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Ralph James Obituary
November 5, 1947 - November 10, 2024
Troutdale, VA
In loving memory of Ralph Gordon James, 77, beloved husband, dad, papaw, and friend, who went to be with his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, on Sunday, November 10, 2024. He was lovingly cared for during his last days at Roanoke Memorial Hospital.
Ralph was born on November 5, 1947, in Troutdale, VA, to Frank and Mary James. He proudly served in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War. After returning home, Ralph owned several successful businesses in hospitality and retail. He also enjoyed Christmas tree farming and was skilled in carpentry, creating beautiful furniture. Eventually, he retired from the U.S. Postal Service. Ralph met Becky in the early 1970s, and they married in 1976. They provided a loving home for their daughters and were happily married for 48 years.
Throughout the years, some of Ralph's greatest joys included providing for and being with his family; working outdoors and fishing; spending time at the family farm in Grant, VA; telling stories; playing with his dog, Hoppy; and making everyone laugh. Anyone who knew Ralph knew how much he loved being a papaw. Over the years, he faced many physical challenges with courage, including those in his last few weeks. His strength and sense of humor in dealing with difficulties will always be remembered.
Ralph is survived by his wife, Rebecca James; his two daughters, Amanda Holland (Nathan) and Cindy James (Jon Grieco); and his three grandchildren, Isabella, Elijah, and Cosima. He is also survived by his sisters, Hazel Farmer and Louise Lawson (Ernest); several nieces and nephews; and many wonderful family members and friends.
The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Troutdale Rescue Squad and the Rugby Rescue Squad as a special thank you for the care they provided to Ralph during his illnesses. At Ralph's request, the family will hold a memorial in his honor at a later date.
Visitation at Ralph and Becky's home is welcome. Expressions of sympathy may be sent to the family at www.bradleysfh.com. Bradley's Funeral Home is serving the James family.
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Sidney Vaught
November 18, 2024
To put it simply Ralph was one of the finest people I have ever known. Intelligent, incredibly well read, an engaging conversationalist, imminently practical yet possessing a great sense of humor. Regretfully it just seemed he would always be with us, as it happens with so many we hold dear. Just the other day I was looking forward to another trip Grayson to sit and “solve the problems of the world”. Hail and farewell old friend.
Ashley Hash-Mayer
November 14, 2024
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Ralph was truly a wonderful friend and neighbor. Always enjoyed seeing him at the shop. Becky, Amanda and Cindy we are praying for you all.
Pam Souther
November 14, 2024
Amanda, So sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Pam Souther
Eddie & Evelyn. Osborne
November 14, 2024
May God hold each of you in the palm of His hand as you face this loss of your beloved Ralph. He loved his family with a great love . We are greatful for having known him.
Debbie Absher
November 13, 2024
Amanda and family . May God wrap His arms of comfort around you. Heaven is sweeter. Love and prayers
Kenneth and Judi Wood
November 13, 2024
Becky and family May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. He was a good friend. Went to school with him.
Jean Halsey
November 11, 2024
sorry for your loss. Love and Prayers sending your way!!
Love, Doug & Jean Halsey
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