Search by Name

Search by Name

Bernice Urhahn Obituary

Urhahn, Bernice B. (nee Ryan), Baptized into the hope of Christ's Resurrection, Mon., July 11, 2011. Beloved wife of Jesse Michael Urhahn; dear mother and motherin-law of Christopher (Nahil) Urhahn, Nicole (Randy) Bopp, Amanda (Nick) Hillebrand, Nathaniel, Matthew, and the late Joshua Aaron Urhahn; dear grandmother of Josephine, Ethan, Juliana and Caroline; dear sister of Sr. Rosemary SSND, Robert (Pam) Ryan and the late Edward (Lynn) Ryan; dear daughter-in-law of Francis and Jessie Urhahn; dear sister-in-law of Dennis, William, LaDonna, Melissa and Belinda; our dear aunt, greataunt, cousin and friend. Bernice was a foster parent for 18 years, mother to 85 plus children. Services: Mass of the Resurrection Fri., July 15, 10 a.m. at Holy Trinity Church, 3500 St. Luke Ln., St. Ann, MO. With visitation one hour prior at church. Interment Sacred Heart Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations to Ranken Jordan, 11365 Dorsett Rd., Maryland Heights, MO 63043 appreciated. ORTMANN Service

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Jul. 13, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
for Bernice Urhahn

Not sure what to say?





July 29, 2011

Dear Jesse,
Please accept my sympathy on the occasion of Bernice's death. Both of you were an integral part of our SLU faculty and staff retreat weekends and your devotion to and love for each other and all your children, especially Matthew, was so evident. Know of my prayers for you and your family. Sr Mary White, ascj

KATHLEEN PASTORIUS

July 17, 2011

With deepest sympathy.

Tom and Kathleen Pastorius & Family

Stacey Hayes-Geldmacher

July 15, 2011

Urhan Family--I was friends with Amanda in gradeschool and though we lost touch through the years, I was very saddened to hear of your loss. Mrs. Urhahn was such a nice and open hearted woman!

I pray that Gods peace be with all of you at this time!

Liz Paradowski

July 15, 2011

Dear Jesse, I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your dear wife. Please know that I am thinking of and praying for you and your family at this time.

Rosemary Jermann

July 15, 2011

Jesse,
I feel privileged to have known you and Bernice. It always seemed that what you shared came from both of you, and it enriched the rest of us at the faculty/staff retreats. Thank you for sharing Bernice with us. Know that I hold you in loving prayer at this time of great sorrow.
With much sympathy and care,
Rosemary Jermann

Courtney Johnson Porter

July 15, 2011

Dearest Urhahn family, I have the most wonderful childhood memories of playing games at your house and eating Bernice's homemade icing. Bernice always made a day special. What a wonderful friend and neighbor Bernice was to my Grandma. It was always a comfort to know your family was next door. Bernice will be missed by all who knew her. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Rose & Dan Sloven

July 14, 2011

Dear Michael, Sr Rosie and family,
How wonderful it is when our paths in life bring us together to share love, hope, joy and even grief. Bernice was such a blessing to so many. We are so very sorry for your loss and remember her loving spirit.

July 14, 2011

Dear Urhahn family,
I was very lucky to have had the great opportunity to work with Matthew, Bernice and Michael. I witnessed the great love and respect that was shared with Matthew and their Foster Children. Those babies will miss Bernice's loving care. All who knew Bernice will miss her.
Love,
Mary Curran

Jackie (Kaufman) Henderson

July 14, 2011

Urhahn family,
I  am so sorry for your loss. I was friends with Amanda in grade school and wanted you to know what fond memories I have of Bernice. When I think about making a gooey butter cake I think of my time over at your house! Know she has planted so many wonderful seeds in people's lives in even the simplest of ways.  I can imagine her getting a full revelation of the impact her life has had right now. Truly a legacy left.

Lisa Terneus

July 14, 2011

Jesse, I have had the privilege of being with you and Bernice on the SLU Faculty Staff Retreats. I have missed both of you and always look forward to seeing you both. You and Bernice will always be a testimony for me as you shared your love for God, for each other and your family. I am so sad for your loss, and know you are in my prayers. Love and prayers to you and your family.

Sandra Spencer

July 13, 2011

Jesse, I have missed you at our retreats. It seemed always so right to have the two of you in the circle. And that is the picture I willkeep - the two of you together, sharing your faith, your lives and your love. I am so saddened by your loss. My prayers, joined with so many others, are with you, Jesse. Courage and peace.

Ken, Dawn Leppert

July 13, 2011

Mike and family anyone who knew Bernice loved her. She is and will be missed. We are praying for you all. May God send his comfort today and in the days ahead.
What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch. We may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little we begin to remember not just that you died, but you lived, and your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget.
Love and comfort to you all,
Ken and Dawn Leppert, & family

John Buckley

July 13, 2011

We are very sorry to hear this. Our prayers are with all of you.
Jack and Angelika Buckley

Elizabeth Garwacki-Sanders

July 13, 2011

My family has yours in their prayers.

Sally Bolderson

July 13, 2011

Mike and family...I can't express what an amazing witness and friend Bernice was. She will not be forgotten. I pray for all of you as you move on without her. God is with you always, you are not alone.

Showing 1 - 15 of 15 results

Make a Donation
in Bernice Urhahn's name

Memorial Events
for Bernice Urhahn

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Bernice's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Bernice Urhahn's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more