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Aaron was a kindergarten student at Major Edwards Elementary School in West Boylston, where he also attended pre-school. He absolutely loved school and had many friends, students and faculty both. Aaron loved camp. He could often be seen riding a hay ride or on the swings at Jellystone Park in Sturbridge. He had many friends, there as well. Aaron will always be remembered for his beautiful smile that could light up a room and his quick wit.
A Memorial Mass and a Celebration of Life will be private. In lieu of flowers, a donation in memory of Aaron may be made to the UMASS Memorial Foundation/Children's Medical Center, memo to Outpatient Pedi Oncology/Aaron Gray, 55 Lake Ave., North, Worcester, 01655. Arrangements in care of Fay Brothers Funeral Home, 1 West Boylston St. To place an on-line condolence, please visit.
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Memories and Condolences
for Aaron Gray
January 5, 2012
Our prayers have been with you for many years. Our heartfelt sympathies began on 12/7. Aaron indeed was a very special little guy. His great compassion and love will live on in the hearts of many. May the love of family and friends surround you with God's strength, encouragement and comfort. Love to all of you from all of us, Auntie Betty and family
Irene Chevalier
January 4, 2012
Pam and Steve, my heart goes out to you. The love of a child is unconditional as is a Mother's love for her children. I pray for your peace and strength for years to come.
Irene and Michael Chevalier
Merle Smith
December 17, 2011
Steve, I was sorry to hear about the loss of your son Aaron. Even though I never new Aaron I know he must of been just like you a great person. I hope you can find some solitude thru these tough times and know that many people are prayering for you and your family thru this trying time.
Merle, Brenda, Tyler and Erika Smith
Julie & Scott Menard
December 15, 2011
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for the loss of your son, Aaron. Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Jennifer Blake
December 14, 2011
Aaron was such a sweet and loving boy whom we all cared so deeply for at school. I am so sorry for your loss!
Miss Jenn
Leah Castillo
December 14, 2011
Pam,
our hearts go out to you, Steve and Stephanie. With all of our love and prayers.
You are all in our thoughts.
Leah and Sydney
2005 mama
Penny Bowman
December 12, 2011
Thank you for sharing that wonderful little boy with us at Major Edwards Elementary School. You know how much he meant to me and how much I loved him. I have never know anyone like Aaron and my life was all the more richer for it. He was such a special little boy and it went above and beyond his illness. I will always treasure the time I got to spend with him and I will never forget the big smile, hugs and kisses (and raspberries!) that greeted me every morning. I miss him terribly but take some solace in the fact that he is playing on the playground with his angel friends, happy and pain free. I am here for you all and I promise to take good care of Sissy now as well.
All my love..........Penny
Penny Bowman
December 12, 2011
Thank you for sharing that wonderful little boy with us at Major Edwards Elementary School. You know how much he meant to me and how much I loved him. I have never known anyone like Aaron and my life is all the more richer for it. He was VERY special and not just because of his illness, it went above and beyond that. I will always treasure the times that we spent together and the memories of that smile and the big hugs and kisses (and raspberries!) that greeted me every morning. I miss him terribly but take some solace in the fact that he is playing on the playground with his angel friends, happy and pain free. I am here for you all and I promise to take good care of Sissy now as well.
All my love...........Penny
Jack and Sandy Flynn
December 12, 2011
Pam Steve and Stephanie-We are so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May the wonderful memories you shared bring you joy and strength.
Miss Jean and Family
December 12, 2011
Pam,Steve and Sissy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Please know how grateful we are to all of you for letting us be a part of Aaron's life. I feel truly blessed for having know him. He taught me more than I ever taught him. He will forever be in my heart.
Always,
Gayle Hough Dragicevich
December 12, 2011
Steve, Pam and Stephanie - words can't describe how sorry we are for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jeff Gordon
December 12, 2011
Steve,Pam and Stephanie
We are so very sorry for your loss, our hearts and prayers are with you.
Tracey Harding
December 11, 2011
Pam,Steve and Stephanie
We are so sorry for your loss we love Aaron and will miss him. We read this book called heaven is for real and Aaron is truly an angel. May god bless you all and keep you strong.
love,
Tracey,Lisa,Krista and Kayla Harding
December 11, 2011
We are all so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful little boy. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. May your happy memories guide you through your grief.
Coach Smith and family
Michele Palmer
December 11, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, may god watch over all of you at this very difficult time.
With deepest sympathy
Michele Palmer & Family
Carol & Steve Pusateri
December 11, 2011
Aaron was such a sweet angel that we got to know at Major Edwards. We were blessed to know him. May he sleep in heavenly peace now. Our condolences to all who knew and loved him, especially Pam, Steve & Stephanie.
