Paletta, Christopher Xavier
Christopher Xavier Paletta, 34,
died peacefully in Naples, FL Thursday morning, May 13 surrounded by his father, brothers, and a guardian angel that had been at his side during an 8 year struggle with a chronic and debilitating illness, Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy ("RSD"). His final days were filled with music, meditation, and the love of adoring friends and family. Christopher graduated from St. Louis Priory and the University of Denver. His gifted intellect and thirst for knowledge led him west to San Francisco where he pursued a doctorate in neuropsychology at the California School of Professional Psychology. Chris always balanced strenuous academics with his core passions: he was a talented artist and musician, and his appreciation for music sent him traveling around the US to countless concerts of his favorite band Phish. But his greatest passion was his Siberian Husky Leo who he often ran on the beaches of the Pacific Ocean, along the banks of Lake Tahoe and the streams of the Colorado Rockies. Christopher had a keen intellect and unassuming brilliance. He was both creative and innovative, and his clinical interests were focused in novel therapies for disorders of the brain and nervous system. His research of psychedelics was at the forefront of cutting edge therapies for PTSD and other psychological traumas. Unfortunately, his research and professional career were cut short by an innocuous nerve injury that would change his life forever. During his 8 year odyssey, Christopher and his father consulted leading experts around the world in science and medicine in a relentless search for novel treatments for RSD, a rare neuro-inflammatory syndrome that subjects its victims to the worst pain condition known to medicine. Sadly, the syndrome is a medical mystery, and science has yet to find a treatment for this debilitating disorder. Undeterred, Christopher created innovative regimens and unique synergies that at times slowed the progression of the disease, impressing medical experts at his success at achieving significant symptom relief. Throughout Chris' battle, he displayed a positive attitude and remarkable resilience of a warrior that kept going in spite of insurmountable obstacles and unbearable suffering. He had enormous courage and stamina, unwavering strength and passionate determination that gained him a remarkable reputation among leading medical experts who held him in the highest esteem as an extraordinary innovator. Chris had a unique and special spirit that touched everyone whose paths he crossed. He was truly an inspiration to everyone, extraordinary in every sense, from doctors and nurses, to many RSD sufferers around the country, and most of all to his friends and family who held him in awe. His creative brilliance led to the discovery of several innovative regimens that are being researched and adopted by leading medical institutions and pain experts around the country, most notably Johns Hopkins and Cleveland Clinic. His journey is the subject of a book being written, and a documentary mini-series being produced. In his final days, he carried a sense of grace and class that moved everyone around him as he composed music and meditated, and reached out to countless friends expressing gratitude for having been a part of his life. Christopher's legacy and his spirit will live on long after his passing. Christopher is survived by his parents, Deborah Paletta of Newport Coast, CA, Richard Paletta of Naples, FL, and his brothers Nicholas Paletta of Tulsa, OK, and Theodore Paletta of Denver, CO, and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. Friends who would like to make contributions in his name may do so to Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy Syndrome Association ("RSDSA"), 99 Cherry St., Milford, CT 06460 or St. Louis Priory School, 500 S. Mason Rd., St. Louis, MO 63141.
Services: Christopher's body will be cremated, and a private memorial service will be scheduled at a later date. Burial will be private.
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Dr. Charles Horowitz
June 24, 2024
He was a very sweet, bright and talented young man ahead of his time. What a loss.
Ahmed Subaie
September 26, 2022
I m so sorry for your loss. Even though I met Chris through my friend Bander a few times, I still recall his name out of thousand people I met in Colorado. He was a friend of everyone he met. May he Rest In Peace and I m really sorry for your loss. He was a great guy , friendly and humble. It is all of us loss. I will pray for him.
Estelle Stone
May 12, 2022
Debbie, I can only pray that with time, the pain will get a tiny bit fainter. I know it will never fully dissipate. May his memory be eternal and live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him. May God be with you always.
madonna shields merritt
April 14, 2022
Debbie, I'm so sorry for your heart breaking loss.
You are in my prayers.
