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Wayne Alexander

88, died peacefully on April 10, 2014 at his home in San Mateo.  He was born on December 18, 1925 in Livingston, California.  He grew up in the Mission District and graduated from Mission High School in 1942.


He retired as Assistant Chief of the San Mateo Fire Department after 33 years of service.  He was a Veteran of World War II having served in the US Marine Corp in the South Pacific.  He was a life member of the Dolphin Swimming and Boating Club of San Francisco.  He was also a co-founder of the California State Fireman's Olympics.


Wayne is survived by his wife, Nancy and three children residing in Portland, Oregon; Lydia (Warren) Mixer, Kathi (Ken) Gibson and Dan Alexander.  He is survived by six grandchildren (Kelly Caulfield, Keith Richards, Anthony Scardino, Kyle Richards, Angela Barley and Daniel Alexander), nine great grandchildren and three great-great grandchildren.  He is also survived by nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends.  He is further survived by his siblings; Jon Alexander of Berkeley, Jane (Michael) Marovich of Petaluma, Tom (Kathleen) Alexander of Maui, and Bernadette (Debra) Alexander of San Leandro.  In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his sister, Claire Byrnes. 


His Celebration of Life will be held Friday, May 16, 2014 at 12:30 pm at Poplar Creek at 1700 Coyote Point Drive in San Mateo.  

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Apr. 19 to Apr. 20, 2014.

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Kathy Rivera

August 27, 2020

Wayne was our friendly delivery person of library materials to our Daly City Serramonte Library from San Mateo county libraries. I just recently saw the obituary of his passing as I had retired from library services 19 years ago. He was so admired by myself and other library employees for his warmth & friendliness as he made his deliveries. Such a fine person to have known all those years. To his family, I am truly sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Kathy Rivera

July 16, 2014

In April, we lost our special friend, Wayne Alexander. My sister and I have known and loved him since we were little girls. We are very saddened by his death and we will miss him very much. We will always remember his smile and great sense of humor.
When he would come to visit us, he would sometimes bring fried chicken and French fries, so we gave him the name "Colonel". He loved that. From then on, we and our cousins always called him "Colonel"
Our hearts are filled with gratefulness to have known and loved this wonderful man.
We love you "Colonel" and we shall see you again on that beautiful shore.
Love, Felicia and Shannan Davis, San Mateo

Dan Alexander

May 16, 2014

long day...............the USMC Honor Guard presented the flag, SMFD's current Chief spoke and the "last bell" was rung........family and friends gathered to send "Chief Alexander" home.............very nice.
Via con dios Padre.....until we meet again.

ole blue eyes.......

Dan Alexander

May 11, 2014

Dad with the LV Branch.....Daniel, Katey and Isabelle

Dad out for a walk.........:)

Dan Alexander

May 11, 2014

Amy Gettle

April 29, 2014

I was saddened to hear of Wayne's passing. He was a wonderful man with a big heart. I enjoyed hearing his WWII Marine Corps memories. I worked with Wayne during his days at Peninsula Library System. Wayne- we will miss you greatly!

Herb Guyer-Sharfenaker USMC

April 25, 2014

God Bless/RIP,to ALL who served in WWII. The USA would NOT be as it is today,Thank YOU for your service,also for the 33yrs,Asst.Chief SMFD;Wayne."When we look to heaven's scene,we will find the gates are guarded by Another U.S.MARINE".

April 24, 2014

Wayne, my cousin,
I always remember you and Nancy at very family reunion, rain or shine, and how my Mom and you always use to kid about who was younger Marian, my Mom used to tell us many stories about how you and your sister Claire
and her all grew up together.
We all miss you
Sue Perasso

April 23, 2014

Dear Kathi, Nancy & family,
I'll never forget the 1st time I met Wayne I thought he was so handsome and had the personatily to match. I am so thankful to him for bringing my beautiful friend Kathi into this world. I was blessed to have known him and loved him dearly.
Love, Denise

Babette Block

April 23, 2014

God bless u! Will always remember the great times w you & Kathi. Lbb

Stephanie Roe

April 22, 2014

Wayne, you will be missed by all. You were a great man. I enjoyed our many visits and the cruise, I will cherish the memories. Thank you for my best friend Kathi. Love and miss you. God has called another angle to watch over us.

George Smith

April 22, 2014

To the Alexander Family
On behalf of the Patriot Guard Riders (PGR), please accept this small token of our appreciation (to be given at Wayne's celebration of life) for Wayne's service to our country during World War II in the United States Marine Corps and his 33 years of service in the San Mateo Fire Department protecting the lives and property of the citizens of San Mateo. He will truly be missed.
Semper Fidelis, my friend.

Carol Rau

April 21, 2014

I was so sorry to hear of Wayne's passing. I am a retired San Mateo County Library employee and knew him when he worked there. He was a great person.

Mike Phipps

April 20, 2014

Very saddened to hear of Wayne's passing. He was a great man and loyal cousin for many years. My mom Phyllis and he were very close growing up--"Brother" and "Sis" were their nicknames. Wayne spent summers in Victor and Mom stayed down in the City with Tex and Tillie. So many stories...We had so many fun times, at the Fireman's Olympics, family gatherings and all the rest. Safe voyage Wayne, you will be missed greatly. Love, Mike Phipps

Jerry Chevalier

April 20, 2014

Wayne Alexander was a true leader of people. Wayne set high goals for himself, and he encouraged others to do their best. Plus Wayne had a great personality which made working with him fun.

George Smith

April 20, 2014

Nancy, sorry to hear about Chief Alexander's passing. I enjoyed working with him.

Kelly Caulfield

April 20, 2014

My GRANDFATHER WAYNE was the most amazing man I ever knew. Can I ring the fire bell one more time or slid down the pole one more time grandpa please...lol...don't forget to wind up my clock...I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND WILL MISS YOU EVERYDAY!!!! your loving granddaughter Kelly

April 20, 2014

My Cousin, my Hero! You will be missed by many. Memories don't go away. Tina

Nancy Cameron

April 20, 2014

I'm so sad to learn of Mr. Alexanders passing. He was a wonderful man. I enjoyed having the opportunity to know him.

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