Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
FUNERAL HOME
Thomas Carroll Obituary
Tom was born July 28, 1936, in San Diego, Calif., the son of Belia (Herrera) Carroll and Thomas Gleason Carroll. He was a graduate of Robert E. Fitch High School, Class of 1955, and attended Severn School, Severna Park, Md. Tom graduated from the U.S. Merchant Marine Academy at Kings Point, N.Y., Class of 1961. He sailed for United Fruit Co. for five years and studied naval architecture at the University of Michigan. He was employed by and retired from General Dynamics, Electric Boat Division where he worked as a naval architect.
Tom was active in Trout Unlimited, the Quaker Hill Rod and Gun Club, Thames Ski Club, and was an avid train buff. He took pride in helping to organize the Fitch Class of 1955 reunions and helped the classes of 1931 through 1946 organize and celebrate theirs.
Survivors include his wife of 42 years, Ann (Fraley) Carroll; brother, James E. Carroll and his wife, Barbara, of Cape Elizabeth, Maine; nephews, Dr. Peter Carroll of Chicago and Brian Carroll of Kannapolis, N.C.; sister-in-law, Louise F. Melcher and her husband, David, of Fogelsville, Pa. His extended family includes the William Downie family, the Ahnell family, and his life long friend, James Clifford.
The funeral service will be held 10 a.m. Monday at Byles Memorial Home, 99 Huntington St., New London. Burial will follow in the Elm Grove Cemetery, Mystic. Calling hours will be held from 2 to 4 p.m. on Sunday at the funeral home.
In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to the Thames Valley Chapter of Trout Unlimited, PO Box 76, Yantic CT 06389, U.S. Merchant Marine Alumni Foundation, Babson Center, 300 Steamboat Road, Kings Point NY 11024, or to the Red, White and Blue Mass, c/o Norwich Diocese Chancellery, 201 Broadway, Norwich CT 06360.
Please visit www.Byles.com for the obituary or to sign the online guest book.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Carroll
Dave Fairman
June 7, 2025
Rest in Peace Tom
Dave Fairman
February 19, 2025
Rest in Peace Tom
Rick & Lucy Harden
December 18, 2009
Dear Ann:
We just found out today about Tom, and we are deeply saddened. We cherish our years living on Greentree Drive and your friendship. Although we do not get back to Connecticut often, you all are always in our thoughts. Tom was a great person.
Go Blue!
Bob Leuzarder
December 17, 2009
Dear Ann,
We are saddened to learn of Toms passing. It was a privilege of working closely with Tom for many years at EB. Tom was a talented engineer, wonderful mentor & teacher to many many young engineers and a great friend. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Bob & Karol Leuzarder
Jim Fraser
December 9, 2009
Dear Ann,
I was saddened to hear of Toms passing. We worked together at EB for a number of years and I know of many that looked up to him as a very meticulous engineer who always acted with great professionalism. We also shared many stories that I fondly remember.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Frank and Eleanor Scussel
December 8, 2009
Dear Ann: We were so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. We were out of town and just found out. Frank is stunned, we both send you our deepest condolences.
Pat (Traphagen) Prophet
December 7, 2009
Dear Ann,
Our hearts are saddened to learn of Tom's passing. May you find comfort with happy memories of your years together. We have all been blessed by Tom's dedication, organization and joy in putting together wonderful class reunions. He made us all smile with his sweet spirit. Our thoughts and prayers are with you dear one during this difficult time. (Class of 1955).
Joyce Scribner
December 4, 2009
Dear Ann,
So sorry to hear of Tom's passing...My thoughts and prayers are with you...we all enjoyed so many wonderful times and conversations together through the years... Take care sweet heart and cherish the memories.
Love, Joyce
Fred & Jo Falkner
December 3, 2009
Dear Ann,
We were saddened to hear of Tom's passing. We always remember the great times we had together at TSC and the perfect mimosas that only Tom could mix. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
December 1, 2009
Dear Ann,
We are so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. We pray you find comfort in warm memories. You and Tom have always been one of our most favorite people. May God Bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Paul and Lydia Russo
November 30, 2009
Dear Ann,
We're so sorry for your loss. Although I didn't know him well, he was proud of the Carroll heritage, and a cousin of whom we were proud. His gift of storytelling and laughter was a wonderful addition to family get-togethers.
