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John Aliyetti Sr.

1934 - 2020

John Aliyetti Sr. obituary, 1934-2020, Vero Beach, FL

BORN

1934

DIED

2020

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John Aliyetti Obituary

John Aliyetti, Sr.

Vero Beach - John Ellsworth Aliyetti passed away on May 26, 2020. He was born December 5, 1934, and spent his childhood and young adult life in Turtle Creek, PA. Although the family lived in poverty, John felt the education he received at Turtle Creek High School was superior to that being offered today and it prepared him for life's obstacles and opportunities that came his way.

He learned how to play the trumpet in the fifth grade and continued to practice into his late 50's. When he graduated high school in 1952, and many of his friends left for college, he tried his hand at drafting apprenticeship for Westinghouse Electric Corp. Eventually, he joined the U.S. Marine Corps to learn an electronics skill to make a living. Sadly, for him, upon completion of Boot Camp at Parris Island he was sent to Opalaka, FL to be a trumpet player in the Third Marine Air Wing Band. Musicians were a critical occupational specialty.

During that first year John learned of the Naval Aviation Cadet Program, which was, very selectively, made available to the enlisted ranks of the sea services. If one could pass a two-year college equivalency exam, reviews by a tough selection panel of Marine Officers and also pass a pilot physical examination, an enlisted man would be considered for selection. The band Director was not helpful, and had PFC Aliyetti sent to Korea in December, 1954.

In February, 1955, to John's (and his buddies) amazement, a set of orders arrived at MCASK3 (Pohang) directing, now Corporal, Aliyetti to report to Pensacola, Fl in April to begin training as a Naval Aviator. He was discharged from the Corps and mustered into the Navy Reserve with the rank of Cadet. Eighteen months later he was commissioned a Marine Corps Second Lieutenant with Naval Aviator wings of gold. It was John's choice to return to the USMC to fly fighter planes and eventually, helicopters. He had another tour in the Far East during the Second Crises of the Taiwan Strait, at which time his Group was sent to live in the field at the Chinese Nationalist Airfield near Kaohsiung, Taiwan, and to prepare to conduct fighter sweeps against Chinese airfields on the mainland. Fortunately for the world, that did not occur.

There were other challenges upon return to Stateside, including many helicopter sorties from the USS Boxer to ensure the peace in the Caribbean, then a six month tour at Guantanamo Bay, Cuba, as a Forward Air Controller shortly after the Bay of Pigs fiasco.

In 1966 Aliyetti received an offer for a pilot position with American Airlines. For the next 29 years, John flew for AAL. He maintained that it was his generation that made airline flying safe, because almost all of the pilots were trained in the military. It was "Not even like having a job. Getting paid for something you love to do." After retirement, he was frequently asked what planes he flew. They were: Boeings 707, 727, 747, 757, 767; McDonnell Douglas DC10 and MD 80 series. He acquired Captain Type Rating in the B727, B757, B767 and MD 80. He had also been Type rated in the Sikorsky SK-58 helicopter prior to leaving the Marine Corps.

John was a prolific writer. He wrote essays on the American Civil War that were published in Civil War magazines, including one that was picked up for global publication on the battle for Richmond with African American troops titled, "Gallantry Under Fire". His work on the canning and packing industry history in Maryland was awarded two cover stories in the Chesapeake Bay Maritime Museum magazine, which also had international distribution. In his occupational field, he co-wrote a piece on the longitudinal trim characteristics of swept-wing airplanes that was distributed to all American Airlines Pilots.

Captain Aliyetti (Retired) was predeceased by his parents, John Achilles Aliyetti and Hazel Lee and is survived by his wife of 41 years, Penny, a retired American Airlines Flight Attendant, daughter Mary Anne Webley (Bruce), sons John Jr (Donna) and Paul, and step daughter Melanie Richardson, nine grandchildren and twenty seven great grandchildren, sisters Theresa Fair (Larry) and Julie Whalen (Bill, deceased), cousins, nieces and nephews, as well as the men and women who wear the Globe and Anchor of the United States Marine Corps and live by the words: "Honor, Courage, Commitment".

