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Virginia Donahue Obituary

VIRGINIA PIERCE DONAHUE long time resident of Stamford, CT and Stuart, FL, died on Saturday, May 23, 2009 at her home in Norwalk, CT. She was 90 years old. She was predeceased by her beloved husband of 68 years, Alphonsus Joseph Donahue Jr., former President and Chairman of Donahue Sales Corporation in New York, who passed away last year on June 6th. She was also predeceased by her grandchild, Cassidy Geary, who passed away on January 6th, 2008. Mrs. Donahue is survived by her 12 children, Al III of Ft Lauderdale, FL, Denny of Black Rock, Jack of Norwalk, Gingi Donohue of Little Falls, NJ, Don of Wilton, Tim of Palm Beach Gardens, FL, Jeff of Atlanta, GA, Patrick of Madison, Chris of Norwalk, David of Greenwich, Anne Geary of Norwalk, and Mary Grella of Fairfield. Mrs. Donahue is also survived by 25 grandchildren, 15 great grandchildren, and numerous nieces and nephews. Mrs. Donahue was born on December 9, 1918, in Flushing, New York, the third child of John Pierce and Isabel Clabby Pierce. She was a graduate of New Rochelle High School. She and her husband devoted most of their adult lives to raising their 12 children. She often commented on how the challenges of raising such a large family were totally outweighed by the joy she and her husband found in observing how close knit all of the children remained well into their adult lives. She was a devout Roman Catholic and was a member of St. Mary's Church, Our Lady, Star of the Sea, and St. Clements, all in Stamford. She was also a member of St. Thomas the Apostle Church in Norwalk. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, May 28, 2009, at 10:00 AM in St. Thomas the Apostle Church, 203 East Ave., Norwalk. Burial will follow in St. John Cemetery, 223 Richards Ave., Norwalk. In Lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in her memory may be made to Norwalk Hospital Foundation, 35 Maple Street, Norwalk, Ct 06850 or to St. Thomas the Apostle Church.203 East Ave., Norwalk, CT 06855. www.collinsfh.com

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Published by The Advocate on May 27, 2009.

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Patty Finnegan-DiPreta

June 4, 2009

Dear Dave and Donahue family, Thinking of you while grieving the loss of your spectacular Mother. This is a life to, truly celebrate. God Bless you all. Sincerely, Patty Finnegan-DiPreta

May 31, 2009

Our deepest sympathy to Denny and the entire Donahue family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sincerely,

Raf and Gina Davis and Family

PJ Nolan

May 31, 2009

Dear Donahues: I think sister Maura expessed well how highly regarded Aunt Virginia was/is in the Nolan family. To hear that eardrum-piercing whistle come out of that elegant woman for the purpose of rounding up you boys, is one of my fondest memories of her.

It is very sad when you lose both of your parents. Regardless of how old you are or the fact that you have children of your own, when the parents have been as influential in your lives as all four of our parents where, it's a great loss.

May the four of them have a great time in heaven without the 19 of us to bother them. And may none of us join them any too soon.

Love and sympathies

Margaret Cole Donahue

May 30, 2009

Dear Mom, as my mother in law for almost 30 years, you certainly shared in the good and bad of our lives. Bringing Megan home to Cummings Point was the best time of our life. Thank You for the love and forgiveness. Tell Dad not a day goes by where I don't think of you both and love to Cassie. With love , Margaret

Anne (Kolenberg) Cross

May 29, 2009

One of my fondest memories of Mrs.Donahue was when I was about 6 years old. My brother was babysitting me and we made popcorn (on the stove in a cast iron pot). I burned the inside of my wrist something terrible, on the hot pot. My brother took me by the other hand (he was about 12) and walked me down to the Donahue's house. Mrs.D met us at the front door. Without saying a word, I just lifted up my arm to reveal my torment. In a flash she had us in the kitchen giving me first aid the way only a Mom of 12 can.
Years later,at her grandson Matt's wedding in NJ I asked her "Do you remember when.." and she interjected "You burned you wrist and came to our house?" Then we both shared a laugh.

What a lady.

My sincere condolences to the entire Donahue Family.
This world's loss is heaven's gain.
Eternal rest grant onto her Oh Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her and by the loving and Divine Mercy of God, may she rest in peace. Amen.

May 29, 2009

The Donahue family have always been a wonderful part of our lives and will never ever be forgotten.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cameron and Patricia MacLean

Bill & Michelle Cole

May 29, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. May the many outstanding memories of a great life and of a great family bring you comfort.

Bill Austin

May 28, 2009

The Donahue Clan,

Please let me express my sincere sympathy over the loss of your mother.She and the Chief will be missed, but I'm sure they are now reunited, and will always be watching over all of you.

Bill & Cathy Austin

Bill Taylor

May 28, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

John LeBlanc

May 28, 2009

My years working at Donahue provide many warm memories and continue to include the close friends made during those days.
May God continue to smile upon the Donahue clan.

Chuck Walkley

May 27, 2009

My dearest Donahue family,
Please know that I grieve for you all. Having been lucky enough to have spent many Mother's days and father' days with both VPD and AJ I feel a tremendous loss as well. They both brightened the world with their kindness and most of all their love and humor. I can't recall ever laughing more than with stories told by and about them both. Thankfully they are now bringing their love and humor to heaven and they will both shine down on us from here on. I wish I could be there to say goodbye one last time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Maura Nolan

May 27, 2009

Dear Grieving Donahues,
I am so sorry for your incomparable loss. I’m sorry for my loss, too, but am grateful that Aunt Virginia and I’d had a long conversation a month or so ago when I got to express my feelings to her, about her. Judy and I were going to try to have lunch with her during Judy’s visit next week . . .

I don’t think this obit begins to convey who she was. Virginia Donahue, to us Nolans, was a diamond in the fabric of our lives. To me, she was movie-star glamorous. So beautiful. With her smoky Westchester Lockjaw. And her wonderful wit and sense of humor! Mother and Daddy always claimed she was a professional-quality mimic. And not to be overlooked, the whistle! Even surrounded by the chaos of twelve spirited kids, she found the energy to focus on the rest of us! Oh! Those Christmas afternoons at the Donahues! Her big, encompassing heart has clearly been passed to so many of you and I suppose that is her best legacy.

Like my mother, she was surely as great as the great men around her, my father and your father, among others. I love the pictures I have of them together, in fun, maybe on the Big Zip, two young wives and mothers. So lovely and refined.

I will never forget her. I’m so happy for her that she is reunited with her great love. But my heart goes out to you kids. God bless.

Maura Nolan

Diane Hanna

May 27, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

May 27, 2009

The Donahue family, so sorry to hear of your mother's passing, she and your father were both wonderful people. My parents admired them both. My deepest sympathy, Ken trout

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