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David Duebelbeis Obituary

Duebelbeis, David G. fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church, Sunday, June 19, 2011. Dear son of the late Robert and Geraldine Duebelbeis; dear brother of Mary Dale O'Neil, Tom (Diana) and Cheryl Duebelbeis; dear uncle of Bobby, Tommy, Jon, Eric, Meghan, Danny, and Michael; our dear cousin and friend to many. Services: Memorial visitation at KUTIS AFFTON CHAPEL, 10151 Gravois, Friday, July 1, 6 p.m. until service at 7 p.m.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Jun. 26, 2011.

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July 3, 2011

We have never met....but my grandfather worked with your family (Emmett,Bob, Ken, and Dan) at National Cover. I attended Bob's funeral as a very small child. Gerri stayed in touch for many years, and I was sorry to see that she has passed, but at peace that she has been reunited with Bob who has been gone from this earth so many years. My sympathies as you struggle with the loss of your uncle, cousin and friend. Lean on the Lord for strength as the pain and sorrow fill these early days. Let happy memories fill the void of his absence.

Sidonia Bowen

July 1, 2011

Do not stand by my grave & weep, I am not there I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, I am a diamond glint on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awake in the morning hush, I am the swift uplifting rush. Of quiet birds in circling flight, I am the soft star shining at night. Do not stand by my grave & cry, I am not there I did not die... R.I.P Dave, you will be missed by many but never forgotten.

Kathleen Duebelbeis

July 1, 2011

I Remember having dinner with David at my house on several occasions when he came by to visit my parents. He was a caring person with a zest for life, and is now at peace with his Mom, Dad, and sister Bobette.
My Heartfelt Condolences to Midge,Tom, and Cheryl I know he will be missed, but may the memories he left make you smile,warm your heart and brighten your day.

Eric Greer

June 30, 2011

I have very fond memories of visiting Uncle Dave's apartment when I was a kid. My mom would take us over there on weekend night's, while they had drinks and conversed. I used to love looking at all the cool dark stuff he kept, like the old monster trading cards, and sculptures he did of various weird creatures. Not to mention all the half naked pictures of women hanging everywhere! As I got older, I really enjoyed going over to his other apartment to hang out with my mother and him, and whomever else would partake. I came to find that we had very similar tastes, whether it be music and art, or WWII stuff. My Uncle Dave had such a pure heart, and I didn't ever hear him say an unkind word about anyone. He was adored by all that knew him, and his presence will be missed as such. So here's to you, Uncle Dave...cheers!

Meghan

June 30, 2011

We all love you more than words can express... You will always be in our hearts! Love you forever and always uncle day-day!

Karen Brunts-VanHoogstraat

June 30, 2011

cheryl, I am so sorry for your loss.
May God give you and your family the strength to move on and get through this tradgedy and keep your brothers' memories close to your heart forever.
You are all in my prayers

June 30, 2011

Dave was my friend and Christian brother. 42 years of very good memories, one of the most pure hearted and giving individuals I have had the good fortune to know. When he did'nt have a nickel to his name he would share his only morsel of food or last beer with you. My heart felt condolences to Tom, Cheryl, and the rest of the Duebelbeis family. Dean Reichold

Julie Harris

June 30, 2011

Aunt June's Harris family "kitchen table reunions" will never be the same. We will so miss your laugh, your stories and your incredible love and loyalty for your family. We love you Cousin Dave.

Cheryl Duebelbeis

June 29, 2011

To my pure-hearted, loving brother Day-Day...I miss you more than I can express. I know you are with God and I should be happy but my selfishness wants you here with me. Peace my dear brother.

Cher-Cher

June 29, 2011

Let's also not forget Ollow, Bubble Cheeks, Marty & Tuscon China Dish!!!

Tom Duebelbeis

June 29, 2011

To the kindest, gentle, loving man I have ever known. Your struggles are over now, as you are in the arms of God. I love you and will miss you, but have comfort in knowing you are with all good for eternity.

Kevin McLean

June 28, 2011

Dave was a great friend!I lived acrosss the hall from him back in hte day above eat-rite.We had good times listening to jams and just talking.I have know Dave For a long time. I will miss you my friend!! You are one of a kind! R.I.P. bro!!!

Aaron Gyorog

June 28, 2011

20 plus years I got to know Dave and I have to say, he was without a doubt, the one friend I hung on to thru it all. Most of the time, one finds that some one wasn't who you thought they were or, did some crap you'd later not trip on, but Dave was the friend I always went to in order to vent frustration with who ever did me wrong. He had a similar story to share, or he'd let me know it maybe wasn't as big of a deal and "have a beer and 'take a load off!'" I sure didn't expect it to be such a short time we'd have him with us. Dave would let me play some of the heaviest of metal music and would gimme some crap, if I cut the song, halfway done. I'd say "but Dave, the next songs' better... or whatever" and he would say how it irritated him to not hear the songs finish, even if it was something he didn't really like just 'cause maybe he would start liking it, just when i cut the track. So from then on, I would ask, just one of the many little things you don't think much about 'til you lose some one as dynamic as Dave. I remember some trippy glass eye sculptures he made for me (sure wish I still had one), he truly had an artistic quality not found in many! And his musical diversity; from folk to metal as long as it didn't come near rap, or especially "that damn disco my little sister likes!" It's kinda funny, he would sit through it for Cheryl, but he'd sure talk to me about it the whole time! God Bless You David, and you had the badest Hog of all my friends! I will never forget you, nor will the many people you may not have even known you touched; me deeply!

Jonathan Greer

June 28, 2011

the best artist I've ever seen! I remember as a kid how cool I thought he was, and I grew to admire him even more as an adult. He had my back at a time when I was in need, and I wish I couldve thanked him for that. He will forever live in my heart through some of the artwork etched in my mind, like the portrait of charlie manson, or the diner scene with the greaser, after what seemed to be a brawl had taken place, and my favorite was the portrait he did of my mother. I would argue that david had the talent, and skill, that couldve been considered modern masterpieces of our time. You could see that he put a lot of himself into his work, and that is something I will always remember of my uncle dave. The passion he always kept for what he enjoyed in life. I'll miss him very much, but I know he is in a better place.

Cheryl Duebelbeis

June 28, 2011

He was more than a brother to me. He was my best friend. Saturday nights at Day-Day's listening to his vast music collection. He always surprised me when he'd whip out something else from years ago. I loved him so very much. I don't know what life will be like or Saturdays at the very least without you. What a beautiful heart and soul you had David. No one will EVER compare.

Diana

June 28, 2011

The brother I never had. You will be truely missed. Tommy, Cheryl, and I will keep you alive in our hearts. I love you.

June 27, 2011

One of the kindest souls I will ever have the pleasure of knowing. So blessed to have been included in the special relationship that David, Cheryl and Tommy sharred. The truest bond of love and friendship amongst siblings.

Melinda Petty

June 26, 2011

David was one of my very first friends in life! He was funny, clever, kind, creative and even as a young boy, did wonderful drawings--especially Big Daddy Roth! My deepest condolences to Cheryl and the family. Always,

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