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Mathilde Heitzmann Obituary
Mathilde "Mimi" Monti Heitzmann and Carl "C.J." Heitzmann both of Bay St. Louis passed away on Thursday, February 22, 2007 in Bay St. Louis.
Mimi was born on February 1, 1949 in Bay St. Louis.
C.J. was born on November 24, 1948 in Bay St. Louis.
They were devoted Catholics and were members of Our Lady of the Gulf Catholic Church in Bay St. Louis. Mimi and C.J. will be sadly missed by family and so many friends.
C.J. is preceded in death by his parents, Carl J.G. & Velma A. Heitzmann.
Mimi and C.J. are survived by 3 sons and their wives, Scott Heitzmann & Laura of Panama City Beach, FL, Neil Heitzmann & Marcelite of Tampa, FL, and Casey Heitzmann & Emily of Madison, MS; 3 grandchildren, Parker, Emma, and Max Heitzmann all of Panama City Beach, FL.
Mimi is survived by her parents, T.F. and Mary Monti of Bay St. Louis, and 3 brothers & their wives, Bill Monti & Pat, Tammy Monti & Cassie, and Joe Monti & Kay all of Bay St. Louis.
C.J. is survived by 2 brothers & their wives, Jerry Heitzmann & Debbie and Raymond Heitzmann & Loretta all of Bay St. Louis.
The visitation is on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 from 11:00 am until 2:00 p.m. at Our Lady of the Gulf Catholic Church in Bay St. Louis. A Mass of Christian Burial will be at 2:00 p.m..
Burial will follow in St. Mary's Cemetery in Bay St. Louis.
Edmond Fahey Funeral Home in Bay St. Louis, MS is in charge of the arrangements.
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Michelle Johnston
February 8, 2008
I just recently heard about the passing of Mimi. So sad. I am sorry for your grief.
Kay Chandler
June 5, 2007
To the Monti / Heitzmann families
I am so sorry for your grief, having just learned of the passing of Mimi & Carl 2 days ago. I have no words other than it doesn't seem real. Mimi, dear friend, no more tears.
Kay Chandler
richard lo piccolo
March 20, 2007
i am so sad to hear about this tragedy. i have lost siblings, in the same manner and truly know what you all are feeling. deepest condolences to your family in this time of bereavement. i lived next door to bill, pat and his parents for over 9 years. they were instrumental, in helping my children and i get out of town, right after the storm. i knew mimi casually and will miss her, with much fondness.
we are deeply indebted to the monti family,
the lo piccolo's
Pattie Pavolini Olson
March 9, 2007
Scott and Laura,
My prayers are with you and your family. Laura, pleast contact me at my email address.
Rachel and Trey Rimmer
March 8, 2007
Scott and Laura,
Please know the Rimmers and Alexanders are mourning with you. There were many times in the last 6 months I had seen C.J. and he always took the time to show kindness and share a story. I remember him telling us about the day he was married-he lit up with happiness at the memory. I know they are together now.
Debby and Cairo Plauche'
March 7, 2007
I am terribly sorry for your loss. My prayers are with all of you. I loved MiMi and Carl and took great pride and pleasure in feeding them for so many years. They will be so missed. Cafe Reef
Keene Favre
March 4, 2007
Scott, Neil, and Casey,
Your family has been a part of my life since the beginning.... There is so much that is welled up right now - it's hard to state the true meaning of how much your parents meant to me. As godparents, they were always a part of my life - and always will! My profound sorrow at this moment in time can only be a small percentage of yours. Please know that my family will always be there for you. Aunt Mimi and Uncle C.J. will forever hold a special place in my heart.
Love Always, Keene Favre
Sharon, Bert, Jonathan Kleinpeter
March 4, 2007
Neil, Scott and Casey,
The ones we love are never gone, They live within our hearts.
Cora Brown
March 3, 2007
To both families: Words can't express the sorrow you feel at this time. Please find comfort in knowing friends and family share your sorrow and have you in their prayers. God Bless. From the
families of Cora Vetter Brown &
Ann Morreale Joiner formerly from Bay St Louis.
Mi,C,D&D.Mardi Gras.New Orleans 2005
Dawn Favre
March 3, 2007
A TRIBUTE TO MIMI MONTI HEITZMANN & CARL JOSEPH HEITZMANN
The ancient Greek, Aeschylus, wrote: “In our sleep, pain that cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart and in our despair, against our will comes wisdom through the awful (awe filled) grace of God.”
