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Paula Henrietta Ebiner

Paula Ebiner Obituary

EBINER-Paula Henrietta Ebiner, born September 26, 1930 in Glendale, California, taken by Jesus on October 15, 2009. Paula was an amazingly energetic woman who raised 15 children. She dearly loved Jesus and she was inspired by Blessed Mary and many saints including Saint Therese, the Little Flower. Beyond description, Paula was dedicated and devoted to her family and faith. Paula was optimistic, forgiving, charitable, humble, giving, and lov ingly patient until her last breath. Paula is sorely missed. She leaves her devoted husband of 58 years, Robert Maurice Ebiner, and her beloved children: John, Larry, Marie, Mike, Chris, Joe, Frank, Matt, Therese, Kathleen, Eileen, Brian, Patty, Elizabeth, and Annie. She leaves 34 grandchildren. Her loving parents, Helen Beatrice Moles and Paul Aiken Van Sluyters, and her beloved brother Hawthorne, preceded her in death. Rosary: October 26, 7:00 p.m. Sacred Heart, Covina. Funeral: October 27, 10:00 a.m. Sa cred Heart, Covina. Internment: Queen of Heaven Cemetery, Rowland Heights. In lieu of flowers, donate to Catholic Relief Services, Priests For Life, Human Life International, or Bishop Amat High. Above photo was taken 8-2-09

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Published by San Gabriel Valley Tribune from Oct. 20 to Oct. 25, 2009.

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JT (aka Jean) O'Neill

November 8, 2009

Dear Ebiner family,
I heard from my mother, Pauline O'Neill, that Paula had died and I wanted just to touch bases with you. I was in Larry's class at St Martha's and then Bishop Amat and also knew and enjoyed hanging out with John and Maire. Paula used to give my brother Mark and me rides to school all the time - I think we did a car pool thing for years only my folks didn't have a car so Paula was always willing to let us ride along. Paula is one of those adults I remember from childhood - amazingly cheerful , amazingly upbeat - always welcoming. Even as a kid, I had a great deal of respect for her and, now as a parent (of only two!) and a public school guidance counselor, I am in awe of what she and Bob created. My thoughts are with you at this time and I just want you to know she is remembered fondly by even kids who knew her way back when.

Allen Taylor

November 3, 2009

Brian,
Sorry for the loss of your mother. I wanted to jump up out of my seat when I saw how hurt you were as you and your brothers and sisters gathered around your mom to sing her favorite song. It's been so long since we last spoke and I want you and your family to know that you are one awesome family.
Be well and take care.
Allen Taylor

Melanie Renfrew

October 27, 2009

The Ebiner family is large and open-hearted, outwardly giving, and that could only come from a mom and dad who model it. At Paula's son Matt and Suzan's wedding, I sat behind the Ebiner brothers, all in a row, and felt like I was in the family, too. Matt has been a brother to me for >25 years, and I have always felt close to you all, as God is our "Dad." Thanks for including me in these events of celebrating your mom's life, and her transcendant journey into the beyond, "where there are no more tears and pain." Love, Melanie Renfrew

Lauren Gasparo Anton

October 27, 2009

Brian, Annie and Lizzie (and all the Ebiners) -- I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. What a great woman she was, which is evident in the thoughtful, generous, talented and creative children she had. My thoughts are with you and your family. Lots of hugs.

Dolores Carrillo

October 26, 2009

Brian, and Frank we are so very sorry about the loss of your mother.
Your family and your mother have always been so good to our son Vincent.
Our prayers to you and your family.

Mike & Laura Cramer

October 26, 2009

Bob and family: Laura and I extend our deepest sympathies to you all at this time. I know you will carry her forever in your hearts. She lived a good full life and has left a legacy she can be proud of.
Love Laura & Mike Cramer

Nancy Banks

October 25, 2009

Dear Uncle Robert and Cousins,

Aunt Paula was my Godmother and a true inspiration. I have always thought of her as a saint, She ALWAYS put others before herself. I have lots of GREAT memories from our annual Christmas gatherings. It brings so many smiles and laughter!!!
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love you all,

Linda Schroeder

October 25, 2009

To the entire Ebiner Family ~

I am saddened by your loss. Though I never had the opportunity to met Paula ( or most of you ) for that matter; I do recall Theresa sharing many fun-filled and loving stories about the family while working with her back in the '80's.

I'm sure your strength in God will carry you through your time of grief.

October 24, 2009

Annie and Family,

My condolences for your loss. If I am half the amazing mother and wife yours was, I will consider my family extremely blessed. Continue living in her spirit. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Love,
Amber (Dinglasan) Sanders

October 21, 2009

Dear Larry, Teresa and kids, Mr. Ebiner and all the family,

We are sending all of you our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Your mother was truly a special and remarkable person and her spirit will live on in all of you.

Love, Derran, Cindy (Ozoa) and Miles Cannady

Mike and Kathy Mandala

October 21, 2009

Dear Bob and family,
Being neighbors for thirteen years, we grew to love Paula and her special kind of sweetness and concern for others. We have no doubt that she is in heaven today with Our Dear Lord and Blessed Mother! She was one of a kind!

Ricardo & Irma Cruz

October 21, 2009

Mr. Ebiner and Falimy:

We are so sorry to hear the news about. Our love thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.

God Bless

Margie Lopez

October 20, 2009

Dear Ebiner Family;
Although I only met Mrs. Ebiner once at Brian and Enid's wedding in Puerto Rico I could tell that she was a loving and caring mother and grandmother. I know she will be greatly missed by the entire family. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you.
Sincerely

Steve & Lori Reyes

October 20, 2009

Steve and I were sadden to hear such a wonderful, loving and supporting women has passed. I growing up with her children in grade school and continuing through high school, steve met them at Bishop Amat. she has left an enormous hole in both our hearts. she will never be forgotten.
God Bless
our deepest sympathy to the family

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