A celebration of life will be held at a later date to be announced. Interment will be at the Military Cemetery at Quantico, VA.

Arrangements are under the direction of Strunk Funeral Home, Vero Beach.

An online guestbook is available at www.strunkfuneralhome.com

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Published by TC Palm from May 29 to Jun. 7, 2020.

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Lilly mae Dodd Divens Aston

September 9, 2023

My name is Lilly Mae Dodd Divens Aston
I grew up next door to the Aliyetti family on Church street, Turtle Creek , PA. No one in our neighborhood was wealthy but we were happy. I remember Johnny had to really beg and plead with his dad to let him play the trumpet. Johnnie was dedicated to that trumpet it was a source of happiness for him. I tried to find the family in past years now that we have cell phones I managed to track Johnny down unfortunately it's too late to speak with him personally. The last connection I had with the family I believe was when Mr Alyetti passed away. Still can't locate Thressa Or Julie.
My deepest sympathy to the family. And God bless you. Thank you Johnnie for your service to this wonderful country ,May you rest in peace.

Jim & Aquanetta Betts

June 19, 2020

Penny, I am so sorry for your loss, our loss. I always thought John was a great guy and I enjoyed very much flying with him. He had a great sense of humor and I will always cherish our visits to your home in Vero Beach. May he rest in peace.

Randy Clifford

June 19, 2020

I remember John and Penny well. A great couple flying out of DCA. John was a rare find in the pilot ranks. He was an intellectual, great aviator, talented musician and fun to fly with. I am very sorry for your loss Penny. Semper Fi !

Glenn Warner

June 11, 2020

So sorry for your loss Penny. John and I were in the same new hire class . HE was just two numbers junior to me. RIP!

Ivan Reddington

June 10, 2020

I always enjoyed flying with John. He was humorous and a pleasant fellow. Sorry for your loss Penny.

Chris Moreno

June 10, 2020

John was one of the good ones, Penny. May he soar with the angels and Rest In Peace.
Fondly,
Chris Moreno

JOSEPH DANIEL

June 7, 2020

Our hearts hurt. John was a man who made you feel that you were so important in the room. He was so quick with a funny line, and so ready to make you feel comfortable in who you were. This is a sad day for us, and a good day for Heaven.

AL Ricks

June 7, 2020

We flew together, we sailed together, we partied together, and we played chess together. Many good memories with John

George & Kim David

June 7, 2020

Dear Penny and Family:
We are sad to learn about John's passing. He was a good guy with high personal standards, if a little (amusingly) judgmental. We played golf, swapped Marine Corps and dog stories. I saw him last, in November, at a Marine Corps birthday lunch. We promised to get together but sadly didn't manage to do that before this. We'll miss you John.

Beverly Mcculloch

June 4, 2020

Dear Penny and Family,
John was such a good and sincere person, I loved flying with him. He was one of the good guys for sure.
God bless you and your family Penny.
Beverly Hyde McCulloch

Andrew Michalak

June 3, 2020

A good man, friend and aviator. God bless you and your family

Capt Dick Thiele

June 3, 2020

Dear Penny, our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Much love and affection, Dick and Margo Thiele.

Dayna Nickel

June 3, 2020

Im so sorry to hear of Johns passing, he was definitely (as we F/As would say) one of the good guys it was always a pleasure to fly with John, especially if Penny was on the trip also.

RON BURAN

June 3, 2020

John and I were friends and sometimes flew together while based at DCA. He was always entertaining to be around, and I remember he and Penny building their home on the Tred Avon river two doors down from Ceil Ripple, a friend of ours. Turned out he also became friends with her and sometimes would play trumpet at her church in St Michaels where she was the main organist. RIP

Stuart Kennedy

June 3, 2020

As a fellow realtor and friend, it was always fun to meet up with John. His sense of humor and approach to life were clear and refreshing. I will miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with Penny and the family.

