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Pacifico DeCapua Obituary

Pacifico M. DeCapua, Esq., 85

Milford, MA - Pacifico "Pat" M. DeCapua, Esq. 85, of Milford, passed away on Thursday, November 26, 2020 at the Blaire House of Milford after a period of declining health. He was married to Joyce M. (Creasia) DeCapua. They had just celebrated their 56th wedding anniversary on October 11th.

Pat was born in Milford, MA to Leonardo and Felicia Maria (Coscia) DeCapua. He was the second youngest of nine children born to immigrant parents.

He was salutatorian and President of the St. Mary's Class of 1952. He was a three-sport varsity athlete at St. Mary's in football, basketball and baseball. He thereafter graduated, cum laude, in 1956 from the School of Arts and Sciences at Boston College. Upon graduation from Boston College, he attended the Georgetown University Law Center in Washington, DC.

After receiving his JD and LLB from Georgetown Law in 1959, he passed the Massachusetts Bar Exam and opened his own law practice. Shortly after becoming an attorney, his Air Force Reserve unit was activated during the Berlin Crisis of 1961 and he spent 12 months at the Berlin Wall. He also spent time deployed to Biloxi, Mississippi and worked as an assistant at the Judge Advocate General's office (JAG). He earned the rank of First Lieutenant.

He opened and ran his law practice for nearly 50 years. He had a tremendous sense of community and was proud to be called a Milfordian. He served the community as the Town Counsel for Milford and also for the Town of Uxbridge. He served on the Milford School Committee for 11 years and was a moving force for the Milford High School Building Committee.

He was a member of the Milford Bar Association, the Worcester Bar Association, the Massachusetts Bar Association, and he was an Arbitrator for the American Arbitration Association.

In addition to his wife, Joyce, he is survived by his son, Atty. Pacifico M. DeCapua, Jr. and his wife, Susan J. (Piccinotti) DeCapua and his two grandchildren, Scott P. DeCapua and Kaitlyn E. DeCapua. He is also survived by his sister, Yolanda "Yola" (DeCapua) Collins and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his siblings Mary (DeCapua) Amantea, Antoinette "Netta" (DeCapua) Grillo, Lucy (DeCapua) Alphonse, Mafalda "Muffy" (DeCapua) Chiccarelli, Jeanette "Jenny" (DeCapua) Verrier, Dominic "Dicky" DeCapua, and Ann Marie (DeCapua) Kane.

His funeral will be held Friday (December 4th) from the Edwards Memorial Funeral Home, 44 Congress Street, Milford MA followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11am in Sacred Heart of Jesus Church (UPPER CHURCH), 7 East Main Street, Milford MA. Burial, with Military Honors, will follow in Sacred Heart Cemetery, Milford MA. Visiting hours will be held Friday morning (December 4th) from 8:30am to 10:30am, prior to his Funeral Mass. Social distancing protocols & use of face masks will be required for all facets of the funeral services.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Nov. 29 to Nov. 30, 2020.

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Marie Lumenti

December 7, 2020

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Karen L Mazzarelli

December 1, 2020

I remember waiting on him at the post office for so, so many years. I remember my safe deposit box number, because it was his box number. He was always a perfect gentleman and very polite. Except for the cigar. It took more than a few times for him to "get" that I wouldn't wait on him until he put the cigar out. Outside.

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Marcia Walsh

December 1, 2020

Dear Skip and family,
So sad to hear of the passing of your Dad. He was certainly one of the most colorful people that I know, and always enjoyed seeing him.
Hope you are well and safe❤

Louis Bertonazzi

November 30, 2020

The first vote I ever cast as a new member of the Milford Board of Selectmen many years ago was to make Pat our Town Council. He became one of the youngest Town Councils in the state. He also became one of the best. Throughout his career he reflected excellence in his profession. Throughout his life he reflected love for his family. His pride in his family was clear to anyone who knew him. Barbara and I want to offer our deepest sympathy to Joyce, Skip and the DeCapuas. Former Senator and Mrs. Louis Bertonazzi

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Edwards Memorial Funeral Home, Inc. - Milford

44 Congress Street, Milford, MA 01757

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Mass of Christian Burial

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Sacred Heart of Jesus Church (UPPER CHURCH)

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