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Alan Marston Obituary

Long time Palm Springs, Calif. resident, Alan Marston, passed away quietly in his home on April 14, 2010. His wife, Gaby de Lys Marston, of 40 years was by his side. Alan Lowell Marston was born on July 30, 1914 to Jane and Howard Marston of Lowell, Mass. He was born into a Boston first family where his grandfather owned woolen mills. He was educated in public and private schools and continued on to attend Harvard University. Alan's life was a diverse one. After graduating he became a publicist for the RKO theaters in New England. He was a jazz critic for 'Orchestra World' magazine where he wrote articles for Boston newspapers during the swing craze and was instrumental in launching the Benny Goodman Band and its creation. A season in summer stock at an east coast playhouse led him into an acting career. He came to Hollywood in the early 1940's and after declining a job with Walt Disney as an illustrator he was put under contract to MGM and Warner Brothers Studios. He had numerous roles in motion pictures and television including 'Sunset Boulevard' and the original 'Three Musketeers' to 'The Bob Newhart Show' and '77 Sunset Strip'. Alan retired from acting to Palm Springs in the 1970's but continued his writing. He was a screen writer and the writer of authoritative articles on Bing Crosby, Benny Goodman, Rudy Vallee, and Phil Harris for the Los Angeles Sunday Times. He also became a contributing writer for The Desert Sun. In September 2001, he wrote his last article for The Sun on Joe Masters in the Arts & Culture section. He loved writing and was able to have his novel 'Yesterday's Spring' published in 2003. Alan is survived by his wife of 40 years, Gaby de Lys Marston. He has one daughter, Jennifer Marston Merfy of Redondo Beach, Calif. who adored her father. He also was 'Grandpa Alan' to Ethan Merfy, Ryan Merfy and Christopher Saunders and 'Great Grandpa' to Canyon Merfy, Dylan Merfy and Eli Merfy. He was preceded in death by his only son, Jonathan Marston. Alan Marston had a very creative and full life. He found beauty and delight in life itself. His insight will continue to evolve through all he left behind. He will always be with us and was much loved by all he touched.

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Published by The Desert Sun from Apr. 28 to May 3, 2010.

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Steven Goldstein

May 26, 2010

Dear Gaby, I'm so sorry that I did not know sooner about Alan. What little I knew of him, he seemed like a great guy. After all, he married you, right?
Sincere condolences, Gaby.

Love Steve

Julie Salazar

May 14, 2010

Alan,
One word describes you. Debonair. A courteous,kind gentleman. You are a class act. Jaime still comes to this house when he gets out of the yard. He really does miss you. Andy and I have walked him and he enjoys every minute of it. Say, hello to Mom. You both made your departure on the same day (one month ago). I love and miss you both.
Julie Salazar, Palm Springs, Ca

Meryl Graves

May 13, 2010

Leonard and I will always remember the great times we had together with you and Gaby. Love Meryl

Scott Graves

May 13, 2010

Alan has made a definite impression on my life. The things I have learned I will take with me forever.

Fred Saunders

May 10, 2010

Alan(grampa Alan)Marston left us with his smiling eyes through his daughter Jennifer.He will be deeply missed by me,his friend and more so his family.Until we all meet in heaven Rest in peace

Susie Forcina

May 9, 2010

Wherever you go and whatever you do,may the luck of the Irish be there with you....with deepest sympathy....

LARRY GREENE

May 7, 2010

REGRET NOT HAVING SPENT MORE TIME WITH ALAN AND MY COUSIN GABY.

Karen Hollenbeck

May 6, 2010

Grandpa and Great Grandpa Alan,

Thank you for being a wonderful example of a father, grandfather and great grandfather. You will be missed. Canyon and I send our thoughts and prayers to the rest of the family.

May 4, 2010

Dear Alan

Larry and I will miss you. We were privileged to know you. We also understood much of our own lives through yours. Thank you for sharing yourself and your knowledge. Give Billie Holiday a ring while in heaven.

love
Shea and Larry New

DAMON STINCHFIELD

May 3, 2010

DEAR ALAN,

I SHOULD LIKE TO SAY TO YOU WITH SUCH HEARTFELT GRATITUDE AND MUCH DUE RESPECT; THAT IT WAS AN ABSOLUTE HONOR FOR ME TO BE IN THE PRESENCE OF YOUR WONDERFUL COMPANY. YOU ARE A TRUE GENTLE-MAN AND A SCHOLAR... I ENJOYED EVERY MINUTE OF YOU...YOU WERE VERY LOVEABLE... YOU WERE A THINKER AND A KNOWER...YOU INSPIRED ME... AND YOU ENLIGHTENED ME ...THANK YOU...FOR JUST BEING YOU...MY FRIEND... AND NEIGHBOR...WITH MUCH LOVE...

DAMON SHAWN STINCHFIELD

Adam Graves

May 3, 2010

Proud to have known you and called you my Uncle. We enjoyed our trips to you, and getting to go over life, music, and family history together. I will miss you very much, but know you are there, most likely listening to some good opera with dad.
Love you....
Adam, Anat and the kids.

Rebecca Saunders

May 2, 2010

Grandpa Alan, you will always be kept in our hearts. The love and passion you had for life lives on through your memory and the family you leave behind. May you watch over us now, our guardian angel.

Stephanie Dasaro

May 2, 2010

Alan Marston was a wonderful person who touched the lives and hearts of many. He was a kind and gentle soul who was always pleasant and heart warming to be around. Though he has left us in this world, he will always be with us in spirit. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Astrid

April 30, 2010

You were my friend. I miss our talks and I love you.

Roseanna Stone

April 29, 2010

Alan Marston left behind a beautiful legacy: his daughter, his grandchildren and his great-grandchildren. My thoughts and prayers go out to his loving family.

Ryan Merfy

April 29, 2010

Even though there were alot of miles between us you were always in my thoughts and heart... just as you are now and forever. Love you Grandpa

pat acuna

April 29, 2010

love you always alan from pat acuna you are the best

Jessica Krujaick

April 28, 2010

You will be forever loved and missed.... Rest In Peace

Linda Germany

April 28, 2010

What a wonderful life Mr. Marston had!!! And what a wonderful family you all are. My thoughts and love are with all the Marstons.

Ethan Merfy

April 28, 2010

"You were an amazing father, grandfather, and great grand father!! I loved getting back from a tour and no matter where I had just come from, you always provided me with great insight. I feel so lucky to have grown close to you over the years. It was very important to me that my children were able to meet and spend time with their great grandfather. We will all miss you so much, but will never let you drift far from our hearts. I love you grandpa."

Jennifer Marston Merfy

April 28, 2010

Dad, You have and will always be with me in mind and spirit. Thank you so much for all your positive inspiration. I have wonderful lasting memories and love you very much.

Lynne & Claes Jonsson

April 28, 2010

Although we knew Alan for only a short period of time, we enjoyed him immensley. It is his wife Gaby who has been in our lives and through her we have learned more about Alan. This is a great loss to his family and friends. Hopefully, we will all be a little bit better for having known him. He had a strong spirit which will live on. Thank you Alan, for spending time with us.

Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Lynne and Claes Jonsson
Palm Springs, CA

Chris Saunders

April 28, 2010

We love you Grandpa! You will be missed. We will forever cherish the memories of the times we've had and everything you have taught us.

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