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Fay L. Mawhinney
Fay L. Wallace Cashmere Mawhinney, 84, of Butler died Sunday.
She was the beloved mother of Cynthia Morgan (Reid), Edward Cashmere Jr. (Jaqueline), William Cashmere (Linda), Drew Cashmere, David Cashmere, Carolyn Poeppel (Norman), Brian Cashmere (Audra), Kristen Cashmere, Neil Cashmere and the late Richard Cashmere; loving stepmother to many stepchildren; and grandmother to many grandchildren, great-grandchildren and step-grandchildren. Also surviving is a sister, June Boyd.
She was preceded in death by her first husband, Edward Cashmere Sr., and her second husband, Charles Mawhinney.
MAWHINNEY - Arrangements for Fay L. Wallace Cashmere Mawhinney, who died Sunday, July 31, 2011, are private and have been entrusted to Worrell Funeral Home, Pittsburgh.

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Aug. 2, 2011.

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Brian Cashmere

July 29, 2025

Mom,

I miss you as much as ever.

Love,

Buddy

Cynthia Morgan

July 27, 2025

Mom, I love you forever.

Cindi

Cindi

July 31, 2024

Cindi

July 31, 2024

Cindi

July 31, 2024

Mom, it's 13 years ago that you left us to be with Dad & Chuck, & how I miss you with the ornery sparkle in your eyes.

You'd be delighted with your beautiful great granddaughters, Rhonwen & Lilith. Both are cute, intelligent little girls, mischievous, too.

I hope to move back soon to Western Pennsylvania. My soul is in the green hills of that area. To live on a wooded property with wildlife & the opportunity to grow native plants. To sit outside & listen to the birds & insects.

Well, I love you & that's forever.

Cindi

Brian Cashmere

July 30, 2024

It's hard to believe it's been thirteen years since you went home. I think of you often and all the good times we shared. As you would say, "it's not goodbye but see you later. I love you mom

Cindi Morgan

July 31, 2023

Mom, I shared photos of my granddaughters, Rhonwen & Lilith, your great granddaughters. You'd love them so much.

I love you forever, Mom.

Cindi

Cindi Morgan

July 31, 2023

Cindi Morgan

July 31, 2023

Cindi Morgan

July 31, 2023

Mom, I love you, & I miss you. My grandchildren, your great grandchildren, both little girls, are a joy. You'd love them very much as you loved us.
Love you forever, Cindi

Brian Cashmere

July 31, 2023

Mom, It's been twelve years since you went to heaven. I think about you several times a day. One thing that never changes is my love for you. Peace Mom.

Cindi Morgan

August 1, 2022

I miss you, Mom, & I love you forever.

Cindi

Brian

July 30, 2022

Another year since you passed, I miss you as much as ever. I love you Mom

Buddy

Cindi Morgan

January 26, 2022

Mom, I miss you & love you. Happy Birthday.

Brian

January 25, 2022

Happy Birthday Mom. I love and miss you.

Cindi

July 31, 2021

Mom, it's 10 years since you left us to be with your loved ones in Heaven. I miss you and think of you daily.

You'd so love the bright little star of my life - Rhonwen, my granddaughter & your great granddaughter. She is cute, expressive eyed, dimpled, playful, & inquisitive. She loves books, another generation of Wallaces to carry on the reading tradition. I love her to the moon and back.

I love you, Mom.

Cindi

Brian Cashmere

July 30, 2021

Mom, It's hard to believe it is ten years since you passed. A lot of good things have happened since then. You have adorable great-grandchildren now. We have maintained the closeness you always wanted us to share. Audra and I are buying property in the country that you would love. I think of you often and smile at your memory. The bond we share will never be broken. I love you Mom. Love "Buddy"

Cindi Morgan

May 9, 2021

Happy Mother's Day, Mom. I love you always.

Lisa

January 25, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. I will love you and miss you always.

Brian Cashmere

January 25, 2021

Happy Birthday Mom, I love and miss you.

Cindi Morgan

January 24, 2021

Happy Birthday, Mom. I love you forever.

