Stanley and his wife, Ingrid Feddersen, expanded the ABC Film Co. into the national photofinisher, Mystic Color Lab, which employed over 500 people at the time it was sold in 1985. He was an inventor and held a number of U.S. patents. His intellectual curiosity was insatiable.
He was born to Polish immigrant parents in Johnston, R.I., in 1915. He loved telling colorful stories of his childhood during the Great Depression. Favorites among them were the many lessons he learned working at Hymie Gold's junkyard. There, among the discarded books, he discovered his love for reading. The Horatio Alger stories became his favorite and his guideline to live by in his younger years.
His career in photography started at the Woonsocket Call newspaper as a photographer, but was interrupted by World War II when Stanley became an instructor in the U.S. Signal Corps. He resumed his post at the Call until 1951. Stanley was a charter member of the National Press Photographers Association
Stanley built and owned many boats and crossed the Atlantic with his beloved yacht "Mysticol." Friends and family accompanied him on many trips along the eastern United States and the Caribbean. It was during these travels that he visited Haiti and became concerned with the plight of the Haitian people. The Haitian Health Foundation in Norwich invited him to be on the board of directors, and he loved giving his support to their work in Jeremy, Haiti. The University of Connecticut (UCONN) honored him with an honorary doctor of humane letters degree for his humanitarian involvement.
He also was interested in supporting the local community in many ways. He was on the board of directors of the New England Savings Bank, served on the Connecticut Development Authority, appointed by both a Republican and Democratic governor. He was a member of the Advisory Council at Uncas on Thames Hospital. He served on the board of directors of the Community Chorus of Westerly where he established the endowment fund. He also served as a member of the board of the Easter Seals Rehabilitation Center.
Sharing his knowledge in lectures at UCONN and as visiting professor at Eastern Connecticut State University was pure pleasure to him. He served Lawrence & Memorial Hospital as a corporator. Stanley and his wife funded several scholarships at the Community Foundation of Southeastern Connecticut for local students.
Love for fishing and boating brought him to Stonington, and he became friends with many of the Stonington fishermen and their families. The survival of the fleet and the hardworking people was always on his mind. He was the only non-professional fisherman who was given membership into the Southern New England Fishermen and Lobstermen's Association at the time. The Stonington fishermen erected a monument honoring him for his many years of dedication and generosity.
Stanley was a humble man with so many friends. He touched all our hearts and left a legacy of great memories for us all to cherish. He will be dearly missed.
Stanley is survived by his devoted wife, Ingrid Feddersen; daughters, Pamela Kelly, Patricia Popiel, and Cynthia Popiel; his sons-in-law, Charles Kelly, Joseph Kaufman, and Daniel Patrick; grandsons, Chip Kelly, Christian Kelly, and Andrew Kaufman; five great-grandchildren; his brother, Edward Zarski and his wife, Kathy.
His brothers, Frank Popiel and Joe Zarski, predeceased him.
The special care at the Westerly Adult Day Services added comfort to his last years. His loving friends, Pam, Laura, and Lindsay added sparkle to his life.
A celebration of his life will be held at 2 p.m. Friday, Oct. 10, 2008, at the George Kent Concert Hall, 119 High St., Westerly RI.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Westerly Adult Day Services, 65 Wells St., Westerly RI 02891 or The Haitian Health Foundation, 97 Sherman St., Norwich CT 06360. To quote Stanley, "You are good."
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Jan and Joane van Vulpen
February 25, 2009
Not having been in touch for over 10 years after long period of intensive contacts related to building both "Mysticol" and "Eenling" now were looking for contact details in view of upcoming trip to the region in April/May 2009. It is a pitty that we decided to late to cross the Atlantic as we now miss unique opportunity to bring back the "Dutch memories". Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever. With a chilled "Korenwijn" at hand.
Sharon and Dave Pacheco
October 13, 2008
Dear Ingrid and Family.
Our thouhgts and prayers are with you during this time of your loss. Stanley was a great person and will be missed by so many. We will keep him in our prayers.
Elizabeth Popiel
October 10, 2008
My dear uncle is responsible for my artistic development. He was always telling me to draw draw draw from a very tiny age. I loved him dearly and welcome the ways I am like him. "betty lou"
Rita Gates
October 8, 2008
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
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Jessica Morrissey
October 8, 2008
Dear Ingrid & Family,
Stanley was a man of integrity and great compassion. He will be remembered by all who had the joy of knowing him.
God Bless, Jessica
Robert Costello
October 6, 2008
To Ingrid and family, my sincerest condolences. Stanley was a great man and will be truly missed.
Jorge Pinto
October 6, 2008
To Ingrid and family, our heart goes out to you and the family for this great loss - you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Please accept our sincere sympathy.
Jorge Pinto and Family
Henry Resnikoff
October 5, 2008
To Ingrad and family: our sincere condolences. Stanley was always so helpful to me as a young photographer, taking time to explain, give hints and useful advice. He will be missed. Henry Resnikoff and Daphne Nielsen
October 5, 2008
My heart goes out to you, Ingrid, with the loss of Stanley. I'll always remember the good times Bill and I had at your home and on your boat. You both were always so generous and gracious hosts. I'm sure that Bill and Stanley are in heaven discussing the up-coming election. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you as you go throught this difficult and sad time in your life. Nikki O'Neill--East Hampton
Peggy & Wally Krupinski
October 5, 2008
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Alvin Sher
October 4, 2008
Stanley and I go back to the days before he started his own photo processing business. I helped him modernize his first little processing shop on Bank Street in New London, that eventually led to Mystic Photo Lab.
I was a feisty young art student and Stanley was a smart energetic and curious guy. We learned a lot from each other.
We also fished and chased ladies, worked hard and had lots of fun.
Our busy grown up lives led us down varied paths over the decades, but whenever we got together, however infrequent, Stanley remained warm, generous and always trying new ideas.
He remained a dear friend, who I will miss.
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