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WILBER RABON Obituary
Wilber Earl Rabon, 77, of Leland, NC, died peacefully at his residence surrounded by his wife, children, and grandchildren on Monday, January 21, 2013. He was born September 12, 1935, in Brunswick County, the son of the late Frank Columbus Rabon and Cora Flowers Rabon.
In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his siblings; James Roy Rabon, Elsie Manning, Emma Louise Major, Lillian Watkins, Daniel Rabon, Landis Rabon, and Frankie Rabon.
Wilber is survived by his beloved wife, Doris Anderson Rabon, who was his high school sweetheart and first and only love of 62 years. He also is survived by sons; Randy Rabon (Anita Bridgers), Wayne Rabon (Kim Medlin), daughters; Kathy Summerlin (Harvey), Melody Lugo (Rocky) all of Leland, NC, siblings; Elizabeth "Bill" Mercer, Carter Rabon, Tonda Henry, Cheryl Mintz, and Gayle Sullivan, grandchildren; Holly Summerlin Sellers (Michael), Erica Summerlin Kopp (Daniel), Adrianne Lugo Terzian (Eddy), Chad Summerlin (Candice), Christopher Rabon, Candice Rabon Jozak (Jon), Charles Brandon Rabon, and Morgan Lugo, great grandchildren; Macy Sellers, Brooke Rabon, Christian Summerlin, Gage Sellers, Sarah Katherine Kopp and Anna Kopp, and numerous nieces and nephews. He is also survived by his mother in law, Alma Anderson, 98, whom he dearly loved and cherished.
Wilber will be remembered as a loving husband and a caring father, grandfather, and brother who valued his family and friends deeply. He was an avid hunter and enjoyed spending his time outdoors. He graduated from Bolivia High School and then attended NC State University. After graduation he worked at Federal Paper Co. in Riegelwood, NC where he retired after 40 years. He spent many years serving the state of North Carolina and Brunswick County. He was the recipient of the state's highest civilian honor, the Order of the Long Leaf Pine. Wilber served on the Brunswick County Board of Education, was a Brunswick County Commissioner, was appointed to the NC Highway Commission, served on the NC Department of Transportation Board, and was a member of the Southeastern Economic Development Commission and the Southeastern Mental Health Board. He was a member of the Orient Masonic Lodge 395 for 47 years, and an active member of the Sudan Temple of New Bern, and a charter member of the Brunswick County Shrine Club. He also served on the Board of Directors for Security Savings Bank since 1984. He is a lifelong member of Zion United Methodist Church.
A funeral service for Wilber will be held on Saturday, January 26, 2013, at Mt. Olive Baptist Church, 2919 Galloway Road Northeast, Bolivia, NC 28422 at 11:00am with the Reverend Anthony Clemmons officiating. The family will receive friends prior to the service from 9:30 am to 11:00am at the church. Following the funeral service a burial service will be held at Zion United Methodist Church, 6864 Zion Church Road Northeast, Leland, NC 28451.
Pallbearers will be Sandy Dew, Vincent Driggers, Ed "Bud" Maultsby, Tom Maultsby, Scott Phillips and Gene Ward. Honorary Pallbearers will be Ralph Frazier, Louis Grissom, Tommy Harrelson, Frank Henry, Ronald Hewett, Barry Jethwa, Roy Mintz, Elbert Mobley, R.G. Sellers, and Greg Swain.
The family would like to thank Dr. Neill Musselwhite and his staff for the loving care and support they provided Wilber and his family.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Lower Cape Fear Hospice House of Brunswick, 955 Mercy Lane SE Bolivia, NC 28422, Zion United Methodist Church of Leland, NC, or a charity of one's choice.
Condolences may be sent to the family at www.coblewardsmithwilmington.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for WILBER RABON
Fred & Cheryl Mintz
February 22, 2014
Hi Big Brother,
Can't believe it has been a year and one month since you left us to be with family and friends in Heaven. We have missed you deeply but know you are in a much better place. Keep watching over us and give our love to our other loved ones who are with you. Rest in peace.
Holly Sellers
February 23, 2013
You were a such a wondeful grandfather and a great role model to our whole family. We always had someone to look up to...I look up tonight and can see that wonderful smile you always had. Gage talks about you almost everyday. We miss you so much and we will meet again one day. Love you and miss you so much!
Brenda Clemmons
January 28, 2013
What an honor and privilege it was to call you Uncle. We know that life is a journey of sweetness and sorrows of yesterdays, of memories and our hopes for tomorrow; of pathways we choose and detours we will face. You taught me to face them with patience, humor, courage and grace. We have had some great times and shared some precious memories. I remember when you and Uncle Frankie used to pick me to volunteer at various political functions during the 70's & 80's. Little did I know then how much influence both of you would have on my decision to run for public office. You were always one of my biggest and most loyal supporters.
