Groton - Benjamin Adam Flickner. April 8, 1986 - Sept. 16, 2018.

Ben's life was too short, but in that brief time he brightened the lives of so many. His smile, kind heart and snarky sense of humor were a ray of sunshine. Ben could always make you smile.

Ben was the much loved son of Paul W. and Linda Drake Flickner of Groton; the adored brother of Amanda Flickner of Groton, Alisa Flickner of New London and Brianna Flickner of Ledyard; the favorite uncle of Gisela, Ashton and Michael.

He was a 2004 graduate of Fitch High School, earned his Associate's degree from Three Rivers and his Bachelor's degree from Northeastern University. Ben resided in Brookline, Mass. and was employed as the Dean's Executive Assistant at Northeastern's College of Social Sciences and Humanities.

An outdoor celebration of Ben's life will be held at 2 p.m. Friday, Sept. 21, at the pavilion at Bethel Park, 1762 Center Groton Road (Route 117), Ledyard. There are no visiting hours.

Ben gave of his time to Haley House, 23 Dartmouth St., Boston, MA 02116. Donations can be made to that address or online at haleyhouse.org.

Please visit www.byles.com to sign the guestbook or share a memory.

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Published by The Day on Sep. 19, 2018.

Memories and Condolences
for Benjamin Flickner

Sponsored by Byles-Groton Memorial Home - Groton.

16 Entries

September 21, 2018

My heart hurts with you. There are no right words to share. Just know we love you all, and loved Ben, and will pray for you as you grieve. With love in Him, Dave and Lynne Batchelder

Dan S

September 21, 2018

Ben- You were a special kind of guy. Very outgoing and fun to be around. While we parted ways after I moved out of the area, I will always think back on our weekend nights out with friends fondly.

Steve and Mary <ihok

September 21, 2018

PAUL, LINDA AND FAMILY. KNOW THAT YOU ARE ALL IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS DURING THIS VERY DIFFICULT TIME

Camie Joyce

September 21, 2018

To Brianna and family,
Please accept my deepest condolences as you mourn sweet Ben. I am truly sorry for your heartache. I will always cherish our lengthy conversations along with his beautiful smile and sense of humor. Gosh I will miss him so much. I am honored to have had Ben in my life and heart but know he is resting in paradise and we will celebrate again one day.
Much love,
Camie Joyce

Belinda Sweet

September 21, 2018

I have nothing but the kindest memories of Ben. A piece of my heart aches for you all. I am praying for you to find some kind of peace. Love you dearly Belinda

September 20, 2018

I would like to offer my condolences to your family. Losing a loved one in death is a hard thing to go through. Please find comfort in knowing that God cares for you and he understands the grief you are experiencing. (1 Peter 5:6&7)

Colleen Bowdy

September 20, 2018

Dear Flickner Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Ben as a sweet and kind child, which it sounds those qualities remained with him throughout his life. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Ginny Emerson

September 19, 2018

Ben, you were always great with a quick wit.I enjoyed your sense of humor. You reached out to Sam as a friend. You will be so missed. You are loved.

Fran Voog

September 19, 2018

To the Flickner family I would like to express my sympathy over the loss of Ben. As his former kindergarten teacher I can say that he (and Amanda) were two of my favorite students. The memory of Ben's smile and his enthusiasm will stay with me forever. Stay strong.

Rebecca Riccio

September 18, 2018

Ben made the room brighter just by being in it. To his family and friends, I hope the warmth and light he radiated will stay in your hearts and bring you comfort.

Paula Giunta

September 18, 2018

I remember Ben from GrubStreet writing center & thoroughly enjoyed his company. My deepest condolences to his loved ones.

Jacquaetta Hester

September 18, 2018

Ben, I am hurt, sad and shocked that you are gone. You made coming to work so much easier with your smile, sense of humor and positive outlook. You were a joy to know and have around. I will miss you. Condolences to Mr. and Mrs. Flickner, I am so sorry for your loss.

Amanda M.

September 18, 2018

Ben was a beautiful and special soul. Everyone who knew him is better for having been lucky enough to have him in our lives. My deepest condolences to you all.

Matt & Sandy Rockett

September 18, 2018

Our hearts hurt. There are no words that seem quite right. Ben was one of a kind. His beautiful smile, great sense of humor and cheerful attitude will be so very missed. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. Love you!

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