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Mark Jeffrey Miller, 44, passed away in Palm Springs, Calif. on August 31, 2009. He was born December 22, 1964 in Bedford, Ohio. Mark spent his childhood in Ohio and Zelienople, Penn. He moved to Arizona in 1978 where he graduated from Saguaro High School, Tucson, Ariz. in 1983. After, he joined the US Navy and served his country proudly for four years. Mark has lived in Palm Springs since 1990. He was a volunteer fireman at Station 36 in North Palm Springs and Station 23 in Pine Cove, Calif. Mark has worked for Riverside County Fire since 2000 and was currently the Fire Safety Specialist assigned to Rancho Mirage, Calif. Mark is survived by his wife, Jill (Cotner); parents, Jeff and Naomi Miller; siblings Eric and Miran Miller, David and Wendy Miller, and Beth and Marc Barry; three nieces and two nephews. He will be missed for his patriotism, generosity, warm heart and big hugs. A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, September 19, 2009 at 1:00 PM at The Commissary in Rancho Mirage. In lieu of flowers the family suggests donations be made to Guide Dogs of the Desert or any veteran organization.

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Published by The Desert Sun from Sep. 16 to Sep. 21, 2009.

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September 3, 2013

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Naomi Miller

August 16, 2013

Naomi Miller

August 16, 2013

Shantel,
Jeff and I just read your beautiful message and cannot tell you how much it means. Yes, it is almost 4 years since Mark has been gone. To read of the kind deeds he is remembered for is so heartwarming. To know that others remember him and think about him helps us deal with the reality that he is gone. August 31st is coming up and we will light the memorial candle and say our prayers.

Shantel Bacon

August 16, 2013

Jill and the entire Miller Family..You all are often in my heart and prayers. I hope that time is healing you all and that you feel the love of those around you. It feels like yesterday that I heard the news. I knew mark on a professional level. He was the fire inspector and I a health inspector. We had met up on a few projects in the city and at some city outdoor cooking events. It was always great to see him because he was so nice and just made the work day enjoyable. I just remember how detailed he was and how nice and helpful he was. That Friday night Aug 28th I had to do a late inspection of a restaurant and Mark offered to met me over there because the owners were being difficult and something was wrong with the hood system. I told him no you need not bother but thank you for offering...I keep going back to that day like many others and wished I had the opportunity to have one more laugh with him or to just thank him for helping me do my job better but I knew I see him on Monday at the final inspection of another restaurant. I learned a lot about hood exhaust systems from him and about how to always tell colleagues how much you appreciate them. Often when I think of Mark and each year around this time I pray for strength and peace for all of the Miller Family. Thank you Jeff and Naomi for allowing me to express myself.

Eric

July 23, 2012

Brother,

We are coming up on 3 years since you left. I wish we could talk and plan a motorcycle ride across the country. I still have that whacky motorcade hat with the raccoon cover. Who could ever forget the effort you made to glue a Navy model to the top of my graduation cap and the times in the Philippines.
I still cry not only because you are gone but also because my daughter (Sidra) remembers you and misses her uncle.

Mark 16 months Wickliffe Ohio

September 15, 2010

Mark and Jill

September 11, 2010

Naomi & Jeff Miller

April 1, 2010

Dearest Mark,
Time passes. It is now 7 months since you are gone. Your memory is ever so strong. Remembrances of you as my first baby, my endearing child, my Navy son, my brave, kind and giving adult son, memories of our last time with you last May and our last phone conversations last August -- all remain fresh and forever etched in my heart. I hear your laugh, see your smiling face, feel the strength of your hugs. Yes, you are gone from all of us - Dad, Jill, Eric and Miran, David and Wendy, Beth and Marc, Sydney, JJ, Noah, Sidra, Rital, Aunt Millie, your cousins, Juanita and Don. I believe you are in heaven with Grandma and Grandpa Eichel, Grandma and Grandpa Miller, Lois, and now Uncle Bill. I can almost feel your presence in the room as I add this message. Dad and I will forever love you with the depth of our beings. We know with the strength of our one God we will once again be reunited with you and hear your hearty, "Hey mom and dad". Looking to the Tucson mountain ranges and quoting from Psalm 121, "I will lift up mine eyes unto the mountains; From whence shall my help come? My help cometh from the Lord, Who made heaven and earth. "

May you find peace and consolation. With all our love

Mom and Dad
April 1, 2010

Janice Weinstein Jager

October 28, 2009

Jill
I heard from Cheryl Klabacha about your loss. I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you.

joe andrade

October 18, 2009

Hey Bro wish i got to see you one more time but you know how i felt about you as a friend and compadre. i will miss you and your sense of humor

joe andrade

Jean Rambeau-Grimes

October 3, 2009

Sorry to hear about your loss! He will be well missed!

