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Nicholas WHITNEY Obituary

WHITNEY, Nicholas L. Nicholas L. Whitney passed away peacefully at Hospice House December 18 after a short struggle with cancer, his wife by his side. Nick was born to Allen and Pearl Whitney in Wallace, Idaho. Nick loved the outdoors and would leap at any chance to hunt, fish or go camping and was happiest in the wilderness. He strongly appreciated friendships and love of family. His son Ethan was the light of his life. Being a father was his most valued endeavor. Nick enjoyed reading and would be found in the library at Lewis and Clark High School in lieu of classes. His love of information carried him through his study at Washington State University with a degree in Political Science and History in 1982. Nick had a passion for the law and an extensive career in law enforcement. Among his many accomplishments, he received the Border Patrol's highest honor for heroism in 1987. As with most in law enforcement, he had a rough exterior hiding a very caring heart. Nick retired from the Department of Homeland Security in 2009. In retirement, Nick loved to cook and was delighted to share his talents with those around him. He often filled the neighborhood with appetizing aromas from the grill or smoker. Gardening and yardwork consumed much of his summer days, if he didn't answer the door, you could simply find him in the orchard. He did manage to tame is own little acre. Nick is survived by his wife of 43 years, Barbara; his son Ethan Whitney; sisters Judy Hubbard and Susan Leinweber, along with many nephews and nieces. At Nick's request, there will be no formal memorial service. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be sent to Hospice of Spokane. He leaves us rich in memories.

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Published by Spokesman-Review from Jan. 6 to Jan. 9, 2019.

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Anthony Consolino

September 14, 2020

I just now found out about Nick's passing as I do not access social media; however, I wish to give my deepest condolences to his wife, Barbara, and the rest of his family and friends. I worked in the same office (former INS suboffice) as Nick from 1995 to 1999 in Spokane, Washington. I recall Nick and his wife, Barbara, kindly inviting me to their home for dinner in Spokane, Washington shortly after I arrived on duty. Nick was a good man, very smart, always full of confidence. He was certainly the best and the most competent Firearms Instructor I ever had, and during many conversations throughout my career I never hesitated with others to mention his good advice on the job. Once I left Spokane, Washington, returning to Arizona and working on the US/Mexico border, I unfortunately lost contact with Nick, but ALWAYS remembered the confidence and tact he exuded in many discussions he and I had regarding the field and his love for the outdoors. God bless you, Nick. And I know that those who loved you will always have a special place for you in their hearts. - Anthony Consolino, DHS/ICE (retired)

January 16, 2019

I will always remain deeply thankful for your family's hospitality, warm and humerous times, food, kindness and thoughtfulness. God bless Barb and Ethan, Rest in peace until we meet again, Nick. Skinny.

Ted Anderson

January 16, 2019

You worked with my Dad in the Border Patrol and he always spoke so highly of you. Thank you for your service and friendship with my Dad. I'll miss chatting with you about those days. And I'll remember a peaceful moment with you, along the river up on Canfield mountain. Life was good that day, last summer. God bless Nick, Barb and Ethan.

Gary and Donna Willms

January 9, 2019

Rest in peace our dear friend. You will be missed. We have shared many a good meal together with you Barb and Ethan. We never turned down an invite to your home. Your cuisine was top shelf. Thank you for teaching me to use my colt 38 special up at the lake that day. Thank you for your service to our country and being a friend to us. Meet you in Heaven.

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