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David Shute Obituary
Sutton - David S. Shute, 51, died after a brief illness Saturday February 11th at his home. Dave is survived by his wife of 27 years, Sheila M. (Farrell) Shute, and 3 children, Jacqueline A., Annemarie L. and Abigail E. all of Sutton; his mother Helen R. Shute of Grafton, 1 sister, Cheryl MacDonald and husband Ed of Leicester and 2 brothers James F. and his longtime partner Nancy Moultan of Spencer, and Matthew G. of Orlando, Florida; 5 nieces and nephews, Samantha, Tiffany, Christine, Nicholas and Jenna. Dave was born in Worcester, son of Guy P. and Helen R. Shute. He was a Journeyman Carpenter by trade but most recently held a position of Regional Sales Manager. He was a proud member of the Sons of the American Legion in Grafton. He loved family vacations to Disney and the Cape. He loved to golf, deep sea fish, and snowmobile. All are welcome to gather with Dave's family and friends Friday February 17th from 4 to 7pm at Roney Funeral Home 152 Worcester St. N. Grafton, MA 01536. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated Saturday February 18th at 11:00am at St. Mark's Catholic Church 356 Boston Post Road Sutton, MA 01590. All attending the Funeral Mass are politely requested to go directly to the church. Burial will be private at his family's convenience. Please honor Dave with a memorial donation to The American Diabetes Association PO Box 15829 Arlington, VA 22215 or online at www.Diabetes.org. A Book of Memories for Dave is available to share a story, photo or message of sympathy with his family online at:
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Holmes Family
January 29, 2025
Still a tremendous loss to this day. My prayers and well wishes go out to Jackie, Annie, Abby, and Sheila.
Wish you all every happiness in the years to come.
February 11, 2018
Missing you Always...
You never said I'm leaving.
You never said Goodbye.
You were gone before I knew it
and only God knows why.
In life I loved you dearly
in death I love you still.
In my heart I hold a place
that only you can fill.
It broke my heart to lose you.
But you didn't go alone.
A part of me went with you.
The day God took you home.
My heart still aches with sadness, and many tears still flow, what it meant to lose you, no one will ever know. I hold you close within my heart and there you will remain. To walk with me throughout my life until we meet again. I had a tree planted today in your memory. Remembering the little pine tree you nurtured in the front yard that is growing big and strong and for the cardinals that you whistled to all day long. FOREVER IN MY HEART. Love Sheila
June 18, 2017
Between you and me on Fathers day....
Do you know how it feels to have you as my father?
It's like wherever I walk there's a safety net beneath me to catch me if I should stumble.
It's like no matter where I am I am never quite alone. You're a part of me.
Maybe it comes from looking up to you for as long as I can remember.
Maybe it comes from knowing that whatever life holds your love will always be there.
I just know that having you as my dad makes my world a little brighter, my heart a little warmer, my troubles lighter, and my joys so much deeper.
Love you Dad (my angel). Jackie
June 18, 2017
Thinking of you on Father's Day....miss you and love you. Love Sheila, Jackie, Annie & Abby
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Ron Spezzaferri
February 24, 2017
I am saddened to hear of the passing of DJ. He was always someone that kept you laughing and up beat. Every time you were with him you would also know that the conversation would always end up about Sheila and the girls. His biggest attribute was that his heart was always in the right place. Rest in peace my friend.
Debra Gadbois-Carey
February 18, 2017
I have know the whole family for years. We all grew up in the same neighborhood, went to the same school,road the same bus,hung around with the same friends. Sending thoughts and prayers to the whole family.
Gregg Paulhus
February 17, 2017
First and foremost Dave loved you Sheila and the girls. He would always brag about you to me! He was not only an excellent salesman to me for 20+ years, he became a friend. We talked often. I know he would do anything for me. Most of all he could make me laugh hysterically....usually by poking fun at me. I am very sad to learn DJ has passed. He will be missed.
Rachel Carruthers
February 17, 2017
Sheila, Jackie, Annie, and Abby,
I cannot express to you how sorry I am for your loss. I have only the fondest memories of Dave. He was always so welcoming, generous, and kind to me.
My family and I send our deepest condolences. Please do not hesitate to contact us if you need anything.
February 17, 2017
We are saddened by this sudden and heart-breaking news. Our thoughts are with his wife, children and family. No words or offerings will ever fill this void. Only time will help ease the pain. Please know when he walked through our door, we knew we were in for a good joke and a hardy laugh.
Sincere Regards,
Bonomo Tile Company, Inc.
And Family
Jillian Dearnley
February 15, 2017
Sheila, Jackie, Annie, and Abby,
Words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of your Husband / Father. He was a wonderful neighbor, and always quick with a joke and a big smile. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. He will be missed.
Karen & Thomas Dearnley
February 15, 2017
Sheila, Jackie, Annie & Abby,
Our deepest condolences to all of you during this great loss. We will remember Dave fondly. If you need any assistance with the house or yard, we are here for you.
Joan Stevens-Faucher
February 15, 2017
So sorry for your loss. I hope your Mom is doing as good as can be expected. You will be in our thoughts. Joan Stevens-Faucher and Mark Stevens and Shawn Stevens.
Christine Shute
February 15, 2017
I remember Uncle David as always the one that made everyone laugh. He said what was in his heart and I remember spending time with him when I was a lot younger and him telling me how much he loved me...my heart goes out to all of us Shute's and especially Sheila, Jacqueline, Annemarie and Gram. I pray that our hearts be full of love and peace as we celebrate the life and love of Uncle David.
Christine M. Shute
Niece
Maureen Connery
February 15, 2017
Helen (Honey) and Family,
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family on such a time of sadness. Keep the wonderful memories close, and wonderful times you all had together. May God watch over you and keep you safe everlasting.
Your School Friend
February 14, 2017
Cheryl,
My condolences on the loss of your beloved brother David,who was also a classmate of mine,back in our days in the Leicester school system. David was wild,but could be a nice kid,too. May he rest in peace with God now.
Rose D'Andrea
February 14, 2017
To Cheryl,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I am truly sorry for your loss.please except my heartfelt condolences. If there is anything I can do please don't hesitate to ask.
Your best friend,
Rose and Family
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