Loran Arvizu

September 27, 2009

Dear Jill, we are so sorry for the sudden loss of your love, Mark. He was a great man and you two had such a loving life together. He was a great man and we will always remember his kindness with us.
Sincerely,
Loran and Kymberly

Wendy Miller

September 23, 2009

Dear Sister Jill, Mom and Dad and Family,
David and I truly love you all! I grieve for the many memories we won't have of our dear brother, Mark. I hope he knew how much we loved him. I hope he knew how much we cared about him. And I hope he knew that even though we were far apart in distance, that he was in our thoughts in prayers.

Your memory will linger in our hearts forever.

William Glover

September 21, 2009

Mark Miller Family ~

We were very saddened to hear of Mark's passing. May the wonderful memories of Mark and your family bring you peace during this difficult time. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Silva-Glover Family

Daphne Ray

September 21, 2009

Dear Jill,

I was sorry to hear about Mark. I know he will be missed by all who knew him. Our condolences to you and all his friends and family.

Doug Lynn

September 20, 2009

I send my deepest condolences to the entire Miller family. May your memories of Mark bring you great comfort during this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Suzanne Thomas

September 20, 2009

Dear Jill and family,
I was so saddened to hear of Mark's passing--you are most certainly in my thoughts and prayers at this time. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Thinking of you,
Suzanne Thomas
DSUSD & McCallum buddy

Bob Smallwood

September 20, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. First I want you to know that it is o.k. to still feel hurt and sadness even though we have a strong faith in God. Romans 15:4 says, “All things that were written aforetime were written for our instruction, that through our endurance and through the comfort from the Scriptures we might have hope.” We do receive comfort from the scriptures, but we also have to endure. It is so wonderful to know that Jehovah God remembers all who succumb to death, and promises that we will see our loved ones again. “The hour is coming in which all in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out.” John 5:28, 29. So God did not take your loved one or it would be foolish to resurrect him in the future. James 1:13 says with evil things God cannot be tried. You can be sure you will see him again. Our hearts and prayers are with the family.

September 19, 2009

There is a place
That we call memory...
A province by itself
Which, though unseen, is home
And heaven to the heart....
And there,
In peace and beauty waiting,
Are those with whom we shared
Our yesterdays.

Author Unknown

I feel privileged to have attended Mark's Celebration of Life today at the Commisary. Although I never met him, I feel as though I know him and wish that I could have received one of his wonderful hugs. He was so special to so very many.

I will look forward to seeing you at the McCallum when you return. Until then, please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Farris

Jeff/ Tracy Judice

September 19, 2009

The next time you hear thunder- it will be Mark on his Harley in Heaven! A kind soul with determination and grit. Mark was the kind of person who thought of others first- not too many people with that ability around in today's world. Our hearts mourn him- but we are oh so happy to have experienced his friendship.

Al Burghard

September 18, 2009

Jill, it's 6:15 Friday evening and I just heard about Mark from a Client and Friend. Mark was the inspector for several projects we recently completed. My son and I had lunch with him on August 5th at the "Slice". You were suppose to be there but there was a mix-up with the days. I am sorry I didn't get to meet you.

I've known Mark for a couple of years on a professional level but on this last project we became friends. He was extemely helpful and went out of his way to help us get our Certificate of Occupancy. During that time we communicated frequently by cell. The project was finished but we both agreed to stay in touch.

This is a shock and I feel like I lost someone close to me. Jill, My heart goes out to you. There is little that can be said at such a time, but know that you can lean on God who will comfort you at this difficult period. My deepest and most sincere Condolences

Rene Phillips

September 18, 2009

Jill and the Miller family ,
I'm so sorry about the lost of mark he was a special guy I'm glad i had the chance to know him. I'm going to miss the big hugs that he gave every time i came out there.

Sharon Berman

September 18, 2009

I cannot begin to imagine how difficult this is for all of you. Know that our sympathy and prayers are with you and yours.

