and adult advisor whom was instrumental in the formation of the Mission Area Youth Council, one of the largest multi-ethnic, multi-cultural youth organizations in San Francisco during the early 70’s.

I’ll never forget how he introduced me to my first Chinese steam pork bun that I thought came from Chinatown. But I was wrong, as he would tell me that his favorite place for pork buns was from a shop in the Fillmore (Western Addition).


Tom was a good human being with a strong passion to help people stand up with dignity and fight for their rights. He will truly be missed, may he rest in peace.

Robert Dwight

April 12, 2007

As a young teen, I had the pleasure of being introduced to Tom in 1969 when he worked at RAP in the Mission District. I soon became a youth volunteer for the organization and had many discussions with him about community organizing, world politics and life. He was a good friend, mentor and adult advisor whom was instrumental in the formation of the Mission Area Youth Council, one of the largest multi-ethnic, multi-cultural youth organizations in San Francisco during the early 70’s.

I’ll never forget how he introduced me to my first Chinese steam pork bun that I thought came from Chinatown. But I was wrong, as he would tell me that his favorite place for pork buns was from a shop in the Fillmore (Western Addition).


Tom was a good human being with a strong passion to help people stand up with dignity and fight for their rights. He will truly be missed, may he rest in peace.

Mitchell Salazar

April 11, 2007

I would like to express my condolence to Tom's family. I had the pleasure of being introduced to Tom in the 80's through R.A.P's history of Co-Founders. At an early age Tom, Jim, Ray R and Ray B taught me the importance of cross cultural community work. Through out the years I continued to cross communties and as of today this stragety is practiced with many new generation of community leaders. As the Executive Director of R.A.P between 1984 and 1999 Tom had always kept us crossing ethnic cultural lines. Thanks Tom we love you and will miss you.

Karen Garrett

April 10, 2007

Although it has been many years since I have seen Tom, I remember the good times the funny times and how he loved to cook. He was like a brother.

Darryl Cox

April 10, 2007

I first met Tom around 1973 when we were introduced to each other by Jim Queen, who had founded RAP, which at that time was located at 22nd and Guerrero Streets. Over the years I would run into Tom two or three times a year and we always took a few minutes to catch up and laugh and talk.

I'm sorry that he is gone. He was a good brother and he epitomized a time when lots of different kinds of folks worked together to make San Francisco a better place to live.

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