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Thomas Neuhoff Obituary

Neuhoff, Thomas V. Sun., July 15, 2007. Dear son of Mildred and the late Henry Neuhoff; dear brother of Charles (Vickie), Michael (Deborah) and Paul 'Butch' (Sandy) Neuhoff and Pamela (Ed) Ponder; dear uncle of Steven (Veronica), Michael James (Jennifer), Kimberly (Scott), Michael Joseph, Rebecca, Nicole, Jennifer, Jerry, Laura, Stephanie and Lindsey; our dear nephew, cousin and friend. Services: Funeral from KUTIS AFFTON CHAPEL, 10151 Gravois, Wed., July 18, 12 noon. Interment Park Lawn Cemetery. Mr. Neuhoff touched many lives by his selfless involvement in Alcoholics Anonymous. In lieu of flowers Tom's family would appreciate memorials to Harris House, 8327 S. Broadway, St. Louis, MO 63111. PLEASE NOTE CHANGE IN MEMORIAL DONATION ADDRESS. Visitation Tues., 3-9 p.m.


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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Jul. 17 to Jul. 19, 2007.

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Jeff Barsky

July 19, 2007

I was saddened to hear of Tom's death. We had hit it off since he first entered into our fellowship. We always had jokes for each other and he was one of the most friendly, positive people I have known. His self-lessness was a wonderful power of example.

Joe Ribble

July 18, 2007

I will miss Tom and his deviled eggs at my Superbowl Party every year. He was the first one to show up and the last one to leave and made me feel like it was the best party in the world.

He lived life to its fullest and is a special man that will be missed dearly.

Charlie (charles) Magruder

July 17, 2007

Tom touched my life and many more with his caring non-selfish acts of god’s work and kindness. Well done good and faithful servant.

Dale Skyles

July 17, 2007

Code (and his Federal Mogul cap) will be missed at the Gateway Nationals. Now he'll have the best seat at the track.
Your racing buddies,
Dale, Tony and Drew

Pamela K.

July 17, 2007

Your brother blessed so many lives by his example. May you be blessed and comforted by this.

Mike & Jackie Wheelehan

July 17, 2007

We pray that we might reflect a bit of the light that radiated from Tom. We know him as one of the finest examples of a recovered spirit. The patience and love of his family was evident by his telling and by his living. We will miss his presence but will continue to be guided by the example he showed us.

Bob McCosh Jr

July 17, 2007

my deepest sympathies for the passing of a dear friend.

Jim and Mary D'Anna

July 17, 2007

Butch and Sandy:
We are very sorry for the loss of your brother. Hopefully the memories of the good times you spent together will help lessen the pain. Please accept our sincere sympathy and know that we will keep you in our prayers.

Pam Ponder

July 17, 2007

I love you Codee...

your sister.....

Julia Day

July 17, 2007

Tom was a very special guy to those of us who are friends of Bill - He was always there with a handshake and a smile wanting to know what he could do- In the years that I have known Tom I do no recall his ever saying a bad thing about another person -
He was certainly in my eyes "a good and faithful servant"
My sympathy to his family for their loss and thank you for sharing Tom with us while he was here -

Steve Reese

July 17, 2007

To the Ponder family and friends-Please accept our prayers and deepest sympathy. Steve,Carol, and Scott Reese

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