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Benjamin Burdick Obituary

New London -The life of Benjamin F. Burdick Jr. of New London has changed course and set sail over the horizon seeking new adventures with his Westie, Kate, his loving companion of 18-years, by his side. He passed away Oct. 18, 2021, after a short illness that he fought with strength and dignity.

He will walk smiling through the pearly gates and join his Dad and Mom, Benjamin F. Burdick Sr. and Jane Burdick Hickok; brother, William Burdick; daughter, Emily Burdick Monahan; and grandson, Jacob Benjamin Monahan.

He will be missed by his wife of 57-years Joanne Meehan Burdick; daughters, Elizabeth Burdick (Lloyd) of Waterford and Erin Mahony (William) of New London; sons, Benjamin F. Burdick V (Kelly) of Plainfield, Peter Burdick (Erica) of Cromwell and William Burdick (Chenoa) of West Bridgewater, Vt.; brother Reid Burdick (Ann) of New London; and sister Nancy Burdick of Waterford; and was "Uncle Benny" to many nieces and nephews. His boyhood friend, Stan Bowdish regularly visited him at Beechwood where Ben heard every word and appreciated his love.

"Grampy" will be remembered by his grandchildren, Nick and Drew Rasmussen, Daniel Scalera, Sarah, Abby and Sam Burdick, Will Mahony, Benjamin F. Burdick VI and Shane Burdick and Joben and Kinsley Burdick; as well as his first great-grandchild, "Augie". They all brought a smile to his face while they lined up hugs when he asked for the sports report and how they were doing in school.

Ben lived a full life. He grew up in New London, playing in the woods off Vauxhall Street with boyhood friends. He attended New London High School and then ventured off to do a 9-year stint in the U.S. Army as Military Police, where he trained dogs for combat. He continued his career as a police officer in the Town of Groton and East Hampton.

He married Joanne Meehan in 1964 at St. Mary's Church. They relocated to East Hampton, to pursue his 25-year career at CL&P and raise his family. He was a long-time police officer and an active member of the community, sitting on local Boards. He was a member of the Cobalt, CT Fire Dept. and drove the ambulance. Ben loved raising and showing dogs and was an avid hunter.

Ben was a proud 50-year member of Anchor Lodge #112 AF & AM in East Hampton, as past Master. He was a boy scout leader, enjoyed coaching soccer and basketball, was an avid league softball player and a staunch Republican. He was also a member of Ballard Hobart Post 36, American Legion in Ludlow, Vt. His goal was to live to 80 and he made it this year.

Following his retirement, Ben returned to his beloved New London, earned his captain's license, operated his lobster boat and sailed the Fishers Island Ferry. He loved the ocean, fishing, his close brotherhood of fishermen and gathering with Tom and the crew at Ocean Beach in the morning to "solve the world's problem." He was also a long-time member of the Parking Commission.

In Ben's honor, smile and have good conversation with friends and family, his favorite pastime. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his name to the Emily Eshenfelder Foundation, 80 Hamilton Street, New London, CT 06320.

The funeral service will be held at 10 a.m. Thursday, at St. James Episcopal Church, 76 Federal Street, New London. Interment following at Cedar Grove Cemetery. Byles Memorial Home, 99 Huntington St, New London is assisting with the arrangements. Please www.byles.com for directions, to sign the guest book or to share a memory.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Oct. 19, 2021.

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Ralph Nezas

November 5, 2021

I knew Ben when he was a police officer in East Hampton.
He was a credit to the Police Dept.
I enjoyed talking with him from time to time.
He lead an impressive life.
SGT.Chick Nezas Retired Manchester, Ct. Police Dept.
Formerly from East Hampton. Now Rocky Mount, NC.

Karen (Yanchinsky) Harrington

October 25, 2021

My sympathies to the entire Burdick clan. Fair winds and following seas, Mr. Burdick.

Klemens

October 21, 2021

Salt of the earth type of man. His wisdom will live on in those he touched.

Jeff Dagle

October 20, 2021

Some of my best memories are bowling with Ben and Joanne. We would complain about how bad we were bowling but actually ended up in first place one season, and of course last place in another. It was a great way to relax at the end of the week and yelling a couple of colorful metaphors when the ball did not go where we threw it, or thought we threw it, was a good way to let out that built up steam.
I will think of Ben as sailing off into the sunset.





I will think of Ben as sailing off into the sunset on his boat.

Tiffany Williams

October 20, 2021

To Liz and all her family my deepest sympathy.

Christine Sherman

October 19, 2021

I am so sorry for your loss .Prayers and hugs being sent to all of you.

Ann, Donna, Billy McLaughlin

October 19, 2021

Ben, You always brought a smile to our face.

Tim Mead

October 19, 2021

Very sorry for your loss. He sounded like an amazing man that lived a full life. May his memories bring you all peace and comfort.

Tim

Greg Voelker

October 19, 2021

From all of the members of the East Hampton Volunteer Fire Department, you have our deepest condolences.

Bob Janovic

October 19, 2021

My sympathies to the Burdick family.

Dan DiStefano

October 19, 2021

The lord has another angel- thoughts and prayers sent to the entire Burdick family from Another legend to skies-

tom eshenfelder

October 19, 2021

Benny was a fixture down at the dock for many years. Many good times and always had our backs. Always felt like a part of the family. Rest easy Big Ben we'll miss ya.

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