A recent memory that I will treasure forever occurred on December 3, 2012. Although you weren't feeling well, you somehow willed yourself to hold the Holy Bible at my swearing in as Register of Deeds that night. As always, you had that sweet, gentle smile on your face. The best part of the evening was that you had no idea that you were the one who was going to be the center of attention. There you were surrounded by your loving and proud family, who were there to publically recognize you as recipient of the Order of The Long Leaf Pine Award that was originally presented to you by Governor Holshouser in 1973. What a legacy you have left for your family and the community that you cared for so deeply.
Then on January 21, 2013, you lifted your wings and soared, heaven-bound, leaving a huge hole in the lives and hearts of so many. I know that somehow I'll get through this but my life will never be the same without you. What a blessing to know that you are free of any sickness and that someday, we will meet again. Until then, know that you will always live in my heart and I will always cherish the time spent knowing and loving you, My Sweet, Sweet Uncle Wilber. I love and miss you,
Your Special Niece,
Brenda
Kayde Smith Brown and family~
January 28, 2013
To the WONDERFUL Rabon family: I could NEVER put into words ALL that I want to say to you!
Mr. Wilber was an INTERGRAL part of my life. He helped watch over me as I was growing up--while I watched over his own grandkids growing up.
Never did I see him that he didn't have a kind, uplifiting word; a smile and a hug. He always made me feel good, and his smile was contagious! Such an awesome man.
And he leaves behind a legacy. Kathy, Melody, Wayne, Randy, grandkids AND great grandkids: the apple does not fall far from the tree.
Love you guys more than you will EVER know......hoping you find a peace that surpasses ALL understanding.
God bless--
Anita Russo
January 27, 2013
Doris, Randy, Wayne, Mel, & Kathy Grief is a harrowing journey, a journey that changes people. But through it, we strengthen. Greif, we must not allow it to define who we are, but let it prepare us for who we will be. My thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone of you. Love you all.
Anita Russo
January 27, 2013
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Alma Anderson
January 27, 2013
To the greatest son-in-law a mother could ever hope to have I love you so much and I will always miss you dearly. Look after Charlie and give him my love. Happy and Baby will miss hearing that Red truck coming down the road. Love you always Alma
Cheryl Mintz
January 27, 2013
Doris, Randy, Kathy, Wayne, Melody and Family;
Wilber's memories will live forever in our hearts. His love and dedication for his family and everyone he knew is beyond words. He was a man willing to help anyone in need. His generosity was never ending.
We love our brother, Wilber, deeply and will miss him. The Service was Beautiful. "Wish You Were Here"
Love Until We Meet Again,
Your Brother & Sisters
Bill, Carter, Tonda, Cheryl and Gayle
January 27, 2013
My sincerest condolences on your loss. My prayers are with you and your family during this time of grief.
John Bordeaux, Orient Lodge 395
January 26, 2013
Our condolences to your family. Wilbur Earl was a fine man, a good citizen, and a good neighbor. He will be missed by many. Margaret and Chuck Shelton
Jennifer Cooke
January 26, 2013
I recently met your father while taking care of him, he was such a pleasure and sweet gentleman. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Tommy Cavenaugh
January 26, 2013
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Marva Moss
January 26, 2013
Dear Kathy, (and members of the Rabon family),although I can't recall meeting your dad, I am saddened to learn about your loss. Hold fast to the wonderful memories of your loved one.
Sincerely,
Marva
Gayle Sullivan
January 25, 2013
we will all miss and love you Wilber and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
love always
Gayle
Marsha Cochran
January 25, 2013
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy on your loss. As the pain of your loss eases, you will be able to take comfort in remembering all the wonderful times you shared with Mr. Rabon. You are in my prayers. Marsha Cochran
Sandi & Ron Colson
January 25, 2013
Mr. Wilber you will be missed by so many people for so many reasons. Prayers for the family and friends of Mr. Wilber are going up.
Thank you Father God for being Always Faithful and holding us all in your hands in this time of sorrow. Please bless Mr. Wilber's family through these sad times and gird them with Grace and Peace. Give them Joy with their memories of their loved one gone ahead of them. Fill them with Faith that one day we all shall be together in Heaven. Amen.
Not Goodbye but see U SOON!
Patricia Verricchia
January 25, 2013
Rabon Family, Didnt get to know Mr. Wilber very long but he was one of the kindest and caring person I ever met. He sure looked after me the 8 months I took care of loved one. And I know his family loved him sooo much. Whwn my Mom died couple of months ago Wilbur and Doris were truly caring in my time of need. Love U guys! Im here if U ever need me! Trish That is saying See U in a little while!
Jessica Johns & Erika Ashley
January 25, 2013
Mr. Wilber,
You will be truly missed. Thank you for your dedication and service to North Carolina and Brunswick County. You will always be in my heart. Until we meet again.....