Cindi

William Cashmere

July 31, 2020

Mom,
Mom, It's hard to believe it's been nine years since you went to heaven to be with Jesus and all that love you very much .I remember all the good times we all had with you. We miss you dearly. We all love you always
. God Bless You Always'
Bill, Linda & Neil

Brian Cashmere

July 28, 2020

Mom, It's hard to believe it is almost nine years since I last saw that devilish smile and that twinkle in your eyes. They say time heals all wounds. That was obviously said by someone who never lost someone as special as you. I love you Mom.

Cindi Morgan

June 21, 2020

Mom, when you see Dad & Chuck in Heaven this Father's Day, please give both a hug from me. Give Dad a big hug.

I love you & miss you.

Cynthia Morgan

May 10, 2020

Happy Mother's Day, Mom. I miss you & I love you.

Cindi

Cindi Morgan

January 26, 2020

Mom, have a very happy heavenly birthday. I love you so much & miss you so deeply. You would adore baby Rhonwen.

Cindi

William Cashmere

January 25, 2020

Dear Mom,
. Have a very happy birthday .We miss you dearly .
. God Bless You Always,
. Bill ,Linda, & Neil

William Cashmere

December 25, 2019

Mom
Have a very merry Christmas. We miss you very much . We love you always.
. God Bless You Always,
Bill, Linda, & Neil

Brian Cashmere

December 25, 2019

Merry Christmas Mom. I love and miss you, please give a hug to all for me.

Cindi Morgan

December 24, 2019

Mom, a very heavenly Merry Christmas to you. I love you so much.

Cindi

Cynthia Morgan

July 31, 2019

Mom, you went to heaven 8 years ago today. I miss you so much.

You'd be so proud of Amanda. She is a great mother to baby Rhonwen who is just a feisty & stubborn little doll. (I wonder whom she got those traits from?)

I love you forever, Mom.

Cindi

William Cashmere

July 31, 2019

Dear Mom,
It's been eight years . Mom we miss you more more and more everyday .We all remember all to great times we had together .
We love you always
. God Bless You Always ,
. Bill, Linda, and Neil

Brian Cashmere

July 31, 2019

Eight years since you have passed. I think of you often. They say the deeper the pain the deeper the love. I miss and love you Mom

Bill Cashmere

May 13, 2019

Mom,
Have a very happy Mother's day. We all miss you dearly .We all love you,mom.
. God Bless You Always,
. Bill, Linda, & Linda

Cindi Morgan

May 12, 2019

Mom,

Happy Mother's Day!

Love you forever.

Cindi

William Cashmere

January 28, 2019

Mom we hope you had a very happy birthday. We miss very dearly.
Love Always,
Bill, Linda, & Neil

William Cashmere

January 28, 2019

Mom,
We pray and hope you had a very nice and very happy birthday .We miss you dearly .
. We love you Always.
. God Bless you Always,
Bill, Linda, & Neil

Cindi Morgan

January 25, 2019

Happy Birthday, Mom. I hope you are having a grand party with cake, ice cream, & all the trimmings in Heaven. I love you forever.

Love, Cindi

Brian Cashmere

January 25, 2019

Happy Birthday Mom, I love and miss you.

William Cashmere

December 26, 2018

Mom, It's hard to believe how fast Christmas comes go. We miss you more and more everyday.We love you always .Merry Christmas to you ,Bill, Linda & Neil

Cindi Morgan

December 26, 2018

Mom, you are missed today and always.

Merry Christmas,

Cindi

Brian Cashmere

December 25, 2018

Merry Christmas Mom. You always loved the holidays and the opportunity to bring family together. I hope you are celebrating with all of our loved ones today and always

William Cashmere

October 8, 2018

Mom,
I remember all times we went to East Brady to look at the beautiful leaves . And we went to Cooks Forrest for the weekend . The time when a bear was at the door .Norman turn on the light to see what was at the door .He said, its a bear and her cubs went up a tree . We miss you more and everyday .We all love you .God Bless you always we all will meet again. Bill, Linda, & Neil

Cindi Morgan

July 31, 2018

Mom, you went to heaven 7 years ago. The pain from missing you has dulled but not gone away. I love you so much.

Some news that would make you so happy. My Amanda Panda had a baby girl on July 8. Amanda & Brandon have named her Rhonwen, a Welsh name meaning "slender & fair." And she is tiny & very pretty. I love her so much, & you would love her too.

