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Toby Matthews Obituary

Toby Lamont Matthews entered into eternal rest at his home in Baker, Louisiana on October 23, 2023. He was 51 and a native of Ethel, Louisiana. He is survived by his parents, McKinley and Lynn Matthews, his son Corinthius Matthews, his siblings, a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and other relatives. Preceded in death by Terry and Mia. Services will be held at Providence #1 Baptist Church 7984 Highway 955 East Ethel, Louisiana 70730.

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Published by The Advocate from Oct. 26 to Oct. 27, 2023.

Memories and Condolences
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Mama

May 11, 2025

Today is Mothers Day on Earth today. I miss you and Terry so much. Thank God for CJ Toby. I love yall so much . Forever my heartbeats. Maw

Mom

March 28, 2025

My Knight in shining armor, I miss you so much. I keep thinking you are gonna walk through that door and say, Mama I'm home. I am living my life to make sure I see you and Terry again. When I pray I tell God to give you and Terry a hug for me. I love you my son. Waiting on the Rapture. Maw

Corey

March 28, 2025

Rest in Peace, Ur Truly Missed

Mom

March 21, 2025

Love you and missing my two sons. (Toby & Terry) Forever in my heart. One &

Mom

February 14, 2025

"Happy Valentines Day" my sons. Toby & Terry Matthews. You guys, the apple of eyes. I miss you so much. I'm so happy you're saved. God makes my heart smile. I will see you again my sons. Forever in my heart. Mama

Mama

October 19, 2024

My Son, my Knight in shining armor. I miss you so much. There are so many things around here that remind me of you. I'm really enjoying my serenity garden. Thank you so much. I even cleaned the flower bed. It doesn't have the perfection of Toby. But I think you would say, it's ok. What have you Terry and your Dad been up too? Oh! I wore your socks today. Terrance came to see me Monday eve. Toby he's been so good to me. Toby it is hard living without you and Terry. I'm just taking one day at a time. I look forward to the day when I'll see you again. God is good and he knows best. But sometimes I wonder why. I love you and Terry so much. Enjoy my sons. Please know that you are aways on my mind. Forever, Mama

Keith Robertson

October 19, 2024

Continue to Rest in Power my Dear friend.

Maw

March 6, 2024

Thinking of Toby and Terry. I love you my sons.

Keith Robertson

February 22, 2024

I just learned of your passing Young King. Rest in Eternal Glory my Friend.

Mom

December 23, 2023

I love you Toby. Give Terry a hug for me. Living without you and Terry is rough. Forever. Mom

Mom

December 12, 2023

My son I am missing you so much. You and Terry was a gift from God. So precious to me. But God said precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of a saint. Only God knows what's best. I have too accept. So one day I will see you boys again. As God told Toby, numbers are time. But life is eternal. So I can't say when. Will forever love you my sons. Mom

Mama

November 23, 2023

Toby, Thanksgiving without you, not so great. Had dinner at Deb's. You were so missed. You were suppose to pray before the meal. Yes it was mentioned. We miss you so much. I know you are having a lovely time in heaven. You and Terry are together with Jesus and all the saints. I thank God often. I love you my son. Mama

Mama

November 11, 2023

My light on the dark side of me

Michelle Duhe

November 2, 2023

Mrs Lynn I was sorry to hear of Toby´s passing the was the life of the job at Stupp he will truly be missed. Rest easy my lil buddy

Lydia Shepard

November 1, 2023

Hi Lynn!
We´re deeply sorry about your loss of your dear son, Toby. We remember him from a respectful and handsome young who always had a smile on his face and a kind greeting.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Friends,
Marie & Carolyn Shepard

Lynn D Matthews

November 1, 2023

I love you my son!

Lynn

October 30, 2023

Toby my heart is broken. I am missing (Good morning Mama, Hey Mama,) I'm hurting son. I'm praying that your Dad will make it and be able to accept your leaving us. Toby, you were my first, and I'm cherishing your life and thanking God for every second he gave us. The good and the bad. I am living my life and will let nothing or no one stop me from seeing you and Terry again. Forever my son. Mama

Rachel A.

October 30, 2023

To Ms. Lynn and the Matthews Family! May the Lord comfort you during this time and the days ahead. Toby was a light and always brought a smile to the faces of those around him. So sadden to hear of his death.

Your Sister in Christ

Jermaine R Wright

October 29, 2023

Get Your rest Toby

Tangela

October 28, 2023

My sincerest condolences. Lynn, May God give you strength & comfort during this difficult time. RIP cousin

Stacey

October 28, 2023

My ex-husband and father of my son. I pray that God will give our son and your mother peace through this difficult time. You have never been forgotten and you will never be forgotten.
Stacey

Keon K. Drake

October 27, 2023

To the Matthews Family: My sincere condolences and heart-felt prayers are with each of your during this time of bereavement. May your find peace and comfort in the Lord!

Catherine Davis

October 27, 2023

Earth has no sorry that heaven cannot heal. My heart was saddened when I received the word that Toby had passed. Sending prayers, love and our deepest condolences to you Lynn and the family. Blessings!
Catherine Davis & Family.

OConner Family

October 27, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Corey Butler

October 27, 2023

With Deepest Sympathy, Corey Butler

Pearl G. Williams

October 27, 2023

May God bless you with strength and faith to help you through this trying time.

Dottie

October 27, 2023

Wow Toby!!!! You really messed me up with this one....you really not gon call me back this time! I miss you already.....

Gary and Shon Sims

October 27, 2023

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Angela & Larry George

October 27, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Pat Davis-Sims

October 26, 2023

You will be miss. Rest in peace cousin

Darrell W.Henderson

October 26, 2023

Deepest Sympathy and Prayers to the Family....Love you Ma Lynn Matthews

Mama

October 26, 2023

My Knight in shining armor. My heart beat. Living to see you again.

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