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Lani Robert Lain

1947 - 2022

Lani Robert Lain obituary, 1947-2022, Pasadena, CA

BORN

1947

DIED

2022

Lani Lain Obituary

August 29, 1947 - July 11, 2022 Lani Lain was born on August 29, 1947, in Pasadena, CA, and passed away on July 11, 2022. He was a beloved husband, father, brother, son, and friend. Lani loved the outdoors and spent much of his life there with his family, hiking, camping, playing softball, coaching his kids' teams, off-roading, working on cars, growing blackberries, towing floats to and from the Rose Parade, pointing out constellations, cooking in Dutch ovens, and enjoying a cup of coffee out on the back porch with Nancy, his wife of 47 years. He had a knack for any sport he played, a calming demeanor, a level-headed approach to things, and a dry sense of humor. He enjoyed telling funny family stories, dug deeply into family genealogy, and was proud of his service in the U.S. Air Force. He had an interest in how things worked and put that to good use in his decades-long career as a mechanical engineer and as the fixer of all things around the house. Lani is survived by his wife Nancy, his children Jeff, Kelly, Kate, and Peter; and his grandsons Ryan, Robert, Trevor, and Elijah. He also leaves behind his siblings and their families: David Lain, Kathy Ralston, and Linda Egebjerg, his brother-in-law Mel Summers, and many nieces and nephews. Lani was pre-deceased by his parents Charles David Lain and Adella (Bette) Baker, his step-mother Marjorie Lain, and his sisters Wendy Lain and Shari Ann Summers. The family is planning a celebration of Lani's life. (Info TBA) In lieu of flowers, please take a hike, admire a butterfly, look up at the night sky, pick up a ping pong paddle, or take up something that interests you. Life is short take time to smell the wildflowers!

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Published by San Gabriel Valley Tribune on Jul. 24, 2022.

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Steve Igoe

January 26, 2023

I just learned of Lani's passing and was shocked and saddened. I worked with him in the 80's at Xerox Medical Systems as part of the Engineering group. We also played on the company softball team. I remember participating with him in a citywide Xerox tournament. The XMS team won 5 straight games on a hot LA day and won 1st place. Lani was a great leader and teammate and friend!
Steve Igoe
Littleton CO

Deborah Galloway

August 29, 2022

Today would have been Lani's 75 birthday too.

Deborah Galloway

August 29, 2022

Lani was a great country-western dancer too! I danced with him many times when he was working in Denver back in 2000 at the Stampede. I know his family will miss him greatly and they were so lucky he was in their lives. He was lucky to have had them as well. RIP, Lani

Hans Oor

August 22, 2022

Lani was a good friend.
His family and I traveled a lot of miles off road, camped beautiful places, and shared a lot cups of coffee.
They are like my extended family.
He will be deeply missed.
I'm sure he and my brother are sharing a campfire up there.

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