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Marcia JoAnn "Pete" Jones obituary, New London, CT

Marcia Jones Obituary

New London - Marcia JoAnn "Pete" Jones passed away Jan. 9, 2010, after battling a series of illnesses in New London, at the age of 86.

Born March 2, 1923, in Detroit, Mich., Pete, known to most as "Pete" because her maiden name was Peterson, lived much of her childhood in Ann Arbor, Mich. with summers in Duxbury, Mass.

She earned her B.A. and masters degree in English from the University of Michigan, where she was twice awarded Hopwood Awards for her creative writing.

She married Kevin, a Navy pilot, on June 14, 1945. As Kevin pursued a career in physics, petroleum engineering, and computer science, they lived in Ann Arbor; Oak Ridge, Tenn.; Chicago, Ill.; Lawrence, Kans.; Medellin, Colombia; Raleigh, N.C.; Ridgefield, Conn.; and Newark, Dele., before arriving in Groton, in 1973. During this time she was the quintessential loving "super Mom" and devoted spouse, balancing the needs of her five children and husband, while still accomplishing an amazing array of civic duties.

An organizational wunderkind, she volunteered with the League of Women Voters, PTA and Planned Parenthood. She also served on the Conservation Commission and Board of Education for the Town of Groton, on the Southeast Area Transit District board, and in New London worked for Project Oceanology and served on the board of All Souls Unitarian Church. She was instrumental in several fundraising efforts. She taught English Literature at the University of Kansas and at St. Mary's College in Raleigh.

Pete excelled at tennis, a lifelong passion, and her competitive nature won her numerous tournaments. After she and Kevin opened SPOK! Racquetball Club in New London, in 1976, Pete pushed her racquet skill to new heights, winning the International Racquetball Federation Over-65 World Championship in 1992. She enjoyed hiking, skiing, sailing, canoeing and bicycling.

After she turned 70, she and Kevin drove from Connecticut to, and throughout, Mexico. In their later years, they also hosted numerous foreign exchange students.

Pete lived life with passion and strong convictions. She contributed to countless progressive organizations. She enjoyed lively conversations and playing games. She had a wry and sarcastic wit. Pete also had a stoic disposition, allowing her to withstand pain, including once enduring a drive across the southern United States with a broken shoulder. She eschewed sentimentality as a sign of weakness, so don't go there!

A prodigious reader, Pete could often be found late at night sleeping awkwardly in her favorite chair, with a book still propped in her hand.

She leaves behind daughter and son-in-law, Marcia and Jeff Dysart of Baltimore, Md.; son and daughter-in-law, Lauren and Vivien Jones of Providence; son and daughter-in-law, Brock Jones and Judith Sommerjones of Columbia, Mo.; and son, Whitney Jones, of San Francisco, Calif. Other survivors include grandchildren, Dylan Jones, of Los Angeles, and Hayden and Carson Jones, of Providence; Zoee Sommer and Nate Sommerstack, of Columbia, Mo.; and Amalia and Bronwen Jones, of San Francisco, and her siblings, Ward Peterson, of Dearborn, Mich., and Mary Stauffer, of Sandusky, Ohio, (and their spouses, Margaret Peterson and Mel Stauffer) and numerous nephews and nieces. Additional survivors include cousin, Pat Peterson; her Breakfast Club pals; and special friends with whom she shared idyllic vacation weeks every summer in Westport, N.Y.

Her husband of sixty-three years, Kevin Rice Jones; son, Griffith Jones; and sister, Jane Peterson, preceded her in death.

A memorial service commemorating her and Kevin's lives will be held at 10 a.m. on Saturday, Jan. 16, 2010, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 19 Jay Street, New London.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Planned Parenthood or the progressive, community, or environmental organization of your choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jan. 12, 2010.

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Cathy Carner

January 20, 2010

To The Jones Family,
I was Proud to know your Mom & Dad for a short time. God has chosen 2 great people to help him. Keep your Memories
alive in your hearts.

Cathy from The Groton Regecny

Jonathan williams

January 16, 2010

The first thing I thought about when I learned of Pete's death was not any of the many stories. I first thought of an image--one which was repeated many times through the years we spent with Pete in Westport and also on little lakes in Kansas. This image is of two figures way down by the lake, walking slowly up the hill...one with a limping gate disguised as a swagger, and the other always a little boy or girl--many different ones played this role over the years, including me at one time. Pete is returning with a child from a fishing expedition on the dock, usually without any fish, but for the kid-- there was a bucketful of attention and love. I first met Pete around 50 years ago and from that time to the last time I saw her she was consistently encouraging and full of life.

And as for the most honorable Kevin, the greatest gift he gave me and our family was his benediction for Mom at her memorial service. I will always be grateful for that. Kevin was a character who had character.