Malcolm and Evelyn (Caroll) Turner
Dan & Linda Carroll
November 29, 2009
Ann, We were surprised and sorrowed about Tom's loss. He was a friend as well as a cousin. He will be missed. We love you, and hope to talk to you soon. Sorry we can't be with you right now. Our prayers are with you.
Amee Shah
November 29, 2009
Tom was a wonderful mentor and friend. I will always remember his advice and stories with which he regaled us at EB. Tom was so special in the way he was able to connect with all kinds and ages of people, and he will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Ann and his family in this difficult time.
Marie Grillo
November 29, 2009
Dear Ann,
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. I do hope your memories and the love of family and close friends will help your during this difficult time. Please know that I there with you in spirit.
Love,
Marie
Don & Marcya Brodasky
November 29, 2009
Tom will always be in our memories and hearts as we remember the wonderful times we always had when he was with us as one of the Geriatric Commandos and the many other times we were together.
We're so sorry we can't be at the funeral Monday...we will be there with all of you in spirit. I'm so grateful Tom was part of our lives...he enjoyed life so much & his enthusiasm was contagious. We'll miss him.
Donald Forster
November 29, 2009
Dear Ann,
You are in our prayers as we remember Tom, a true friend and loyal classmate. Whether at Kings Point functions or at get-togethers with the Bishops, his low key manner and sense of humor will be greatly missed.
Don and Maggie Forster
November 29, 2009
To Ann and everyone in Tom's family, I send you my heartfelt sympathy and hope your memories bring you great comfort.
Yvonne Blakely Ames, Class of '55
Joanne O;Neil
November 28, 2009
May the wonderful memories of Tom help bring you some comfort in this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prays are with you and your family.
The O'Neil family
November 28, 2009
We send our prayers and sympathy to a classmate and family.
James & Patti Spellman, Class of 1961.
November 28, 2009
Ann,
So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. It just seem like I saw you guys at JR's Shack. I will miss him. We had many a great discussion at the TSC and I always enjoyed the Easter weekends in VT. I am in FLA for the next two weeks and cannot attend the services but I will say a prayer from here and again am sorry for Tom's passing.
Butch Sini
November 28, 2009
Tom was a quiet and diligent worker on behalf of our alumni and class. To Ann and his extended family, we extend our sincere condolences.
Don & Marie Yearwood
Bob Rogaski
November 28, 2009
Tom was a great classmate and friend. He will be missed by many.
With deepest sympathy.
Love, Rogo KP'61
Thomas Dowling
November 28, 2009
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Nancy S Russell
November 28, 2009
My condolences to Ann and family. I remember the good times.
Peter Rackett
November 28, 2009
I will never forget great times we had at alumni and Class of 1961 activities. You will be sorely missed by all your classmates and especially the Shoreline Alumni Chapter that you energized for years. We will meet again at our Class Reunion in heaven. My thoughts and prayers to Ann and family.
November 28, 2009
As a friend and clasmate and fellow worker at Electric Boat you will be dearly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and may they have comfort in knowing that you are at peace with your Lord and Saviour.
Dick and Greta Winslow (Land O Lakes, FL)
OLIN SYLVESTER
November 28, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and his brother James in this time of grief.May the memories bring comfort to everyone.
I played football with Tom at Fitch back in the 50's and we have been friends for a long time and he will be missed by everyone.
Irving Andrzejewski
November 28, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Pat and Bill Taglianetti
November 28, 2009
We will always have fond memories of our times with the Bishops and the Brodaskys. You will be missed dear friend.
Pat and Bill Taglianetti
Showing 1 - 29 of 29 results
Make a Donation
in Thomas Carroll's name
Memorial Events
for Thomas Carroll
How to support Thomas's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Thomas Carroll's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