Everyone who has had the honor and privilege of knowing Mimi, C.J., and their family already knows what exceptional people they are. The bonds of love are complex and powerful; they transcend time and space and often defy reason. Our hearts ache as we try to comprehend this tragedy. Their absence in our daily lives will be hard to bare. We are all better people because they were a part of our lives – and they live on through all of us! We have an obligation to honor them through our every act and deed. Their hopes and dreams rest with us now…we will realize their dreams and fulfill their hopes.
WE THANK YOU FOR:
•Loving us all…and we loved you in return!
•Bringing joy and humor to every occasion!
•Touching the hearts of all the children…they love you!
•Special gifts: For my last birthday you gave me a sign that says LIVE WELL, LAUGH OFTEN, LOVE MUCH as well as a Cross Stitch Kit that(when completed)will say PUT YOUR BIG GIRL PANTIES ON AND DEAL WITH IT! How PROFOUND IS THAT…… we have all been instructed by “MISS MIMI” TO PUT ON OUR BIG GIRL PANTIES AND DEAL WITH IT & to LIVE, LAUGH, AND LOVE……AND SO WE SHALL!
WE REMEMBER:
•Your giggle and laugher… and the twinkle in your eyes!
•All the adventures…from Mexico to Paris and everywhere in between! Living life to the fullest!
•You found strength in your faith!
•Your love of animals!
•THE GOOD TIMES AT THE GOOD LIFE!
•You riding your bike, dancing, laughing, singing, and doing the splits and cartwheels! JOY!
WE NOTICED THAT:
•Your laughter could light up a room and your sense of humor was a gift to all who knew you!
•You did the best you could to protect those you loved from pain,hurt, and harm!
•You loved Bay St.Louis – and Bay St. Louis loved you!
•Mimi loved music, dancing, writing, taking walks, gardening, playing with her children and grandchildren, her family - we all noticed and celebrate your spirit!
•C.J. loved hunting, building, Ole Miss Rebels, the Saints, and his family!
•Your children and grand children adored you both!
WE ARE GRATEFUL THAT:
•Mimi and C.J. truly loved each other. Love is like the truth: no matter how deep you bury it, it always comes to the surface!
•The love that Mary and T.F. Monti instilled in their children is going to carry them forward as they struggle to understand and continue on with their lives.
•You inspired us to LIVE WELL, LAUGH OFTEN, AND LOVE MUCH!
WE WILL ALWAYS:
•Keep the promises we made to you both…
•Love you and honor you…
•Protect, love, and care for your family…
•Remember you as our "North Star"..
•Recognize love, live love, and give love!
•Celebrate your lives and love!
•Cherish you…Miss you…Celebrate you!
LOVE ALWAYS,
Donnie and Dawn Favre 2/2007
Steve Foster
March 1, 2007
Dr. Heitzmann,
We are sorry for the loss of your loved ones. You and your family will be in our prayers.
Emily Holle
March 1, 2007
Neil and Marcie,
We are so sory for everything you are going through. Both of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if we can do anything at all, do not hesitate to call. Love, Emily and Brian
Heather Dubuisson
February 28, 2007
Casey,
I am so very sorry. If you need anything at all, know that I am here for you. I love you very much and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
David Sternecker
February 28, 2007
Many years had passed between our visits, but I was lucky to have been able to visit with Mimi and C.J. last summer on two occasions. I can not begin to imagine the pain and sorrow that surrounds their family and friends in Bay St. Louis. They will be missed.
Until we meet again,
David and Family
Rebecca Adams Smith
February 28, 2007
Dear Monti and Heitzmann families,
I am so dismayed at this tragedy, but will always remember Mimi and Carl with fondness.
My heartfelt love and sympathy goes out to all of you at this time.
I was away and not able to attend the funeral, but was there in spirit.
Rebecca Adams Smith
Mia ( Maria) Fentis
February 28, 2007
My prayers are with the family and friends who deal with a terrible loss such as this. I never met Mimi in real life but enjoyed her gifts as we shared our mutual love of Claptons' music.on a list. May they both rest in peace.
Rob and Amy Henderson
February 27, 2007
Scott,
I consider it an honor to have trained next to you. I know that I am better for it. I've never stopped praying for you guys since we left Cincinnati. You, Laura and the kids will always have our support. You are beautiful people.