December 11, 2011
Dear Pam, Steve, and Stephanie, I am so sorry for your loss. Just remember, he will always be with you in your hearts, as close as he can be.My deepest sympathy, Mary Lou Mack
Gary Knox
December 11, 2011
My deepest sympathies to your family.
Janice Coye
December 11, 2011
Steve,
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your son.
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all and your family.
-Janice and Bill Coye
Cyndee Rigdon
December 10, 2011
Pam, I know there are no words to describe the hollow, I only hope that you know you have the support, love, and positive energy of so many right now. I'm so sorry, I cannot comprehend your pain right now. You will be on my heart and in my thoughts for a lifetime to come. Please hold on to those beautiful memories you have and let Aaron's love light your path until you see him again. -CynnerTN
December 10, 2011
Godspeed to your beloved boy
December 10, 2011
Steve: we send our deepest heart felt sympathy to you and yours....... Byron @ Mom Fraser west boylston ma.
Holly Lyons
December 10, 2011
Aaron, what can we say .... You were and always will be a bright spot in so many lives. You were a joy to be around always with a smile. And even on a bad day you gave others a reason to hope. Your strength throughout was unbelievable to so many. Shine on little man. Pam, Steve, Stephanie, you were the best for this little angel.
Genevia Holmes
December 10, 2011
Dear Gray Family, Our deepest condolences during this time for you and all of your loved ones dealing with the loss of Aaron. I pray that you find comfort as I can't imagine how hard it would be to loose a child. May your precious wonderful son be your guardian angel and watch over you and your family. We are praying for each of you. God Bless. Love Genevia Holmes & Family
Samantha Rocco
December 10, 2011
So Sorry for your loss Pam many many hugs and good thoughts from my family to yours.
Elena Kane
December 10, 2011
God will give you the comfort and strength you need and bring you closer to where this little angel is resting. (Worcester, Ma)
Susan Cassidy
December 10, 2011
I teach grade one at Major Edwards. I had the pleasure of talking with Aaron one morning a couple of weeks ago. He was so sweet and as we talked he took my hand and said (in his sweet voice) "You have a nice day". My heart goes out to all of you.
Melanie Sewell
December 10, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Words are not enough at this time,the sorrow is too deep; I hope you may take comfort in knowing there are many who care, who are praying and thinking of you.
December 10, 2011
(((((HUGS)))) I can't even imagine what you're feeling at the moment but please know that my family & I are sending good thoughts your way. He's not suffering anymore, now he's an angel watching over you. ~P
Linee Rounsley
December 10, 2011
I've never met you or your family but I'm a friend of a friend and I'm a mother and my heart goes out to you and your family. I pray you have strength and are surrounded by lots of love. May you see Aaron again someday in heaven. Love to you.
Maryjean Barbosa
December 10, 2011
Pam, my heart breaks for you, your husband and stephanie. Please know we continue to pray for your family and that Aaron is now watching over all of you, free of pain. xoxo
Maryjean and Jenna Barbosa ( Sept. 05 mom)
Mallory Mercurio
December 10, 2011
God saw you getting tired, when a cure was not to be.
So he wrapped his arms around you, and whispered, “come to me”.
You didn't deserve what you went through, so he gave you rest.
God's garden must be beautiful, he only takes the best.
And when everyone saw you sleeping, so peaceful and free from pain
we could not wish you back to suffer that again.
RIP Aaron, you will forever be in all our hearts little guy!! xoxo
Brian Bay
December 10, 2011
Steve and Pam, I am very sorry for your loss. Its always hard to lose a child, especially before the holidays.
John D'Alessandro
December 10, 2011
Steve and Pam, Deb and I very sorry for the loss of Aaron
December 10, 2011
We were so sorry to hear of your loss, and no words that anyone can say will help you in this new journey that you have to embark on. You should know the West Boylston Branch of Commerce Bank sends their deepest sympathy to everyone involved. We didnt have to meet him to know what an extrodinary little boy he was.
Deborah Waldron
December 10, 2011
I can't even imagine the loss you are feeling of your precious little boy.May he rest in peace.From one mom to another mom.
Kathy & Mac MacIntyre
December 10, 2011
There are no words to console you at this time. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I know what you are feeling at this most difficult time and although your sorrow will never subside it will get easier in time. I know what you are going thru and we as parents will never know why God takes our children before us. Know that Aaron is looking down on you thru that "bright" star in the sky. Sunday is the candle light vigil for our children that won't be with us thru this holiday season. I will be sure to light a candle for Aaron as well as my son. With deepest sympathy and love,
December 9, 2011
I do not know you and never had the pleasure of meeting Aaron, but I am a mother. My heart aches for your loss, I will pray your family finds the strength to get through the times ahead. May Aaron rest in peace as a beautiful angel.
