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Buddy Varner Obituary
INMAN, SC-- Buddy W. Varner, 68, of Inman, SC passed away on Monday, January 18, 2016 after a long illness. Gathered beside him at his home during his final hours were his family and friends.
Surviving are his loving wife, Betsy Lee Smith Varner; son, Tad (Angela) Varner; daughter, Paula Varner (Doug) Smith; grandchildren William Clay Smith and Taylor Jo Smith; brother, Harry D. (Della) Varner and many beloved nieces and nephews. Also surviving are k-9 members of the family Meg, Bo, Jake, Tiffany.
The son of Paul O'Fallion Varner and Lula Elizabeth Parris Varner, Buddy was born in Rutherfordton, NC. He is pre-deceased by his parents and sisters, Miriam Varner and Marilyn Varner Humphries.
After graduating from Chesnee High School, Buddy was honored to served his great nation in the United States Air Force during Vietnam. After his military career concluded, Buddy worked in the transportation industry and retired from USD Holland Trucking.
Buddy was a member of Aldersgate United Methodist Church where he was active in the United Methodist Men's Group and Sunday School.
A friend of all and the unofficial Mayor of Mayo to some! Buddy was a quick witted southern gentleman who took his jolly, fun-loving and compassionate spirit wherever he went. He enjoyed spending time with his beloved bride Betsy, their children, grandchildren and pets. Buddy was an avid outdoorsman who enjoyed boating, golfing and car racing. He will be dearly missed by his friends and family who shall always remember and rejoice in his laughter, story-telling and unconditional love.
Per Buddy's wishes, his remains were donated to the Greenville Hospital System for medical research.
Services are being held at 3:00 PM at Aldersgate United Methodist Church on Thursday, January, 21, 2016 located at 690 Park Road, Inman, SC 29349.
Prior to the memorial service, visitation with the family will be held from 1:00 PM to 2:45 PM at Aldersgate United Methodist Church.
In lieu of flowers, donations and memorials may be made to Aldersgate United Methodist Church Benevolent Fund.
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Memories and Condolences
for Buddy Varner
Rich and Nita Rolen
January 19, 2016
To Buddy's Family: Buddy was a great person. He will be missed by all. Our condolenses to all the family. Rich and NIta Rolen
Bert and Brenda Prieto
January 19, 2016
You are in our thoughts and prayers, during this time of grief. Strength and faith will help you through, God is taking care of things
Wayne Keith ( Kojack)
January 22, 2016
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with buddy at Consolidated Freightways and Holland. I known him for a long time before we worked together. I am sorry that I was out of town when I heard of his passing. My prayer are with you all
Wayne Keith &n family
Matt Dorman
January 20, 2016
Buddy, you will be dearly missed. The footprint you left on this world is cemented in the loved ones touched by your kind spirit. Mimi, Hana, Max and I love you.
Kim Barron
January 20, 2016
Betsy we are so sorry for your loss . Buddy was a Great Man & we have such wonderful memories of him . He always made you laugh . I hope the memories you shared will help ease your heavy heart & give you peace.
Matt Dorman
January 20, 2016
Buddy, you will be dearly missed. The footprint you left on this world is cemented in the loved ones touched by your kind spirit. Mimi, Hana, and I love you.
Amelia Easler Wall
January 19, 2016
Dear Family-
I am so very sorry to hear of Buddy's passing. I remember meeting him, and he was such a very nice person.
My mom was Margaret Parris Easler, her dad was Alex Parris, and he and aunt Lula were brother and sister.
Please know that you have all been in my thoughts and prayers.
Wendy
January 19, 2016
So sorry for Your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with his whole family. Love y'all.
Misty Ballenger
January 19, 2016
My prayers are with the family. I pray God will comfort y'all during this hard time. I love you all.God bless.
Allen and Erin Whittle
January 19, 2016
We are very sorry to hear about Buddy's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bonnie Lemley
January 21, 2016
We were so sad to hear of Buddy's passing. Please know you will all be in our prayers as you go forward. Betsy we are especially praying Gods peace for you and that He will walk with you. Your friends and former Sunday school class at UMCC will be thinking of you. Love in Christ Bonnie and Ken Lemley
Arthur Holt
January 21, 2016
So sorry to learn of Buddy's death! I have many fond memories of our time together at church. Our prayers will be with you!
Arthur Holt
Reba Hunt
January 21, 2016
Thinking of all the Varner family as they prepare to memorialize the life of our loved one. Buddy was always a joy to be around. His love for his God, famiily, friends and animals was always apparent in the way he lived his life. I believe that Buddy's quick wit and his true heart of gold will forever be remembered by all those he loved and those that loved him. Jeff and Reba Hunt
Debbie Young
January 20, 2016
Betsy,
I am so sorry to hear about Buddy's passing. Please know that I will be praying for you and your family during this difficult time.
Debbie Young
Linda Stone
January 20, 2016
To all of Buddy's family, you will be in my prayers. I am so sorry. I had not seen Buddy in many years, but remember him fondly as our sons went to school together and are friends. He was such a nice guy.
Linda Stone
(Tommy Hicks's Mom)
Lynne Garrett
January 20, 2016
Tad, Angela, and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May God cover you with His peace and comfort.
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