He is survived by his loving wife whom he married at the Union Baptist Church of Mystic 56 years ago, Marion Bradley Barber; his daughters, Susan Gibson of Ledyard and Alison Wydler of Mystic and her husband, James; a son, Fred Barber Jr. of Groton and his wife, Lori; a granddaughter, Lauren Gibson; two grandsons, Andrew and Bradley Wydler; a great-granddaughter, Sofia; his brother, Paul Barber Jr. of North Stonington; and various nieces and nephews; as well as his friends.
He was predeceased by his parents, Helen and Stanley, and his younger brother, Kenneth.
He was an avid outdoorsman who enjoyed hunting, fishing, lobstering, gardening, watching and hearing about his two grandsons' baseball games and also his granddaughter's progression through college, The Three Doolies.
He was a lifetime member of the Groton Sportsmen's Club and the Free Masons Coastal Lodge #57, and the Scottish Rite Bodies in the Valley of Norwich.
Mr. Barber was employed by Davis-Standard in Pawcatuck for 40 years, leaving in 1990 as plant manager.
His family will greet relatives and friends from 6 to 8 p.m. on Friday at the Dinoto Funeral Home, 17 Pearl St., historic downtown Mystic. A memorial service will be conducted at 11 a.m. on Saturday at St. Mark's Episcopal Church. Private burial will be at Elm Grove Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St Mark's Episcopal Church, 15 Pearl St., Mystic CT 06355 or a charity of the donor's choice.
For information, directions, or to share a note of remembrance/condolence with his family, please visit www.dinotofuneral.com.
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Bob and Mary Anne Bailey
October 19, 2008
Worked with your mother and dad at W/Mystic Post Office and a few other family members. Sorry to hear of Freds passing. May your faith in God comfort you as you look forward to the time when there will be no more goodbyes.
Frank and Gloria Bailey
October 17, 2008
Marion and Family:
Words cannot express how we feel for your loss at this time. Fred was truly a wonderful person, May you be conforted by the wonderful memories you and Fred shared. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kathy & Keith Bowden
October 17, 2008
In loving memory of a wonderful person...even though I (Kathy)only met Fred twice~ he made me feel so comfortable as a guest in his home. I felt as if I'd known him all my life! He was great company and a wonderful cook! You could tell he loved his wife, children and grandchildren as he talked of them proudly! We will miss him...
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you, Aunt Marion and family. We love you all...
Andrea Lithgow
October 17, 2008
Marion, Susan, Freddie and Allison,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers at this sad time. Fred was truly one of the nicest men I've ever met. He will be dearly missed.
Andrea Lithgow
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