I love you, Mom.

Cindi

William Cashmere

July 31, 2018

Mom,
We miss you dearly everyday .We remember all the good times. I remember do all the canning It was always great times with you. Remember the weekends when at Cook Forest When there was a knock on the door .Here it was a bear
We love you always.
. God Bless you Always , Bill,Linda & Neil

Brian Cashmere

May 13, 2018

Happy Mother's Day Mom. I remember spending the whole weekend with you for your last Mother's Day. It was a special time for us both. We went down to Cummings candy shop on main street and got really good coffee there along with really good chocolates. I love and miss you

January 29, 2018

Mom,
You are forever in my heart. Happy 91st.

Love,
Carol

William Cashmere

January 26, 2018

Mom
Have a very happy 91 st birthday . Tell everyone we love them all .We miss you dearly .
We all love you.
God Bless all of you ,
Bill, Linda, & Neil

January 25, 2018

Mom, you'd be 91 years old today. I love you so much & miss you everyday of my life. Happy Birthday to you. Please give hugs to all family. Love, Cindi

William Cashmere

January 5, 2018

Mom,
. I love you more and more everyday I will always remember the smell of you baking pumpkins pies and the great turkey baking during the Thanksgiving holidays .Also remember walking down to Summit Church during advent on Tuesday afternoon having a lunch and prayer . I miss and love you forever . God Bless you Always , Bill,Linda & Neil

Cindi Morgan

July 31, 2017

Mom, I miss you & I love you.

Brian Cashmere

July 30, 2017

Mom its been six years since you went to heaven. I miss you Mom and love you forever.

Love,

Buddy

July 31, 2016

Mom, it's been 5 years. I miss you so much. I will forever love you.

Brian Cashmere

May 9, 2016

Happy Mother's Day. I love you.

Cindi Morgan

May 8, 2016

Love you, Mom, on this Mother's Day.

Cindi Morgan

May 8, 2016

Happy Mother's Day, Mom. I love you forever.

January 25, 2016

Happy Birthday to my wonderful, much-loved, & much - missed mom. Love you forever.

Brian Cashmere

January 25, 2016

Happy Birthday Mom, I love and miss you.

Brian Cashmere

September 10, 2015

Mom, 52 years ago you showed me what unconditional love was. I miss hearing you sing happy birthday to me, or even leaving it as a message. I also miss you playing the peanuts theme. That always brought a smile to my face knowing tou were still a kid at heart. I miss you today and always love Buddy

August 1, 2015

Love you, Mom, & miss you so much. That mischievous sparkle in your eyes...

Brian Cashmere

July 31, 2015

Hard to believe it has been four years. I love and miss you

May 16, 2015

I missed Mother's Day, but it is the sentiment that counts. I just want you to know that I love you now & will love you forever.

May 16, 2015

Mom, Mother's Day was last Sunday. I'm late again. I just want you to know that I love you now & will love you forever.

Cindi Morgan

January 27, 2015

Late, as usual, Mom.

Love you so much on your birthday, today, & always. God bless you.

Cindi

Brian Cashmere

January 25, 2015

Happy Birthday Mom. I love and miss you.

Brian Cashmere

September 10, 2014

Mom, It has been 51 years since you brought me into this world and was the first to love me. What I would give to hear you sing happy birthday to me one more time. Thanks for the sacrifices and the good times. I love and miss you Mom

Buddy

August 2, 2014

"I'll give you a daisy a day, dear. I'll give you a daisy a day. I'll love you until the rivers run still, and the four winds we know blow away."

Love always.

Carol

August 2, 2014

You are in my thoughts and heart as always. I listened to the song "I'll Give You a Daisy a Day, Dear." I remember you singing that song in the kitchen of our little house along Route 8. It tears me up, but it is a happy memory. Daisies and yellow roses were your favorite flowers. It's been three years, but you will always be with me in my heart. One day we will be reunited in heaven. Give Dad, Uncle Bill, Richard, Chuck, and all our loved ones a hug for me. You are gone but never forgotten. I will love you forever.