My one regret is that Dove is not old enough to have benefitted, as I did, from knowing these two. They will remain for me blazing examples of individual lives well lived together. John Williams

January 16, 2010

Our thoughts are with you today. Pete leaves such vivid, solid memories, so beautifully described in her obituary. How lucky we were to have had her as a pillar in our lives, year after year, so steady and caring.
Mary, Evan, Sara, Charlotte & Phoebe Davis

Thaxter Tewksbury

January 15, 2010

On behalf of all of us at Project Oceanology who had the pleasure of working with Pete, I want to express our condolences. She was a treasure and we will miss her.

January 15, 2010

Pete was a dear friend and generous supporter of Planned Parenthood of Connecticut. She will be missed. We share your loss, and extend our sympathies to all who loved her.

Judy Tabar

January 14, 2010

To Pete and Kevin's Family:

Don and I were saddened to hear about Pete's passing, less than a year after Kevin. Your parents were fantastic and we have wonderful memories of rowing machine competition, sailing, tennis (Pete was my tennis partner for years!), and particularly, many laughs over many years. We are so grateful to have known them both!

Don and Nan Kaplan

January 14, 2010

To the Family of Pete and Kevin:

Don and I are very saddened by the loss of both Pete and Kevin, less than a year apart from each other. We truly will miss our good friends with whom we shared so many memories, the rowing machine challenge, sailing, tennis and many many laughs! Their wonderful spirits will live on through our remembering them always.

Don and Nan Kaplan

Susan Goryl Reeves

January 13, 2010

Dear Brock and the Jones clan,
Pete and Kevin took us (me & my boys) in and made us family. We spent a couple amazing summers in Westport that opened our minds and hearts to what family really means. Our lives will never be the same. I know they touched many, many others in the same way and that our world is a better place because of them. You are all in my prayers.

Helen Gordon

January 13, 2010

Such an extraordinary sounding woman. I understand better now much of Marcia's extraordinary passion, energy, kindness, and open mindedness. My condolences to all family and friends.

Dave, Pat, and Hannah Taylor

January 13, 2010

Dear Pete,

We will miss your visits to mid Missouri. You always made the place feel a little brighter. Lord knows we're not too bright when you're not here; we get especially low marks in our electoral college, lately. I hope the tradition of the annual family tennis vacations continues... we love to hear Brock's stories when he comes home from them. Give all our best to Kevin when you see him! You raised a wonderful family and a have some great kids and grandkids who will continue to make you proud.

Maria Bareiss

January 12, 2010

I met Pete at All Souls, and am so glad I got to talk with her and know her! Thank you, Pete, for fighting for Women's rights and human rights for so many years. Pete will certainly be missed.

Roger and Anne

January 12, 2010

We will miss Pete (and Kevin) and enjoyed immensely our many years of seeing them each summer in Westport around the tennis court. Pete I'll also remember with her coffee cup and greeting at 6am as we headed out for morning golf. We send condolences and love to all of you. -Roger, Anne, Ike, and Clara

Claire Sauer

January 12, 2010

My fond memories of Pete go back many years. She and I were both life members of the League of Women Voters, meaning that we had been members for over fifty years. I didn't know her all of those years, but I have great memories of her on the tennis court and at League functions. She will be sorely missed.

Rose Anne

January 12, 2010

Your mother sounds like a very special person. And now I know where you got your enthusiasm for tennis. What an interesting life she led. My prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Lois Geary

January 12, 2010

The world is less for not having Pete in it. I was witness to her Project O and Conservation Commission work in addition to her tennis talents. What a wonderful woman she was! I wish I could be at the service to celebrate her with those who loved her.

Michelle Sutton

January 12, 2010

Your mom sounds like an amazing woman and wonderful person and that should bring you great comfort . Please accept my condolences and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Shayna Siegel

January 12, 2010

Marcia,
My thoughts are with your and family at this sad time. Take care.

January 12, 2010

"My condolences to you and your family in your time of grief." Cheryle Tate-Moore (Baltimore, Md)

January 12, 2010

Marica & Jeff,

I am so sorry for your lost, my thoughts are with you, take care of yourself.

Delores (Baltimore, Md)

Darcell Little

January 12, 2010

From personal experience, the lost of such a special loved one can be difficult. Knowing that you have friends and coworkers that care, can help to ease the pain. My deepest sympathy is with you and your family during this time of loss.

Victoria Avery

January 12, 2010

Pete was also a member & supporter of the Southeastern CT chapter of the National Organization for Women (NOW). She was great help to the chapter during the campaign for the passage of the Equal Rights Amendment, and she always had interest in protecting Reproductive Rights. I'm very sorry for your loss.

Vivian Fisher

January 12, 2010

Your mom and dad lived an exciting life. Take joy in the fact that they did it their way and enjoyed every moment of it. Your mother will always be in your heart and you can cherish the many accomplishments that she achieved in her lifetime. My condolences to you and your family.

Kwabena Sarfo

January 12, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Carolyn Delly

January 12, 2010

Marcia & Family
Keeping you and your family in prayers during your lost. You have so many wonderful memories of your Mother and she will always be in your hearts. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

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