Nick Mitchell
December 9, 2011
Dear Steve and Pam,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Words can't describe the loss of a child, but it is his memory which will always be with us.
With condolences,
Chris Mitchell
December 9, 2011
Dear Steve and Pam,
I am very sorry for your loss. Aaron is in a better place and his memory will live on forever.
My deepest sympathies go out to you
sluggo
December 9, 2011
pam & steve so sorry to hear , if theres anything i can do feel free to call
Scott & Maureen Murray
December 9, 2011
Pam and Steve, I am so sorry for your loss of your beautiful son Aaron. Words can't begin to describe how I felt when I heard the news. He was a very strong and courageous little kid. You two should be very proud of how hard he fought and how hard you two as parents worked to give him a loving and caring home. Steve you once told me that all you wanted to do was to let him be a kid and enjoy what kids do. You guys accomplished that and more. These words can't even begin to comfort you in this time of sorrow, but just remember you will always have a little angel looking over you and your family. If there is anything that I can do for you ,please do not hesitate to call. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mel & julie Lazin (Hurley)
December 9, 2011
we know that little aaron is in a better, peaceful place but we know that won't keep you from missing him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. His time on this earth was too short, but now he will live in our hearts forever.
Kenneth Barton
December 9, 2011
To the Gray Family - We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful son/grandson, Aaron. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Ken and Peg Barton & Family
December 9, 2011
In one of the stars I shall be living
In one of them I shall be laughing
and so it will be as if all the stars
were laughing when you look to the sky at night. - The Little Prince -
With Deepest Sympathy - A Mom
cindy & john moore
December 9, 2011
never forgotton, always loved, a little angel
Judy Corbett
December 9, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Ted and Jen Flanagan
December 9, 2011
We want to thank you for the time Aaron was able to spend with his Kindergarten classmates -- I know he was very special to our daughter Ainsleigh, and will never be forgotten.
A Mom
December 9, 2011
May God bless all of you and hold you in the palm of His hand during this difficult time...
December 9, 2011
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Brian Rossi
December 9, 2011
Lord, I pray that you extend your hand of grace, mercy and peace to this family in their loss. I thank you that Aaron is in Your hands and no long suffering. I ask you to comfort and bless this family during this extremely difficult time. Be their source and their strength.
Michelle Roderick
December 9, 2011
Pam and Steve,
There are no words that we can say that will make you feel better. All we can say is that we are so sorry. Aaron was such a happy little boy, and that was because of your love for him. He was able to do the things that little boys should do, and that was because of you. He will always hold a special place in our hearts.
Remember - Love Never Dies
With our love and deepest sympathy,
Michelle & Jim
T Washington
December 9, 2011
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
December 9, 2011
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy. --Eskimo legend
S. S.
December 9, 2011
To all of Aaron's family,
In My Pocket
**************
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry
wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces,parts
of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am
alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket,like
so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have,it's the
memories of you that are the most precious.
When you are feeling lonely,without Aaron around the house,read this,and remember that love never dies!!! Aaron is with you all,every second of everyday. You have a guardian angel now!!! You are all in my prayers & thoughts!!!
Ruth Leonard
December 9, 2011
Steve, Pam, Steph, Lois and Don, our condolenses to the family. May the love of family and friends carry you thru this difficult time.
Steve, Maureen, Ruthie Leonard
a mom in Northbridge
December 9, 2011
Sending thoughts & prayers your way.
December 9, 2011
I am very sorry for your loss of your beautiful son Aaron. My heart aches for you all. You will all be in my prayers.
December 9, 2011
Dear Steve, Pam and Stephanie, we are so sorry for the loss of your son (brother). You will be in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. Love Paul and Maureen Tebo
December 9, 2011
Heaven gained an angel and as painful as it may be I can't even begin to imagine but please know God won't give you nothing you can't handle n He has a reason for everything He does remember the blessed times you spent together n if you trust n follow jesus you will see your beautiful baby again God bless you Jesus loves my prayers go out to you n your family n know that God will walk you thru this cuz ~ All things are possible through Christ who strengthens you Philipians 4:13 ~ God bless you and may the Holy Spirit embrase you with His love n comfort!!! Sister in Christ SG!!
Jennifer, Joel & Justin StPierre
December 9, 2011
It is with a heavy heart and the deepest sympathy I am writing this. You are all in our thoughts and prayers . May you find comfort knowing Aaron is in the arms of our angels and may you find peace in the memories you will keep forever.
Ann Marie Richardson
December 8, 2011
Dear Steve, Pam, Stephanie, Lois, & family, Altho I did not know Aaron, my heart aches for the entire family. May you walk with God as you grieve your wonderful son/grandson. May the thoughts & prayers of many help you through this most difficult time.
With love & sympathy
Ann Marie Richardson
Ben and Angela Andrews
December 8, 2011
Our hearts are broken. We are so terribly sorry for your loss.