Randy Laws

June 2, 2020

A true gentleman and friend. A man of keen wit and intelligence. He will be sorely missed! Semper FI

Cliff & Sandra Green

June 2, 2020

John and I flew together when he was a copilot and later when he became Captain we trip traded a lot. We played poker together and I got invited to play golf in his Member/Guest - fun times. We always pulled his leg about being a Marine.

One funny story during a cruise that was arranged by DCA flight attendants. We were told to pack our bags and put them in the hall the night before docking. Well, John showed up the next day with no shoes as he packed them all!

RIP, John

Cliff Green

Susan Garner

June 2, 2020

```````````````````May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Tim McGarry

June 2, 2020

God Bless and Semper Fi

Ray&Lin Abriola

June 2, 2020

Sending our deep sympathy to Penny&Family,We have all lost a dear friend.Soar With the Angels John Hugs Ray&Lin

Kathy & Tony Minner

June 2, 2020

As coworkers when we were all based in DCA, our paths would frequently pass. We always enjoyed sharing a joke and catching up on the latest news. Our heart goes out to Penny and family in the hope that love of family and friends will give some measure of comfort.

Charles Paty

June 2, 2020

John and I knew each other for over 50 years and it is very sad to have him pass away. My wife, Jan, and I had dinner with John and Penny at a restaurant in Vero Beach, FL in early January this year. We have had a good life together and will remember the good times we shared.

Linda and Bill Gardepe

June 1, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful friend and coworker. I met John and Penny when I was an American Airlines Flight Attendant, working often with both of them. Our personal friendship extended well beyond our work. John was always one of a kind. We enjoyed countless social gatherings and John would lead the organized laughter that dominated our gatherings. He mandated we play party games and created some of the world's most outrageous karaoke moments! In short, John was a wonderful friend for over 40 years. My husband Bill and I cherished his friendship and will miss him terribly.

Steve and Tina Egge

June 1, 2020

In loving memory of our dear friend John, Steve and I will forever cherish the many wonderful memories we had with you and John in your beautiful Springfield home. Playing charades, singing karaoke, making movies, solving mystery games all with John at the helm cheering us on! We also enjoyed Johns amazing Trumpet solos! Those were some of the happiest times in our lives!
We hope in time Penny your grief will eventually find pleasure in so many loving memories of your Gallant Husband , John.
Our hearts are full ,
Love,
Tina and Steve

Ramona Webley

May 31, 2020

I regret that I never got to meet John. After reading his obituary I know that he was a man of Diligence and Persistence, A man of honor, courage and commitment!! These are the traits I see, that were passed on to his posterity!! What a Legacy!!

Mary Anne Webley

May 31, 2020

In gratitude for the short time I had to come to know John. He completed the last piece of my life, I feel privileged to have felt his love, laughed at his humor and appreciated his sense of honor. Part of him lives on through myself, our six sons, and his great grandchildren. His life story of prevailing through hardship will be a part of my familys heritage. What a blessing that we each lived long enough for the miracle of science to reunite us.❤

Robert Hoch

May 31, 2020

John was a principled gentleman and a good friend. We flew together at American Airlines in the 1960's and 70's. Believe it or not, we played chess on layovers.

John Aliyetti, Jr

May 30, 2020

In loving memory of my wonderful father and person whom I will always love and miss. You taught me so many valuable lessons in life and always had advice that guided me through the hard times and good times. I have always been proud of you and looked up to you. I wanted to be like you. Your courage, thoughtfulness, perspective, sincerity, and sense of humor has been permanently instilled in my soul and I have done my best to pass those qualities on to my children. I will always keep you in my heart. I love you dad. Semper Fi!

Donna Aliyetti

May 30, 2020

In loving memory of my father-in-law, John. I will miss you dearly.

CHERYL FERRARA

May 29, 2020

My Uncle John would hate that we were grieving & crying over him, but would be honored to be remembered for the man he was. He's been a part of my life since I was a child & my memories are great and cherished. I'll miss you Unc!

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