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Richard Bemis Obituary

Richard "Dick" Whittemore Bemis, 91

SPENCER - Richard "Dick" Whittemore Bemis, 91, died Saturday, October 12, 2019 after a valiant struggle against Alzheimer's Disease. Son of Roger E. Bemis and Helen (Hobbs) Bemis, he was born in the family farmhouse in Spencer and died next door.

Richard is survived by his loving wife Marjorie (Olson) Bemis; sons Edward & his wife Tina and Gregory; a grandson Carter all of Spencer; a sister Dorothy and her companion Pat Hayes of Florida; many nieces & nephews and grandnieces & grandnephews. He is predeceased by a son Mark and siblings Warren, Betty McCord and Barbara McCarthy.

Richard took Marjorie on their first date to a Vaughn Monroe concert in Framingham. Their paths became intertwined and they married 59 years ago in Sudbury, MA. Prior to that, in 1947 at the age of 18, he took the bold step of starting Bemis Farms Nursery in Spencer. An ornamentals nursery specializing in perennials, before they were widely known and appreciated. Richard graduated from the Stockbridge School of Agriculture at UMass Amherst. He took an unexpected break from his fledgling nursery while he served his country as an Artillery Master Sergeant in Korea, responsible for one of the first racially integrated artillery units in US military history.

He was born in a Spencer farmhouse, and passed away next door, on the same farm, in his sons home just 900 feet away. But in that 900 feet he fit in a million miles of touching people's lives. His cheery demeanor accented with humming and whistling, his never ending, kind gestures to everyone he met, and his propensity to provide a seemingly limitless stream of donuts and pastries to family and staff are all things that will never be forgotten.

He was active in 4-H, and worked part-time early on in the Extension Service office. He spent time in the Worcester County Horticultural society, winning some of the top awards for his stunning, but naturalistic landscape displays that were probably a bit ahead of their time. He served as President of the Massachusetts Nursery & Landscape Association, and was active in other local, regional, and national horticultural groups. He attained his Massachusetts Certified Horticulturist status the very first time the test was ever given. He was awarded the prestigious lifetime achievement Silver Medal from the Massachusetts Horticultural Society.

Last weekend as hundreds of children and parents were having a glorious time making scarecrows and playing in the pumpkins on his farm, he was looking down smiling, seeing that he had achieved his dream of making the world a little bit better and happier place. He will be deeply missed.

Friends and family are invited to attend calling hours on Friday, October 18,2019 from 4-7PM in Pillsbury Funeral Home 163 Main St. in Spencer. The funeral will be held on Saturday at 11AM in the funeral home. Flowers may be sent, or memorial donations made to the Mark Bemis Memorial Scholarship at Becker College.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Oct. 15 to Oct. 16, 2019.

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Maureen Gagnon

October 18, 2019

I'm so sorry for your family's loss...I worked with Greg at DCRSD and Mrs. Benis was my nursing instructor. Wonderful family comes from strong roots...

Beth McPherson

October 16, 2019

The world was a little brighter with Richard in it. I will miss his smile.
My prayers are with his family

Steve and Cathi Berg

October 16, 2019

We always loved Dick. Our yard is graced with items we purchased from him. His customer service was impeccable. He truly cared about what he sold and to whom he sold. He will be greatly missed.

Scott Ouellette

October 16, 2019

You folks don't remember me but I worked for Dick part-time during my years in high school during the late 60's early 70's. I was from Worcester and being young Dick wasn't sure if I was up to the snuff. Well I showed up every day during the growing season whenever he needed me. He couldn't believe that I rode my motorcycle back and forth to work. Dick and his wife Marjorie would invite me into their homestead for lunch on numerous occasions. My thoughts and prayers to the BEMIS family.Thankyou for sharing DICK with me I never forgot his kindness to me. REST IN PEACE DICK BEMIS.

Stacey Smith

October 16, 2019

I will miss Mr. Bemis very much. Seeing him cook hotdogs at the Bemis Bucks weekend was his pride and joy. I will never forget his laugh very contagious. His is at peace.

Becky Siam

October 15, 2019

I am so sorry for your huge loss. Such a genuinely happy man. Always whistling! ❤

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