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Michael McCarthy Obituary

McCarthy, Michael W. August 12, 2006.
Dear husband of Virginia McCarthy (nee Mayer); beloved father of Catherine 'Katie' McCarthy; dear son of William and Margaret (nee Rohde) McCarthy; dearest brother of Margaret 'Peggy' (Dr. James R., D.O.) McAdam, Mary Catherine 'Kitty' (John) Eilerman and Nancy (Greg) Brett; dear uncle of Maureen (Terry) Wilkerson, Michael McAdam, Matthew (Suzanne) Eilerman, Jane (J.R,) Karsten, Patrick Eilerman and Megan Brett; great uncle of Margaret Wilkerson; our dear cousin and friend to many.
Michael was Vice-President of Maritz Travel Company.Services: Mass will be celebrated Wednesday, Aug. 16th, 10:00 a.m., St. Margaret of Scotland Catholic Church, 3854 Flad Ave., 63110. Visitation Tuesday 4 to 9 p.m., O'SULLIVAN MUCKLE MORTUARY, 13996 Olive Blvd. (Chesterfield), 314-514-9966. In lieu of flowers, donations to Siteman Cancer Center, Washington University Campus Box 1204, 1 Brookings Dr., St. Louis, MO 63130-9989. Interment Resurrection Cemetery.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Aug. 14 to Aug. 22, 2006.

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Sheri Neier

September 1, 2006

I just heard about Mike this week and still can't believe that lively, funny, full of life guy is no longer with us. I worked at Maritz Travel Company from 1974 to 1981. Mike was a TD in the later years of my employment. We were all like high school and college friends. The motto was "work hard and play hard" and we did all that! It was always so much fun to run into Mike and to hear his stories. Mike was funny when he wasn't trying to be. He just made real life extra funny. I've run into Mike a few times over the years, but not in a very long time. That makes me sad. Virginia, we've met in passing, but I don't expect you to remember me. I am so, so sorry for your loss -- for you and for your daughter, Katie. I've never met Katie. I'm sure she's a wonderful combination of you and Mike. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. There's another incredible angel in heaven today. Sincerely,

Cory (Blum) Conroy

August 26, 2006

Nancy and all of Michael's family;

I was so saddened to hear of Michael's untimely death. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Mary Jane Kennedy

August 17, 2006

Dear Bill and Margaret, Just want to tell you how sad I was to hear of Mikes death, Eddy called and told me.

I had not seen Mike since I moved from Uplands Park, but I always thought he was a wonderful person.

I know Eddy will miss him a lot.

Kevin Devanney

August 16, 2006

Mike's approach to his career, family and friends was an inspiration to me that I think of often. He will be missed but always with a smile and a laugh!

susan Emerson

August 16, 2006

Mike, We met so many people and made many wonderful friends. Thank you for sharing. Virginia, We hope you find joy in your happy memories and wish you peace and clarity as you move ahead. Katie, You meant the world to your Dad and brought him such joy. Carry his love with you always. In deepest sympathy, Larry and Susan Emerson

Russell Schnepf

August 15, 2006

My thoughts and prayers to Virginia and the rest of Mike's family. It has been many years since I've seen Mike but I have fond memories of the years that I worked with him. He was a nice guy and could always make you smile.

Michael Alan Bailey

August 15, 2006

Virginia & Katie, So sorry to hear the sad news of Michael's untimely death. There were so many great memories! I'll never forget his great laugh and kindness. Plus the stories he could tell, what a comedian!! I was glad he was in our fraternity, TKE, at Missouri State in Springfield. But I'll I never forget the time that he made me stay the night at your house when I came in town to see, "The Who", perform at the Riverfront. He insisted that I stay the night, and in the morning cooked me a big and tasty breakfast. As I was leaving, he showed me Katie's new pet turtle that was just walking around the backyard. I just wish I would have come to see you guys more often. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. If there is anything I can do, let me know. He will be greatly missed!!!

August 15, 2006

Hamster, You were a GREAT man and a true friend, you will GREATLY be MISSED by all.........



Dennis, Diann & Guy Bilyeu

Normandy School Friends

Wendy Kammer

August 15, 2006

Dear Virginia and Katie:

My heart is heavy for your loss and I am completely saddened for the passing of my friend. Mike had a true genuine quality of making people feel appreciated. Yes, his creative humor, priceless laugh, and compassion for life and people are all qualities I will never forget. Mike surrounded himself with what he loved the most - his family. I always felt his home was his refuge. Keep the faith, God will give you strength in ways you never thought possible. In deepest sympathy, Wendy Lanning Kammer

Bob Callmeyer

August 15, 2006

I had the chance to sit next to Mike at just about all of Katies softball games over the years and he was just the biggest sports fan and was so much fun to talk to throughout the games.Mike was at a ton of the games even with his busy travel schedule.Mike was very proud of his daughter and couldn't do enough for Katie.I think he was the proudest dad I know.My daughter and I will really miss Mike.

Elaine Bosler

August 15, 2006

Virginia and Katie, I pray that God will bless you both and lessen the burden of your loss. Mike was one of the most genuinely nice people I have every known, always teasing someone or cutting up about something - making things fun. He will be greatly missed by everyone.

Chris Gilbert

August 15, 2006

Virginia, Gail and I both send our deepest sympathy. We will always have a special spot in our hearts for Mike and the incredible memories he left behind. Our prayers are with you and Katie.

Jeffrey Jacobs

August 14, 2006

What a sad day! Everyone whose life Mike touched was truly blessed. What a great person and friend to all. When I came to St. Louis alone and lonely, Mike took me around, introduced me to everyone and made sure that I never felt alone again. How fortunate was I to have met Mike and become part of his short life here. Though the world is sad and mourns his loss, heaven is definitely a better, friendlier place with the addition of Michael W. McCarthy. He truly will be missed. We all loved him.

Jeffrey

Charles Kroscher

August 14, 2006

Mike was truly a treasure. His spectacular personality will be missed by many. Accept my sincere condolences.

Todd Winston

August 14, 2006

Michael was special person in my life and his spirit will always be with me. My deepest sympathy to all of his family.

Mario Santander

August 14, 2006

Mike's personality and humor will be greatly missed. Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Melissa Poth

August 14, 2006

Virginia,

Steven always looked forward to spending time with Mike or just hanging out with you guys. We are so sorry for your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.

Melissa and Steven Poth

Stephen Clark

August 14, 2006

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Wes Edwards

August 14, 2006

I am a better person by being fortunate enough to have Mike as a friend.



I will truly miss him.

Shan Vaughan

August 14, 2006

My deepest sympathies to your family. I will always remember Mike as one the most outgoing people I will ever know.

Jimmy Graham

August 14, 2006

As I heard the news of Mike passing away, I was very sad. I started thinking of all the people that I have met in my life through Mike, the list went on and on it made me smile. It is a testament to his infectious personality and love of life that so many people thought of him as a friend. I will miss you.

Doug Brandon

August 14, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Katie.

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