PAT BROWN CULLIFER
February 27, 2007
TO THE FAMILIES, MAY YOU DRAW STRENGTH FROM FAMILY AND FRIENDS. MIMI, SINCE 6TH GRADE,OLG, AND ALL THE TIME IN BETWEEN THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES, YOU LEFT A BIG FOOTPRINT IN THE SAND.
Richarad & Johnnie Redditt
February 27, 2007
Dear Jerry & Debbie;
We were so sorry to learn about C.J. & Mimi. Please let me know if I can do anything for you or for Mimi's boys. Dick & I are on the road and unable to attend the funeral, however, our prayers and thoughts are with all the family.
I am saying a special prayer for all of you, You Have always been there when I need you and I want you to know that I'm here for you.
Remember that in times of pain and sorrow ,God will bring rainbows to brighten our tomorrows. We love you.
Richard & Johnnie Redditt
February 27, 2007
Scott, Neil & Casey,
Our hearts and thoughts are with you. Please remember all the friends you have in Bay St. Louis. Our children, Richie and Michelle also send their love and heartfelt sympathy.
We have known your family for over 30 years and have enjoyed every moment. Please hold together and our prayers are with you now and will be for a long long time.
Marlene Opila
February 27, 2007
Although I only knew Mimi through our internet group, I came to like and admire her very much. Her love for her family and community was obvious. I will greatly miss her warmth, humor and sweet optimism. Most sincere condolences to the Heitzmann and Monti families.
Leslie Anderson
February 27, 2007
Neil and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family at this time of sorrow. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jonell and Harold Hirsch
February 27, 2007
Dear Monti and Heitzmann families,
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and your families in this time of sorrow.
Bettye & Gerald Housley
February 27, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to your families in your time of grief. Just remember that God loves you and he will take care of you in the days ahead. I'v only met Mimi a few times however; I have heard so many good things about her that I feel as if I know her and C.J. personally. Please know that their many acquaintances will always be cherished by people all over the world. May God Bless You and may your memories bring you comfort.
Parent & in laws of
Missy & Brandon Rhodes
Dale Russell James
February 27, 2007
To the Monti and Heitzmann families,
Growing up in Bay St.Louis with your families is something that I will always treasure. No words can express how sorry I am for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
JEFFREY BATTLE
February 27, 2007
Dear Scott,
You and your family are in our prayers.
sincerely, Jeff and Julie Battle
Jeanne Patterson
February 27, 2007
I have known Mimi as an on-line friend for a few years. I will miss her humor, kindness and joy for life. I enjoyed talking to her and getting to know a little about her life. She let me read one of her books and on line and several stories and what a great story teller she was. Now Mimi is with God and will have peace forever. I will miss you Mimi...I will think of you often and miss you forever.
Vicki Arnold
February 27, 2007
Dear Joe and Kathleen,
Al and I want you to know that you and your family are in our prayers. Mimi was the big sister I looked up to at St. Joseph Academy when I was in the 9th grade in 1966-1967. She was a true role model for a young woman-a class act! May Our Lord welcome her with loving open arms.
Tony Boulton
February 27, 2007
I have known Mimi through the internet and email for several years now and her warmth and love for life came through in everything she wrote to me directly and to others through the community in which we have been involved. Not least of all she showed us a love for her family and the community in which she lived, notably through the pain and heartache following Katrina.
My prayer is that she and C.J. will now be reunited in God's presence and glory. We will miss Mimi until the day God calls us home. There are no tears in heaven.
Elaine Drick
February 27, 2007
I never met Mimi in person, but we became "online friends" through a mutual interest in the music of Eric Clapton. I have enjoyed her writings and humorous poems. Mimi was always upbeat and positive even during tough times. I will miss her. My condolences to the family that she always spoke so lovingly of. Rest peacefully Mimi.
Lisa Skett
February 27, 2007
My sincere condolences for the family of Mimi and Carl. Mimi and I were
"online" friends, meeting through an Eric Clapton site. I enjoyed her
very witty messages as well as her books. I pray for her and Carl and
their families. Bless you all.
M.J. Krankey
February 27, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
February 27, 2007
I will always remember Mimi as a warm, caring and supportive friend. I am so sorry not to have met her in person, only through online contact through our love of blues music and with her writings. She was so full of live and was never despondent in anything especially after the disaster of Katrina. Her presence was felt by everyone that came into contact with her.
My heartfelt condolences to her immediate family. Please be strong and remember the tears you have now will be replaced by wonderful memories.
Ann Howe
Gillingham, Kent, England.
