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JEFFREY PHENICIE Obituary

JEFFREY WAYNE PHENICIE Jeff passed away at his home Sunday, August 27, 2017, at the age of 69. He is survived by his wife of 31 years, Shelia Phenicie, daughters, Jennifer Clemmons (Scott), Janna Watson (Mike), Christy Thompson (Will), and Sally Phenicie; grandchildren, Tyler, Blaire, Aleah, Grayson, Dylan, McKenzie, and Cale; his Aunt and Uncle who raised him, Red and Mary Shimp, now deceased; a brother, Steve Shimp (Doris); mother-in-law, Shirley Sergent; sisters-in-law, Stephanie Daniel (Bruce), and Shari Whitten (Travis); and his dog, Raven. Jeff was a devoted and beloved husband, father, PaPaw, and friend, who never met a stranger. He was an avid bowler, a sports enthusiast ("GO HAWKS!!"), coach, and mentor. He was the publisher and co-owner of The Ad Pak and Encore Magazine for over twenty years. He loved his job, his customers, his employees and partners. The family will receive friends from 1:00 pm until 2:00 pm Wednesday, August 30, 2017, at Andrews Valley Chapel, 4108 South College Road Wilmington. A funeral service will begin at 2:00 pm Wednesday in the chapel, immediately follow the visitation hour. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to the American Heart Association. Condolences may be sent to the family at www.andrewsmortuary.com Andrews Valley Chapel Service

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Published by Wilmington Star-News on Aug. 29, 2017.

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Susan Shimp

September 5, 2017

I am sorry to hear about Jeff. He was my cousin, as he was raised by my Aunt Mary and Uncle Red. We had great times together as children.

Martin Trant

September 4, 2017

Sheila I'm so very sorry to hear about Jeff. You and your family are in our prayers.

Furman & Jo Knight

August 31, 2017

Shelia,

Furman and I are so sorry to hear about Jeff. We want to know that our prayers and thoughts are with you and the family. You two will always be special people in our lives, even though we don't see each other often.
Love,
Furman and Jo Knight

Julie Dunne

August 30, 2017

Shelia, I just today heard that your precious hubby has gone home. I am so very sad for you and your family. I know he was your everything and how all the kids and grandkids adored him.
We worked hard, and laughed a lot together over the years giving the AdPak our all.
Even though I retired to be with my husband for a little while longer, I thought of Jeff often.
I truly do understand how broken hearted you are and will keep you and your family lifted up in prayer.

Al and Pat Bailey

August 30, 2017

Sheila, So very sorry to hear about Jeff, we will miss talking to him across the fence, he was always so friendly and we enjoyed his conversations, if you ever need anything please let my know

Julie & Rick Doyle

August 30, 2017

Loving thoughts and prayers for strength for all of you!

Joe George

August 30, 2017

Sheila and Family,
Jeff will be greatly missed by this fellow Seahawk fan and Five O'Clot buddy. In Jeff's own way, he has left me with great memories of times and stories we shared over the years. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Joe George

Shelia Phenicie

August 30, 2017

To all our family and friends..
Jeff loved all of you very much. When you would call or come by that was the best part of his day. The last couple months were hard because he couldn't be the socialite he wanted to be. The doctors kept telling him "it takes time to recover from what you went through". Obviously he didn't have that time. I will never understand why he is gone. I will miss him so much. He was my best friend and love of my life for over 31 years. Not sure how I'll do without him. My heart is broken.
I know it's not just me who lost a wonderful man. The girls and Tyler lost their dad. He loved you all very very much and was extremely proud of each of you and who you've become. I know it will be hard for you too.
Thanks for all your thoughts, prayers and caring.
Love to all

Rev'd. Carl Byrd

August 29, 2017

Shelia and Family,
My Prayers are for Jeff's Soul and May the Peace of the Lord rest and abide with the Family.
Rev'd.Carl A. Byrd
5 0'Clots

Dan Richey

August 29, 2017

Jeff was a great person to be around,,we were bowling partners many times and always a competitor. He will be missed by many. God bless his family and be with them in this time of grief

Tommy Chilcote

August 29, 2017

Please accept my deepest condolences in your heavy affliction. You were blessed in a partnership with a most exceptional husband in your life, I'm sure he was and always will be in your heart forever. And in the hearts of your children. The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched,they must be felt with heart. "A clot family member"

Nancy & Bobby Lear & Family

August 29, 2017

Sheila, Sally, McKenzie & Family,
We send loving thoughts & daily prayers to all for peace & calm & assurance that God is with you always, especially at this difficult time. May you feel His strength & favor upon you. You are never alone. Hugs to you all!

Robin Zecevich

August 29, 2017

Sally, Shelia & Tyler ...May God wrap his arms around you all & comfort you during this sad time. Sending prayers to all of the Phenicie family. Heaven just received an awesome angel.

Melissa Humphrey

August 29, 2017

Christy and Will... thinking of you often,praying for you daily.

Eric Holm

August 28, 2017

Jeff, you will always be missed. Whenever I think of Seahawk basketball, I will always feel your presence pulling for the Hawks.
You were always a great conversationalist, and I will miss hearing your stories.
Our lives were richer for having known you, but will be infinitely poorer for your loss. You will never be forgotten.

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Carolyn Parker

August 28, 2017

Janna, Christy, Jennifer, Sally and Sheila,
I am so so sorry for your loss Jeff was a wonderful man, father and husband he was always out going and friendly never knew a stranger. I am so honored to have known him all these years. May you all find comfort in your time of sorrow and keep his memories alive. I Love y'all like my own family and if there is anything I can do to help please don't hesitate to ask I'm only a phone call away. Sending my love thoughts and prayers to you all...

Wanda and Tommy Reynolds and family

August 28, 2017

Christy, Will and the whole family.
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.

Kim and Mike Yaeger

August 28, 2017

Dear Christy, Will and family. We were so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. May all your memories keep him close in your hearts forever.

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