Peg Leo

September 17, 2009

Sept. 17, 2009
Our deepest sympathy to you Jill.
Our thoughts and prayes are with you.
Love,
Peg and Bob Leo

Peg Leo

September 17, 2009

Sept. 17, 2009
Jill, our sincere sympathy.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Peg and Bob Leo

Terri/Jeff Laddusaw

September 17, 2009

Our deepest sympathy to you, Jill. Although we never had the pleasure of meeting your husband, we are deeply saddened to learn of his passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Larry, Mark and Dave

Dave Dora

September 17, 2009

My sincere condolences to his wife and family, I was not around Mark alot but I will miss riding with him.

JB

September 17, 2009

I knew Mark for over 11 years and work very closely with him for a few years before he started working for Riverside County Fire, he was a good hearted person and fun to work with. I am sorry he is gone I never met his wife but my prays are with her and his family I hope they are all doing as well as expected.

Jonathan Stahl

September 17, 2009

Mark,
From all of us at Shasta Fire Protection, Inc. We send our love to your family, and thanks to you for the many years of service you provided this great valley. We will miss the great working relationship we had with you. God bless your family through this difficult time.

Robin Beyer

September 17, 2009

I never met Mark personally but I did work with him by phone on Fire Alarm Plans, he was a pleasure to work with. My sincere condolences to his family.

Chris Carey

September 16, 2009

Will miss you buddy. Honored to have called you a friend.

Teresa Besse

September 16, 2009

Jill, Brenna and I only met Mark once while at your home last year for a candle party and he was teasing us right off the bat when we walked up the drive way and there he was with his harley. I could tell he was a man with a BIG HEART. My heart is with you in this time of pain.

Love Teresa Besse

Sue Studley

September 16, 2009

Jill,
We will miss Mark and his giving caring ways. He always seem to worry about everyone around him. You are in our hearts and prayers.
Love Dennis and Sue Studley

Eric Miller

September 16, 2009

Mark was the best brother, brother-in-law and uncle one could ever hope to have in their life. He had the heart of gold and gave so much to his friends and family. He loved Jill (his best friend) with unprecedented devotion. Mark was also a devout patriot; first serving in the Navy followed by service to the community (volunteer first responder and fire inspector).

Eric, Miran, Sidra and Rital
Norfolk, Virginia

Tony & Lorrie Montez

September 16, 2009

U will always live in r hearts/prayers; 4 you've celebrated a life well lived from past conversations. We will cherish the working memories 4ever @ Mission Hills Country Club while we built the Spa/Fitness & Sports Center. N loving memory of a wonderful man 4 whom we will love/miss always!

We all have memories n our pockets of u, 4 they rattle among r change. R memories of u r treasures we carry wherever we go, 4 they r stored n bits/pieces. Part of a beautiful whole 4 they give us comfort when we think we r alone. Yes we all have memories in r pockets of u among so much other stuff we keep there. But of all the treasures we have its the memories of u that r the most precious to ALL.

We will ALL miss u 4ever BRO . . .

September 16, 2009

Jill,

I am sending you my sincere condolences.

Maria L. Puente

Ron Cummings

September 16, 2009

Mark,
Thank you for all your hard work and dedication to your job. It has been a pleasure meeting you and learning from you. I will always remember how tough of an inspector you where knowing that you only had the best intentions for the public's safety in mind.

You will be missed by many.
God bless you and your family.

Ron Cummings
Pyro Comm Systems,Inc.

Patti O'Donnell

September 16, 2009

To All of Mark's Family,

My brief working relationship with Mark as a co-worker at the Fire Marshal's office was special. He was thoughtful, helpful and gregarious, even in his last hours we were with him.

My prayers and thoughts are with all you in this uncertain time we all live in. Life is short and precious. Mark left us all with a fondness for his helpfulness and big heart.

September 16, 2009

Mark,
We miss you! We will always remember your zest of life, hearty laugh, & good friendship. We have such great memories with you! Volunteering together at 36, hanging out, working on projects together & you playing the bag pipes in our kitchen. It was great! You touched our lives and will always have a special place in our hearts.

Matt MacLean and Kristin King

Michelle Aleman

September 16, 2009

To the family of Mark,

He was a very good inspector, his williness to teach others was wonderful. I do remember him as a big huggable man, who in every professional way was passionate about his job. We miss him in the Fire Marshal's office, we have mourned him since he left us. We look forward to meeting his dear family and celebrating his life, which we were not part of outside of work, but know he was a very special person to all who knew him. I miss him, but know that he is in heaven with no worries.