Love, Madonna
Genie Caras
July 16, 2021
I´m so sorry for the loss of your son , I also have have RSD for 9 years, it horrible pain, I was pleased to read all the studies you and your son did... wish he could have finished that book
Laura Ducey
July 3, 2021
I am so sorry for your loss. I've had RSD for 30 years. I found a interthecall pump a year a little over a year ago. It may help in your book. I send thoughts & prayer's sent to everyone
Jane and Andy Geisse
May 25, 2021
We are so sorry to hear of your loss, and we both hope that fond memories of Chris are able to bring you some peace. And, I, too, am thinking of you, Debbie.
Anna Boylan
May 24, 2021
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Praying for Debbie and family for the very painful loss.
Dianna L Dull
May 23, 2021
Chris had the sweetest soul and kindest heart. I was his Myofascial Release Therapist for a few years. We always had the deepest heartfelt conversations. My heart goes out to his family and loved ones.
I know he is finally pain-free and looking down with his sweet smile.
In Peace, Light and Love
Dianna Dull
Bandar Alhudaithi
May 23, 2021
A true friend is someone who accepts your past, supports your present and encourages your future.
I´m so sorry. My heart goes out to you.My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.Our souls are hardened of pain on hearing of the premature and unfair disappearance of those who were our mentors and colleagues. We knew, appreciated and admired They will remain forever in our memory Sincere condolences
Chris Paletta.My best friend
Sarah Hager Trulaske
May 23, 2021
My prayers are for your family and all of Chris´ loving friends. Life is so precious, and Debbie ...I´m thinking about you very much
Mary Murray Staples
May 23, 2021
With deepest sympathies. So sorry for your loss.
Joey Walsh
May 22, 2021
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Joey Walsh
May 22, 2021
If there is anything I or my family can do to help ease your transition. Let me know.
Chris´ soul will forever remain in my heart. He was the talent we needed on the Our Lady of Pillar´s soccer team. (still to this day he was the only one that could do the footie rainbow) I remember going to Blockbuster for one movie but he and I spent like 2 hours in there just debating and deliberating on what the right playlist of VHS´ we could rent that would complete our sleep over. We both took a different fork in the road via high school but I will never forget that gentle soul and all around awesome personality. Thank y´all for creating raising and letting such an individual into my life. He meant the moon to the the world and the world to the moon. Condolences
-Joey
Ismini Bata
May 20, 2021
My deepest condolences. I know the pain is unbearable. Christopher is not gone he is just in heaven watching over you (his mom, his dad and his brothers). No one leaves from the moment it is in our mind and in our soul. I love you very much and I send you a big hug. Our love and sympathy from the whole family of greece. Our prayers are with you and the family.
Diana M. Fowler
May 19, 2021
There can be no pain more terrible than that of losing a child. My heart and prayers go out to you Debbie. May the memory of your dear son, Chris, be eternal.
Estelle Stone
May 19, 2021
My condolences are with you at this difficult time. May his memory be eternal. My prayers are with you Debbie.
Mike Lawrie
May 19, 2021
So sorry for your family´s loss. My prayers are with you and family.
Jane Albrecht
May 18, 2021
Dear Richard and Debbie, Words can't express how sorry I am for your loss. Christopher was an extraordinary human being. Know that your cousins (and cousins-in-law) are thinking of you, praying for you, and sending you our love. Jane Albrecht
Jennifer Smith
May 18, 2021
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Chris as the sweetest young man. My deepest sympathies for your loss. Hugs
Deane Jones
May 18, 2021
Christopher had a beautiful big soft gentle smile.
ila gomez
May 18, 2021
August 20, 2014- I was fortunate to meet Chris for the first time at Debbie's home in Newport Coast, CA. He had a beautiful heart and soul.
Sending prayers for you and your family during this difficult time. Hold on to your memories of him. May the thought of his life well-lived keep you strong and give you comfort.
Karol H Noone
May 18, 2021
Chris, and his amazing father went beyond the limits of human love. I feel honored to have known them both.
Karol Noone
Joseph V Pergolizzi, MD
May 18, 2021
Chris is hero. I want to offer you my sincerest condolences.
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