December 8, 2011
To Aarons parents and family, Although I do not know you I wish to express my deepest sympathies to all of you. Words can't express the sorrow I feel for your family and for all that Aaron indured in the brief time here on earth. I share in your pain and sorrow. God Bless You
BARBARA MORRIS
December 8, 2011
MY HEART ACHS FOR YOUR LOSS BUT THE LORD HAS ANOTHER ANGEL IN HEAVEN, GOD BE WITH YOU ALL IN YOUR TIME OF NEED.
David Raphael, Jr.
December 8, 2011
Steve,
Words can't even begin to make sense of this. I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Dave
December 8, 2011
Steve,Pam & Stephanie We are so sorry for the loss of your Beloved Son Aaron. Our prayers go out to you at this most difficult time.
Love,David & Nancy Raphael & Family
Laura Joslyn
December 8, 2011
Pam & Steve, It is very difficult to try to understand what you are going thru , I pray that with the help of your little angel stephanie that you somehow find a way through this next month and the times that follow. I know my son Mark would want me to send his prayers to you also.
God Bless you all....
Dave Toppin
December 8, 2011
I'm so very sorry Steve and family.. My condolences.
The Steiger's
December 8, 2011
Pam & Steve
our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. May Aaron rest in peace, and shine his beautiful smile down upon you always.
jan & Jim Girouard
December 8, 2011
Steve, Pam Stephanie..The sadness of this day has echoed across the country...we are here, 3400 miles away, but today, my heart is no where but with you and you family. No one could spare you this pain...it has to be a lonely place. Jim and I are truly sad for all of you..lois, Don , Doug, Heather..may the light of Aaron's smile be your guide to take you out of this dark place..
Love Jan & Jim Girouard
Bethany Boyle
December 8, 2011
My heart aches for your family's loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all and I hope you will find comfort in the love that surrounds you.
Although I never had the privilege of knowing Aaron, my daughter Libby is in Stephanie's class at school & talks about her all the time.
God Bless you all.
Catherine Provencher
December 8, 2011
Pam,Steve & Steph,
There are no words, may gods grace be with you, losing a child is something no parent should go through, Aaron was so blessed to have such amazing strong parents, we all know where he learned to fight <3 you held his hand and gave him his wings to fly, although your angel was given his wings far too soon, may he fly free and make heaven his playground <3 I hope the three of you find peace in knowing his struggle is over and embrace the beautiful life you gave him, my prayers and thoughts are with you always, and I pray the beautiful memories you have help you overcome this pain. Much love, Catherine
Scott Warren
December 8, 2011
steve,pam,stephenie, Sorry for your loss my heart goes out to all of you
Mallory Mercurio
December 8, 2011
I imagine there is no pain more far-reaching and deeper than losing a child. My heart and prayers go out to you at this most difficult time. Love, Mallory
Karen Daige
December 8, 2011
Dear Pam, Steve, and Steph, I only knew Aaron through Auntie AM's stories but he has very much been in my heart and prayers these past five years. May you be comforted and filled with peace in these days ahead. Aaron has left many blessings and memories to be treasured. God bless you all.
Scott Warren
December 8, 2011
to Steve Pam & Stephanie my heart goes out to all three of you. your friend allways
December 8, 2011
to Steve Pam & Stephanie my heart goes out to all three of you. your friend allways Scott Warren (Dudley ma.)
john & cindy moore
December 8, 2011
so so sorry, he was a fighter, and now he can rest in the arms of our Lord
BobbieJo Willette
December 8, 2011
Aaron you will be missed and never forgotten by so many people. The hugs, the smiles, the waves you sent to all of us even if you where having a bad day. I will never forget our first dance to you favorite song (poker face)I will always treasure that. Pam,Steve and Stephanie my prayers and thoughts our with you. Peace and High Fives to our newest ANGEL!
fayla
December 8, 2011
We are all truly blessed to have had our lives touched by Aaron. It is thought that our soul chooses its own parents prior to being born. Pam & Steve, you have done the most amazing job as parents. xoxo
paula foley
December 8, 2011
R.I.P Aaron, I am so sorry for the loss of this young man.. my thoughts are with his family and extended family at yogi!
Leigh-Ann Doherty
December 7, 2011
To Aaron's family, we are all so sorry for your loss. Aaron will never be forgotten. I didn't know him long and wish I had met him sooner but the time I had with him was a joy. The hayride and firetruck will never be the same. Sending you love and high fives. Peace be with you and GOD BLESS OUR NEWEST AANGEL!
tonya Foster
December 7, 2011
Rip Little man,you were a brave soul.Pam ,Steve & Stephanie,sorry for the loss of your Beloved son.Our thoughts our with you in your time of sorrow.
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