Sherry Schwabacher
February 27, 2007
Huey
and I are so sad at this terrible loss. Our hearts go out to all who
loved Mimi and C.J. I still have the beautiful photos of the Bay that
Mimi took on my computer desktop. They will be more precious than ever.
Lori Johnson
February 26, 2007
My thoughts, prayers and condolences go out to the family of Mimi and Carl. I only "knew" Mimi from online, meeting through a mutual interest in both Eric Clapton and writing; however, her enthusiasm for life and spirit were apparent in every post she made online. She was, indeed, a special person, her love for her family, community and friends obvious. Know that her presence in our online groups will be missed. I think from now on when I hear "Tears in Heaven", she'll be another person I think of....
Bless you all.
Maria ( Mia) Fentis
February 26, 2007
Most heartfelt condolences on this tragic event. My prayers and sympathy are with the families and friends of both Mimi and her husband. I have never met Mimi in person but we shared a mutual love of music. Peace be with you all.
Carla Martin
February 26, 2007
May God be with you and your family in this time of need. I didn't know Mimi personally but I joined the Tool's For Jesus online. I love to Hear and read everyones stories and poems.She seemed to be loved by everyone that ever talked with her or met her. She must have been a very awesome lady.
Dorothy Arcement
February 26, 2007
Dear Scott, Neil, and Casey,
Just wanted you all to know how very sorry we were to learn of your loss.Know also that we are keeping you and your families in our most fervent prayers at this difficult time. God be with each of you.
Mr. and Mrs George Arcement
parents of Chris and Scott Arcement
Terry Drake
February 26, 2007
To the Monti and Heitzmann families; Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I keep up with the Gulf Coast news and was shocked to learn of your loss. God Bless to All.
Nicole McDowell
February 26, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Erin and Joseph Lee
February 26, 2007
Scott, Neil, and Casey,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and your family.
Gwen Heitzmann-Pendergraff
February 26, 2007
Dear Heitzmann/Monti families,
Although it is heartbreaking to deal with such a loss, may God grant you peace and acceptance knowing that both C.J. and Mimi personally touched so many lives in such positive ways. Even though I have not seen either of them for many years, as a Heitzmann cousin I have been proud to hear of their many successes.
Diane and Ronnie Wells
February 26, 2007
Kathleen and Joe,
We were so shocked and saddened to hear about your loss.
Please know that you and all of your family are and will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
35th SJA
Margaret Sarrat
February 26, 2007
Mimi will always be loved by us all. Her smile was like sunshine and her laughter true joy. She was our class president and our friend. In time, the tears will be replaced by happy memories. Our prayers are with the entire family during this trying time. God Bless you all.
Joy Pereira
February 26, 2007
My deepest sympathy for the Heitzmann and Monti families.
Ishraq A. Hafiz
February 26, 2007
I have no words to express how much I'll miss Mimi's wonderful, loving approach to life, even in the face of the tragedies she had had to suffer through.
She was truly an angel and now she's had to go back to heaven. My deepest condolences to her family, I am hoping you will all carry on her goodness, it's her lasting legacy to this earthly world.
Kathy McClellan
February 26, 2007
To The Heiztmann and Monti Family:
I am very sorry for your loss. Please know that prayers are being lifted for each of you.
Cedar Point Neighbor
Pattie Juarez
February 26, 2007
we`re all going to remember you !!!!... You were such a sweet and kind Lady all the time...
God is with you now Mimi.
R.I.P
Pattie from Argentina
seraphine segal
February 26, 2007
I have known Mimi since 6th grade. Once I graduated as a boarder from SJA in '67 I believed I would never return to the bay. My close friendship with and as one of the Camerllia Queens brought me back time and again. My heart is missing a part of itself now. I will however, always see and heard Mimi's wonderful smile and laughter. The prayers from my spirit are sent to wrap around you all as am unable to be there physically.
sera
Jane Armstrong
February 26, 2007
Although I never met Mimi in person I considered myself to be in the lucky position of calling her my friend, despite living on different continents.
We met on-line through a mutual love of the music of Eric Clapton. She was funny, caring and full of life and optimism. She adored her family and her love of Bay St Louis was always apparent in her emails and her books. She brought your town alive for us all through her writing. I loved her emails, her poems delighted us all. She will be greatly missed.
My thoughts, prayers and best wishes go out to the families of Mimi and Carl and to the residents of Bay St Louis.
