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Oil City - Thomas Eugene Self, 67, of Oil City, La passed away on March 3, 2020 due to complications from COPD.
Tom was born in Shreveport, La on May 23, 1952 to Gene and Charlene Self. After graduating from North Caddo High School in 1970, he spent 6 years in the Marine Corps, obtaining the rank of Sergeant. He then joined the Shreveport Police Department and retired after 20+ years of service as Sergeant. He enjoyed singing while playing his guitar, deer hunting, and watching the LSU tigers. He was kind but fearless, strong but gentle and extremely loyal to his friends.
Tom was preceded in death by his parents, Gene and Charlene Self, and sister, Susan Self Adams. He is survived by his daughter, Medina McKellar, and husband, Grey, along with two grandsons, Ian and Denton McKellar, of Montgomery, Texas; brother Doug Self and wife, Janet, of Bossier City, La; brother Chuck Self and wife, Shannon, of Minden, La; and many beloved nieces and nephews.
A celebration of his life will be held from 1:00-3:00 pm, Sunday, March 29 at Island Park Clubhouse, 2901 Paradise Drive, Shreveport, La. The family wishes friends come prepared to share their favorite memories with Tom as we celebrate his life.
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Clella Dickey
March 22, 2020
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Sgt Thomas
March 14, 2020
One of the best Officers I have had the pleasure to work with. We had some great times working DWI together. He will be missed but not forgotten. Always could cheer up a group or room. RIP Brother
Rick Ware
March 14, 2020
My prayers and thoughts are with Tom's family at this time. Tom was a very dedicated and professional police officer who loved the job he did and the citizens he protected. He was a pleasure to be around and to work with because of his professionalism. He will truly be missed.
Lane Smith
March 13, 2020
Tom watched me grow up as a kid and as a police officer . He worked side by side with my dad for years. Great supervisor and leader. I know hes telling dad a great story. My thoughts and prayers are with the Self family.
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Mark yawn
March 13, 2020
I met tom years ago when he pulled me over. I told him the truth about why I was speeding and he laughed and said he couldnt believe that I told it at my detriment. He let me off with a warning while still laughing ! He became a friend and always laughed when he saw me. Tough guy, with a big heart! My friend!!!!
Cynthia LaChapelle
March 13, 2020
I worked with Tom when he was a security guard at Burlington in Shreve City.He was a very nice guy,quick to help,funny, with a wry sense of humor,always had a smile and a story.GodSpeed Tom ,your reward awaits!❤
Steven Lowery
March 13, 2020
Sorry to hear. I worked with Tom back in the 90s at Shreveport PD. He was one of my Sergeants. He was one of the best supervisors! He treated you like a friend and not just like another coworker. He offered you help and assistance when needed and wasnt afraid to get into the mix with you. He was definitely an asset to the City of Shreveport and Marine Corp. Rest easy my friend and may God bless your family.
Jim Taliaferro
March 13, 2020
Some called him Nam(Vietnam)Tom but I called him my FTO(Field Training Officer) and partner. When I landed back home in Sport from San Diego PD, I joined the Sport PD, went through the academy and during my second phase of training was assigned to Tom as my FTO. We worked graveyard in The Grove and when the calls for service subsided, usually around 0200 hrs, Tom and I hit the Circle K at 70th and Linwood for a hot dog and coffee. We talked about our tours in SE Asia. Of course we all have stories we could go on and on about, but there are some people who impact our lives who we dont forget. Thanks Tom for the many memories with SPD. Tom was serious when it came to LE. Someone else should tell the story of how graveyard officers staged a hit and run scene around Toms car, using discarded fender parts from car care. Tom fell for it and was really, really angry. Especially at us once he found out. It was one of the best pranks ever! Miss You Brother
John Judice
March 12, 2020
My condolences to the family. I knew Tom from SPD. Great guy and lots of good stories. Im sorry to hear of his passing.
Rosetta Gregorio Rolinger
March 12, 2020
My condolences to Medina, Doug, and family. I knew Tommy at North Caddo High especially from the band. I have to say he was my first high school crush. He was very kind and had the nicest blonde hair. Rest in Peace Tommy Self.
Kay Anthony-Green
March 12, 2020
Please have my sincere condolences for the loss of Tom. Praying for you all.
Deloris HIllery
March 11, 2020
We didn't know Tom well, but He was so good to our Grandchildren!!! He took them fishing, and just spent time with them!!! They learned to really love Him!!! We would have loved to know Him better, but miles prevented!!! We believe He was a very good Man! Our Symtpathy! Herman and Dee Hillery ppl(Kristin, Tyler, and Dakota's Grandparent's).
For the Commanders, Carroll R. Michaud
March 11, 2020
The Final Salute
Brothers and Sisters-in-Arms, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged Hand Salutes as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.
This Hand Salute is the last that we shall render to Thomas Eugene Self our Brother-in-Arms. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for Tom. To Tom it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the devoted and selfless service he rendered to his country during the Vietnam War while serving in the U.S. Marine Corps. Tom, we commend you for your honorable military service and for your 20+ years of service with the Shreveport Police Department. You are a true patriot, who served with honor and distinction. You upheld the finest qualities of an American patriot warrior: courage, commitment, generosity, sacrifice, love and devotion to family and country. You were a true friend. We bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at Ease. Rest in Peace.
On behalf of the 781 military veteran Legionnaires of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion and the 177 veterans of VFW Post 2238 in Shreveport, Louisiana, we extend our sympathies and our condolences to Tom's family and loved ones.
Sean Armstrong, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 South Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109
Ranny Griffin, Commander, VFW Post 2238
1245 Gary Street, Shreveport, LA 71101
Tyler hillery
March 11, 2020
Tom will truly be missed...I never looked at him as a step dad but as a father as he was always there to give me advice and keep me on the rright path. No matter what he always had been there for me and I truly love him for tthat. Even tho he has passed...the memories with him will live on forever...the times fishing and four wheeling with him or the times we had our crawfish boils...I will never forget these memories...watch over us down here...love you Tom!!
Tina harrington
March 11, 2020
He lived down the street from us in southern hills...we always loved getting together listening to fishing and hunting stories...I mean full detail stories...lol..I also rode out with with in while working for the POLICE department..he will b.c e missed by many...RIP TOM
Trey Robinson
March 11, 2020
Sgt. Self was one of my first supervisors at SPD. He was a good leader and truly cared about the officers he was in charge of. (He always had a great story to tell). I hate to hear of his passing. Praying for his families comfort at this time.
March 10, 2020
So sorry for your loss, he was a great guy. I rode as his partner several times back in the early 90's when I was an aux. police. He will be missed. Jeff "Hacksaw" Reynolds
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