Sandra Johnson

September 16, 2009

I have worked with Mark for the last three years at the City of Rancho Mirage, as a Code Compliance Officer. He was one of the kindest gentlemen I knew. I emphasize the word gentlemen, because he was just that and more. Whenever I needed someone to accompany me on an inspection, I could not only rely on Mark to be there, but I genuinely felt protected by his presence. Mark was not only my colleague, but I was also honored to regard him as my friend.

My son Michael was very impressed with Mark the first and only time he met him. I don’t know too many teenagers who can be easily impressed. My son was particularly thankful to Mark for always looking out for his mother. That in itself, is a testimony of the type of person and character Mark possessed. He was big guy with a warm heart. He will be remembered for his generosity and long conversations :-)

We seldom think of what we have, but always think of what we miss. Mark will for forever be missed. My prayers are with his family and friends. May God strengthen you during your time of grief and console you with the presence of His spirit.


Sandra Johnson, and son Michael

Roni Irons

September 16, 2009

Jill, I miss Mark in sooo many ways, most of all You and Mark. Joey and Melissa send one of Marks kind of hugs they miss your way.


Lot of love and big hugs
Roni and kids

Vallerie Walthour

September 16, 2009

Mark

I shall miss our many conversations here at Rancho Mirage you were such a wonderful friend who touched my life for such a short while but will remain in my heart for a very long time. I know you are up there with the Lord playing your beautiful bagpipe music now. Rest in peace my friend until we meet again.

Love your friend,
Vallerie Walthour

Cindy Stoddard

September 16, 2009

I will remember Mark for his generosity and concern for others. Wish I could have heard him play the bagpipes just once. He was instrumental in giving and inquiring on Fernando Aguilar, a City of Rancho Mirage employee who lost his battle to cancer in April 2008. My heart and my prayers are with his family, Jill, and his close friends. God be with you and comfort you during this difficult time.

September 16, 2009

Dear Naomi and Jeff
Being parents, the hardest thing in life is losing a child. Our deepest sympathy to all of you on your horrific loss.

My very religious sister, who lost 3 children in a auto accident once said to me that when a soul is born, the angels cry because they are losing a soul and humans rejoice because they are gaining a new soul and when a soul dies the angels rejoice because their soul is returning to them while humans cry because they have lost a soul.

May you find comfort in knowing that Mark's soul has returned to the angels and they are rejoicing in having him back.

God bless you in your time of sorrow.

Linda and Bob Gorde
Lynchburg, VA

Mark a few days old in Kent, Ohio

Naomi & Jeff Miller

September 14, 2009

Mark
From the first time we held you in our arms in Dec '64 to the last time we saw you in May of this year, we loved you with all our being. How quickly the years fly! T- ball in Zelienople, middle and high school years in Phoenix and Tucson -- how proud we always were of you. Your skills -- artistic, electronic, drafting,home repair, bagpiping and so many others -- will remain in our memories. Your devotion to family,your exceptional closeness with Grandma Miller and Grandpa Eichel, all of this will sustain us through these impossible days. I will always remember that wintry Pennsylvania day that you, Eric and I were caught in a black ice storm near Beaver Valley Mall and our little Morris Minor was precariously positioned sideways on a road with sheer imbankments on both sides. You said to me, (at age 7), "Mom why can't our car move?" (Your mother was scared to even breathe, let alone drive). You honored your father and I in so many ways, your Navy service, volunteering for the Volunteer Fire Departments, and your last job assuring fire safety in the progressive city of Rancho Mirage. Our family knows that this world is a better place for all the lives you touched. Your generosity and hearty laugh live in our hearts. Until we meet again, dear Mark.

Love
Mom and Dad

William Miller

September 14, 2009

Our nephew Mark is now with the Lord,
but he will always be lovingly
remembered by his family and friends.

The soul departed in the Lord does not
die, it returns to God, who is the
Giver of Life.

Our thoughts and prayers are with
Jeff and Naomi and all of their family.

Our sympathy and love,
Uncle Bill and Aunt Millie

Fritz Miller

September 13, 2009

Mark

I love you. See you in heaven.
Thanks for your service to our country. Being a good husband. I will miss you till I see you again.

Love you Man!

Your Cousin Fritz!

Mary Manson

September 13, 2009

We never knew Mark personally but through his family we both watched him grow.
From us here in Scotland we send our deepest sympathy and love for all those close to Mark.
May God bring you his comfort in this time of need.
All our love from our family to yours.
Mary and John Manson

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