Nan and Dick Ehrbright
February 26, 2007
We join the many, many people who are shocked and saddened by the loss of your loved ones. They were both true assets to the community and will be sorely missed.
taaya Blaize
February 26, 2007
My heartfelt prayers and thoughts to the Monti/Heitzman Families.
Mary Beth Benvenutti
February 26, 2007
Dear Aunt Mimi & Uncle TF, Tammy, Joe, Billy and all of my other cousins,
I'm so sad for your families. I'm sending you strength and my prayers. There's nothing that can be said to make this any less painful. Just know that you are all loved and we are thinking about you in your time of great grief. Love MaryBeth and Vincent
Eva Wegmann
February 26, 2007
Dear Joe and Kathleen, words cannot express how deeply saddened we are over your loss of a wonderful sister. Chris has always said, "how sweet MiMi is" - please, know that we have your family in our prayers. May God give you his peace in this time of sorrow. Love, Eva and Chris Wegmann
Kathleen (Quintini) Kluttz
February 26, 2007
Scott, Neil and Casey,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time. May God bless you.
Leigh Kirkpatrick
February 26, 2007
I loved her well, my dear friend, Mimi. We wrote our first manuscripts together and enjoyed sharing our life experiences for some years. I will terribly miss this wonderful Lady. She was greatly loved by everyone who knew her. Goodbye my dear friend. Love, Minister Leigh
Joe and Ellen Davis
February 26, 2007
Our deepest sympathy to all the Heitzmann family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. GOS IS OUR REFUGE AND STRENGTH, A VERY PRESENT HELP IN TROUBLE. PSALM 46:1
Tyrone & Alice Everman
February 26, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Debra Powell
February 26, 2007
Dear Casey,
Our hearts are heavy as we share in your pain. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you all.
Vincent J. Cuevas
February 26, 2007
To the families:
Both Mimi and C.J. were a significant part of my life, particularly when I was growing up in the Bay. We will miss them and we grieve along with you and their many friends. Our prayers for them will continue as long as we live. They are with a merciful God.
Vince & Sharon Cuevas and Sons
Jay & Taffy Morrison
February 26, 2007
Tam,Cassie and family,
Our love and prayers go out to you and to our heavenly Father for your loss. Both of our families have suffered tragedy in these past weeks. You above all. May the Lord fill your hearts with all comfort and peace during this time of mourning. We love you.
Daniette Bourgeois Bilnoski
February 26, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you at this time. My love for Ms. Mimi and Mr. CJ will always remain. God bless.
Sharon Coleman
February 26, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and the days a head.
My deepest sympathies.
Jan and Bobby Berry
February 26, 2007
Dear Kathleen and Joe, we are so very sorry for your loss. You and all of your family will be in our hearts and prayers.
Melissa Drees
February 26, 2007
Mike and I are both so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to all of you.
Joshua Ladner
February 26, 2007
I am absent of the words needed to express my sorrow for your loss. I am always here for you and you will remain in my prayers and in my thoughts. You are family and I love you.
jeanie moran
February 26, 2007
Please
except my condolences over the passing of your loved ones. I remember
Mimi from our first days at SJA. She was a delightful lady who will be
missed. Bless you all, her family. Prayers for you all. I have always
admired your family. Joe and Kathleen have always been great to us over
the years. God Bless you.
Patricia Sager-Resor
February 26, 2007
My Mother, Leboria Bourgeois Sager, as a young woman, use to take MiMi every Wednesday afternoon as a baby, to give her mother Mary a break. My Mother loved MiMi. My aunt and uncle, Jake & Angie Morreale, who lived next to T.F. and Mary also loved MiMi. They were so happy to have a little girl in the neighborhood being as there were so many boys. I am so sad in your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.
Karen Medina
February 26, 2007
Dr. Heitzmann, Please know that we are so very sorry for your loss and thinking of you and your family.
Lydia Schultz
February 26, 2007
Scott, Neil and Casey
Your parents were the best parents in the world and loved you so very much. Mimi can be remembered for her laughter and optimism whatever the situation. And Carl should be remembered for his ultimate craftsmanship in his work. He was also the only person that we would've let build our house without a contract! That's what happened because he was that honorable in his work!
You have been in my thoughts constantly and will stay there for a very long time.
Dana Martin DuBois
February 26, 2007
Dear Scott,
I am so sorry about your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless.
Carleen Murphy Turcotte
February 26, 2007
You are all so very very much in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept my sincere and heartfelt sympathies upon the loss felt, so devestatingly, by you and yours.
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