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Madeline McIntosh
August 29, 2004
Yesterday marked four months since you went away. I miss you on a daily basis, and I just have to remind myself of all the beautiful things about you and your life. When I think about the path you chose in your life and what you did, it makes me so proud of you. All the unconditional acts of love you provided others with while you were alive just makes my heart leap for joy. I am blessed in my life to have had a big brother like you. You were just so outstanding. You are still my hero...and I'm still your biggest fan. I just miss you so much.
Peace be with you Joseph.
I love you.
Madeline
Wendy DiGiacomo
August 28, 2004
On April 28, 2003 Dr. Joe operated on my then 13 year old daughter, Madison, who had a 8 lb. cancer tumor. He quickly became a friend to our family and especially to Madison. During her subsequent hospital stays for chemotherapy over the following months, he visited quite often, even though she had been under the care of her oncologysts. He was the most unique individual, both as a human being and a doctor. We will miss him greatly. We just found out yesterday about his passing. God bless you Dr. Joe.
rebeccah l brown
May 28, 2004
My husband, Dan, and I only met Joe recently at a meeting in Des Moines, Iowa. We were both struck by his gentle nature, wonderful sense of humor, and down-to-earth demeanor. We knew immediately that Joe was special and had hoped to spend more time with him in the future to share more tall tales of our beloved Southwest. We will miss him.
Nick Restifo
May 28, 2004
I now sit in the office where Joe once spent long hours here at the Surgery Branch of the National Cancer Institute. He told me lots of stories about the good-ol’ days, before my own 15 year stint here, where he’d work into the night doing experiments. He sometimes even slept here – with his boots on of course – in case he had to get up to check some cells in the lab. He spent that time of his life trying to figure out new ways of getting the immune system to kill cancer cells. I especially enjoyed his curiosity during his visits here, and his no-nonsense way of figuring out how we might push our work ahead.
Ashley Mulay
May 23, 2004
No one will ever realize how specical someone or something is until it is no longer there. Joe, you were my best friend even if you were more then twice my age :) . I will never forget the wonderful memories I have shared with you over the 16 years of my life. Not only have you been an insperation, a mentor, a friend, a second dad, but you have helped me through the most difficult time in my life. I wish you could have been there for my graduation next spring (2005), college graduation, wedding, etc. But I know you will always be there in spirit.
Love always and forever, Ash
James Atkinson
May 22, 2004
I had the great pleasure of working with Joe during his pediatric surgery training at CHLA. From the day of his arrival from Houston, we all knew Joe was a very special person. Under the boots and hair was a keen intellect, warm caring personality and great doctor. When Joe left CHLA to pursue his future career, he left behind many friends. We are all saddened by his premature death.
Edward Ford
May 21, 2004
Joe,
An amazing 26 year friendship. The times we all shared will never be lost. We all loved the person and the persona. God's speed. Ed
Liang You
May 21, 2004
Joe, I miss you. Thanks for all the good things you have done for the lab. Last time I saw you in Beijing, you and my family were having so much fun together.
Max Ramenofsky
May 21, 2004
Joe
You will be sorely missed, particularly you insights and kindness. Travel well.
Max Ramenofsky
Doug Armstrong, MD
May 20, 2004
I was fortunate to work with Joe while at Children's Hospital of Buffalo. He was a terrific surgeon and had a great bedside manner. Patients absolutely loved him. Joe was a unique and colorful person who always uplifted everyone's mood. He always had a good story, often to do with Texas. His premature death is truly sad and is a loss for all of us.
Joshua Gamsby
May 20, 2004
Dr. Joe, as I was found of calling him, was a friend and inspiration to me. Joe and I had many long conversations about science, sports, and many other topics. I am also very grateful for the time he spent providing information and comfort to me when my mother was ill. I will miss our conversations, but I find comfort in knowing that my friend has found true peace.
Carolyn Clary-Macy
May 20, 2004
Joe was a great guy, and a friend who would be there in an instant if you needed him. The world is a better place because he was here. We miss you Joe!
Jim Yang
May 20, 2004
Joe was a cherished member of our Surgery Branch family and we were always uplifted by his surprise visits. He was one of those rare people about whom everyone had something good to say. He reacted to praise with modesty and negativity with good humor. We all miss him but feel fortunate for the time we got to spend with him.
Neil Sherman
May 20, 2004
I worked closely with Joe at the CHLA during his pediatric surgery fellowship. He was a gentle soul with a brilliant mind; his long hair and cowboy boots fit his personna perfectly. He will be missed. (Neil J Sherman, Los Angeles, CA)
Madeline McIntosh
May 19, 2004
Congratulations Joseph you did a fantastic job with your life! Way to go brother! You passed away on my birthday. On the anniversary of my birth every year, I will celebrate your life as much as I celebrate mine. I will miss you so much...I love you "dude".
Your lil' sis,
Madeline
Jim Mule'
May 15, 2004
I miss you my friend, but I will see you again. Jim
Iris Lopez
May 14, 2004
I knew Dr. McIntosh or Dr. Apple as I called him.I was his secretary. He was the kindest, funniest, and most intelligent person that I have ever known. To say that his death is a shock is an understatement. He inspired my daughter to continue to take higher mathematics and science courses even though he knew that her dream was to become a professional dancer. I am so very sorry for your loss. He will be missed.
connie garrett
May 14, 2004
I had the pleasure to work with DR. Mcintosh at University Community Hospital, Tampa, Florida. Dr. Mcintosh always displayed a professional, kind attitude to all who worked side bv side with him. We at UCH operating room will miss him. Connie Garrett RN
Andrew Norris
May 10, 2004
I had the pleasure of knowing Dr. McIntosh. We worked together at a local hospital. What I will miss about Joe the most was his compassion and his intelligence.
Cindy Messina
May 10, 2004
I am deeply saddened by the news of Dr. McIntosh's passing as are the other members of the staff and faculty of Pediatric Surgical Associates in Buffalo, NY. Dr. McIntosh was such a pleasure to work with during his two year stay with us. The patients and their families loved his down-to-earth manner and he was such a lovely man to sit down and talk with. His wealth of knowledge yet humble demeanor was so refreshing. He will be sorely missed on so many levels. My (our) sympathy to his family, friends and patients who will miss him so.
peter kosoff
May 8, 2004
As a general pediatrician, I am very saddened to have learned about Dr. McIntosh's passing. I knew him while working at a local Pediatric ER and felt an immediate connection. I had lost track of him for a year until I heard the untimely news of his death. I really had hoped to have had more time to spend with him out of the ER in an informal environment. I bragged to my colleagues and family that I finally found the most humane, principled, proficient and approachable surgeon in my medical career and thus I hoped to maintain a close relationship with him. I had even closed a large scalp wound that he accidentally received when he bumped his head back about a year ago. All the time while I was suturing he kindly berated my surgical technique. In the end he gave me a passing grade.
I would be honored if you could read this note.
Sincerely,
Peter Kosoff, MD
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