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Mary Adelaide Roberts Hardesty

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Mary Adelaide Roberts Hardesty Mary Adelaide Roberts Hardesty, 80, passed away at home in her sleep on November 12, 2011. Mary had a long, eventful life, living and traveling all over the world. While living in Hawaii as a young woman, she attended Punahou School and took Hula lessons from the famous Hilo Hattie. Mary lived most of her years in Washington, DC, where she attended Alice Deal Junior High and Woodrow Wilson High School. Mary loved the energy of Washington: the city, its newspaper, public policy and political causes, especially those that championed the needy and the underserved. Mary was a beautiful writer with a fondness for language. In her early 20's, she wrote copy for a TV station in Georgia and for the National Geographic. After raising a family, she went back to school and to writing, completing her master's thesis on political folklore in her 40's. She wrote press releases as the press secretary for Attorney General Mark White, later Governor of Texas. "Mary was a devoted friend," Governor White said on learning of her death. "For almost 40 years my family and I have been the beneficiaries of her indomitable spirit. When I ran for office, Mary offered her talents to the effort. She was without question the most committed volunteer in the campaign. Fantastic is the term for her inspired efforts. She worked harder than anyone, including the candidate." Mary loved poetry and the beauty of the apposite word. She kept close her memory of having been taught by Robert Frost at Middlebury College. Even in her 70's, Mary could complete a New York Times crossword puzzle in less than an hour. She had a fondness for dogs and after she could no longer care for a dog herself, always carried a dog cookie in her pocket in case she ran across someone walking their dog. Mary was a talented hostess, catering her own parties in Washington, DC while her husband Bob worked in the White House during the 1960's. After the family moved to Austin, Texas, she continued to host old Washington friends and new Texas friends at their home overlooking Lake Austin. Mary returned to Washington more than twenty years ago and lived in Kalorama Square before retiring to an assisted living facility in Frederick, Maryland. Mary is survived by her husband Bob, her children Beth, Bruce, John and Ann, her sons in law, Roger Hurst and Steve Chiles, her grandsons, Joshua Garza, Eric Hurst and Alden Hurst.

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Published by Austin American-Statesman on Nov. 16, 2011.

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Beverly Stoeltje and Dick Bauman

November 30, 2011

Mary brought genuine enthusiasm to her studies in the Folklore Program at the University of Texas, Austin. Her spirit, ideas, and generosity were an inspiration to us all. We have fond memories of the party she gave at her beautiful home for students and faculty alike. It is a gift we will treasure to have known her.

Michele Frazier

November 18, 2011

Part of the wonderful legacy and family that was SWT is gone, but there are many of us who remember your mom during the Hardesty years. Thank you for sharing her and your dad with all of us. She was a true lady. Blessings to your family.

Mary Bruce (Brucie) Baker

November 17, 2011

I have many wonderful memories of my Aunt Mary (and Uncle Bob). I was named after Mary but used my nickname all my life. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Monica & Bill Burdeshaw

November 17, 2011

So many memories of Mary, her spirit, her love of life which will never fade. She was part of our life for many years, and we send our heartfelt thoughts and prayers for her family.

Alan Erwin

November 16, 2011

Bob -- and kids -- we are so sorry to hear about your loss. Mary was a wonderful woman who made every life she touched better. We hope that the memories of her life and good works will sustain you during the coming days. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you at this time. With love and fond memories,

Alan and Gay Erwin

Andréa Mahee

November 16, 2011

Dearest Beth, so very sorry to learn of your loss. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong. Rest easy. Heal gently. Love always, Andréa Mahee

Mike & Vanetta Peterson

November 16, 2011

Beth, Mike and I send our sincere condolences to you and your family for the loss of your mom. Please call me when you need me. We will be thinking of you and yours. Love, Vanetta & Mike

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