Cheryl Smith
January 25, 2013
There are no words to express what Wilbur meant to me. He was the kindest, most caring man! There was not a time that he didn't throw up his hand and wave whenever he saw me. His hugs were the best! Although my uncle married his sister, Lillian, I always felt as though Wilbur Earl was my family too. Doris, Kathy, Melody, Randy & Wayne Earl, I feel your pain of loss, but please know that Jesus is taking care of him, and I am sure that my Mama and Daddy met him on the other side with open arms! I love you all so much!
Mary Hickman
January 25, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Mr. Wilbur was a very special person. We will all miss him.
Andy Rego
January 24, 2013
My condolences to Doris and the family. I always looked forward to and thoroughly enjoyed my time with Wilber during my Riegelwood visits. Rest in peace my good friend.
Erica Kopp
January 24, 2013
I loved and respected my grandfather more than he ever knew. He was a kind, honest man that loved his family and friends. He loved my daughters and they loved their nightly phone calls from Papa. I will miss him and think about him every day.
Fallon Clemmons
January 24, 2013
My thoughts and Prayers are with you all.
Melissa Harris
January 24, 2013
To Kathy and family,
Your dad's amazing spirit and wonderful life will certainly continue to bless us here through his legacy in all of you. Your dear family is precious and will pass his spirit and love of life, family, and friends on for generations. You are in my thoughts and always my prayers, with love.
Cindy Beasley
January 24, 2013
Melody and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love you dearly, Cindy Perry Beasley
Zada & Donald Harvell
January 24, 2013
Love and Prayers for the Family. May your memories give you comfort at this time.
PAUL & LOIS WALTER
January 24, 2013
OUR PRAYS GO OUT TO ALL THE RABON FAMILY. NEVER MEET A RABON THAT EVERYBODY DIDN'T LOVE.
Deborah White
January 24, 2013
Prayers are with all the family. Wilbur will truly be missed. He was one of the most honorable and genuine men I have ever known. May God be with you all.
January 24, 2013
May God keep you in this difficult time, keeping your family lifted in prayer, continue to look to the hills,from which cometh your help.
Sabrina Johnson
John Watkins
January 24, 2013
I will miss my uncle "WE" and the wise counsel he provided to me over the years. A great man that accomplished great things.....his life was such a blessing for not only the family but for everyone he met
January 24, 2013
I'll never forget the good times I spent with Mr.Wilber and his boys when I was growing up. I basically lived with Randy and Wayne in the woods or on the creek. Mr. Wilber always treated me like I was one of his own.He always called me "Bear", right up to the last time I saw him.He will be missed.
Larry N. Young
Ashley Park
January 24, 2013
Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know that are happy. (Author Unknown ).
I love you sweet family. Ashley
Scott,Shannon,Andrew,Mason &Reagan Phillips
January 24, 2013
We miss your smiling face and big hugs so much Mr Wilber. But what we miss the most is your sweet spirit and friendship that we will cherish forever.This is not "goodbye", but "see you later".
Frankie & Cindy Stanley
January 24, 2013
They didn't come much better than Mr. Wilbur. A wonderful friend that was respected and admired. He will definitely be missed...
January 24, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Wilbur, especially Doris and Randy whom I worked with for many years. Louise and Jerry Hill
Kathy
January 23, 2013
Daddy,
I miss you so much! I love you.
Charlie Miller
January 23, 2013
Ms.Doris, Randy, Wayne, Cathy and Melody,
We are so sorry to hear of Mr. Wilber's passing, a true loss to so many. I will always value and remember the many, many conversations we had about family, Brunswick County and for sure Politics. He loved his family so much and is the kindest person I have ever known. All of you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Charlie & Patty Miller
January 23, 2013
The best "boss" and friend that I ever had. This world has lost a really good man, husband, and father.
Faye S. Marks
Larry Hall
January 23, 2013
Mr. Wilber will be missed. He was like a brother to me. A good friend, we enjoyed Bee Tree Farm, he spoke often of Miss Doris and his girls and boys. My tears and prayers for his family.
Steve Wilkins
January 23, 2013
We are so sorry for your loss.He will be surely missed. Our prayers are with you all. Your Neighbors
Steve&Kim Wilkins and Family
Billy Ingram
January 23, 2013
Billy, Katherine & Sean Ingram, May God Bless the Family.
Keith and Jill Eubanks
January 23, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Hunky and Annie Walker
January 23, 2013
Sorry for your loss.
January 23, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Thurston Cumbee
January 23, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with Wilber's Family at this time and in the days ahead. He was a good Man and a longtime FRIEND.
Kenneth & Betty Benton
January 23, 2013
Thought a lot of Wilber Earl.
Frank Williams
January 23, 2013
Wilber was a great man who did a lot for Brunswick County, and he will be missed. My prayers are with the family.
John Cowand
January 22, 2013
Here's to a good friend and a good work companion. I hope to see you again in the by and by. Maybe they will have a good deer hunt in Heaven.
Ed Maultsby and Wilber Earl had a really good day!
Joni Lewis Barnes
January 22, 2013
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