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Pat Abell

1943 - 2022

Pat Abell obituary, 1943-2022, Statesville, NC

BORN

1943

DIED

2022

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Troutman, North Carolina

Pat Abell Obituary

Pat Abell

Patsy Nell Bost Abell passed away peacefully in her sleep, during the early morning hours of Monday, May 30, 2022.

Pat was born in Knoxville, Tenn., Jan. 28, 1943. She was the daughter of Ernest Conley Bost of Bee Tree, and S. Ruth Ballance of Kenly. Her parents moved to Marion when she was two. She graduated from Pleasant Gardens School where she excelled in basketball and took great pride in being one of the first female bus drivers. Pat attended UNC Chapel Hill, where she received her bachelor's degree in Physical Therapy. While at Chapel Hill, Pat met J. Curtis Abell, whom she married in 1964.

Two years later the Abells moved Lexington, Ky., where she loved to work as an in-home physical therapist in several neighboring eastern counties while he completed his pediatric training. Pat and Curtis then traveled to Klamath Falls, Ore., where both of their sons were born during his service in the U.S. Air Force. The new Abell family arrived in Statesville in 1972. Pat was initially a homemaker but soon began to work as a physical therapist at Iredell Memorial Hospital where she remained for 33 years. She was noted for her vivacious personality and for her caring thoughtfulness. She touched the lives of many persons and lifted the spirits of many patients. Pat's interests and hobbies included promoting the careers of young women through A.A.U.W., making clothes for her family, reading, listening to music, outdoor activities, traveling, supporting various charities, and in her later years, making quilts and associating with her beloved quilting group.

Pat was preceded in death by her parents; and brother, C. Daniel Bost of Morganton.

Surviving family members who will always remember and cherish their time with her are her husband of 57 years, Dr. James Curtis Abell; sons, James Anthony "Tony" Abell, wife Cari, of Lorton, Va., and their daughters, Rylee Marie Abell, Wesli Ruth Abell, Marly Elizabeth Abell; Dr. Geoffrey Alan Abell, of San Diego, Calif., and his children, Juliet Antonia Abell, Oliver James Alexander Abell, and Felix Henry Abell; and brother, Dr. Michael E. Bost, wife, Merlyn, of Winston-Salem.

A celebration of life service will be held within the next several weeks and will be announced via a future posting.

The family expresses their gratitude to the medical personnel who have been especially involved in Pat's prolonged and complicated medical journey. Special thanks go to Dr. James Foushee, her exceptionally compassionate primary physician, to Dr. Ruby Grimm and her caring office personnel, to Dr. Sinasi Salman and the Statesville Dialysis Center staff, to Dr. Jim Bradford and his kind manner, and to Dr. Allen Romeo for his generous and valuable advice to Pat's husband and caretaker. Also, we want to voice our gratitude to all those blood donors who selflessly contribute.

Those wishing to make memorials in her memory are asked to consider American Association of University Women (AAUW); American Cancer Society; National Kidney Foundation; American Heart Association; and St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

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Published by Statesville Record & Landmark on Jun. 5, 2022.

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Pam Wooten

August 9, 2022

Pat was so great to work with. She always coordinated patients PT with the nursing staff. She let us bath patients first so while they walked we could change linens. How did I know Pat? She was a coworker, confidante, advisor, sounding board, and best of all a great friend. She will be so missed. But, heaven has a new and beautiful angel.

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Susan Harmon

June 14, 2022

My talented, friendly, curious friend. She was a wonderful inspiration to me.

Diana Bromley

June 7, 2022

Friendship quilt presentation 2022

American Heart Association

June 7, 2022

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Trini Irvis

June 6, 2022

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. May God keep blessing you and your family. Love you Trini Irvis

Malvia Houpe

June 6, 2022

Pat was a wonderful therapist so compassionate about her patients. Sincere condolences to Dr Abell and entire family

Donna Guy

June 6, 2022

Pat will be greatly missed. Prayers for Dr. Abell and all her family.

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