July 31, 2014

I miss Mom too. I remember all the good times & the bad times, but mainly the good times. We had such fun. I remember anchoring to the roof of the Vega a huge Christmas tree. And blackberry pie from berries my brothers picked. And the sweltering un-airconditioned kitchen canning everything from green & yellow beans to peaches to applesauce to tomatoes to strawberry jam. And sauerkraut & pork every Saturday during fall & winter. And the Halloween tree costume she made for me when I entered a contest & won on KDKA TV, a kids' show called "Funsville" with Josie Carey, Stirling Yates, & Johnny Costa. And she never wanted to learn to knit (I love knitting & have since high school days.) because she thought it was for old ladies. And how embarrassed I was & how amused she was when a cashier told us that Neil looked like "Grandma."

Brian Cashmere

July 30, 2014

Mom,

It has been three years since you went home to be with God. I know you are free of pain and suffering. I miss you still and will until we are reunited. I remember leaving your room after I kissed you and told you I would see you later. I stepped out the door of your room and started walking down the hall but I turned around and went back in your room and gave you another kiss. Your eyes opened and you smiled at me. I think I knew. Anyway I, love you Mom and dont ever forget it. I always told you that too.

Brian Cashmere

May 11, 2014

Happy Mother'S Day. Love you lots.

May 11, 2014

Happy Mother's Day, Mom. I love you.

Cindi

Brian Cashmere

May 9, 2014

Mothers Day weekend is upon us again. The day has lost its glory for me. I loved celebrating it with you and knew how much it meant to you but what you might not have realized was how special those days were for me too. You live on in my heart and will be there forever. I love you Mom

Buddy

Brian Cashmere

January 28, 2014

I miss you so much.

January 28, 2014

Mom. "The hurrier I go the behinder I get."

How often I remember you quoting that PA Dutch saying. Well, it applies to your daughter, too! So I am belatedly wishing you a very happy birthday.

I am certain you celebrated with Dad, Uncle Bill, Chuck, & Herman. Please tell all how much I miss them.

Love you so much,

Cindi

Brian Cashmere

January 25, 2014

Mom,

Today is your birthday and I want to wish you happy birthday. I'm sure you are celebrating in heaven. Give everyone my love, you are deeply missed.

Love,

Buddy

Brian Cashmere

January 25, 2014

Mom,

Today is your birthday and I want to wish you happy birthday. I'm sure you are celebrating in heaven. Give everyone my love, you are deeply missed.

Love,

Buddy

Carolyn Poeppel

August 1, 2013

Mom,
You are in my thoughts as always. There have been so many things I have wanted to tell you, but Grace says, "It's okay, Mommy. She already knows." It's been two years now since you went home to be with our Lord. I know we will be together again one day, and I am comforted to know you are at peace, free from that earthly body that caused you so much pain and suffering. You will live forever in our hearts. I love you.
Carol

July 31, 2013

It's been two years, Mom. I miss you so much. You will always be in my heart.

Love you,

Cindi

Brian Cashmere

July 30, 2013

It has been two years since you went home to be in heaven. I hope you know that you will never be forgotten. I miss taht ornery smile of your and that devilish sparkle in your eyesi. I look at your pictures to see it often. I love you Mom

drew cashmere

May 12, 2013

miss you mom.love drew.

Brian Cashmere

May 12, 2013

Mom, My thoughts are with you today and always. Happy Mother's day. I love and miss you

Love,

Brian

Cindi Morgan

May 12, 2013

Happy Mother's Day, Mom. I love you.

Cindi Morgan

February 5, 2013

Happy Belated Birthday, Mom.

Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I miss you so much, miss seeing the ornery sparkle in your eyes.
I love you, Mom.

Carolyn Poeppel

February 3, 2013

Mom,
I can't believe the anniversary of your birthday has come and gone. You are with me each and every day, as you will always live on in my heart until that glorious day when we are reunited in Heaven. I miss your smile, the sound of your voice, and your words of encouragement. You will always be our "braveheart". You continue to inspire us all each and every day. Thank you for all the sacrifices you made for each of us. You will always live on our hearts.

I will always love you.

Carol

January 25, 2013

Mom, Today is your 86th birthday and how I wish you were here to celebrate with us. You were a true Wallace, a fighter like no other. I still remember celebrating your 84th birthday together and how your eyes got soft and teary eyed when you realized we were taking you to see your friends at Life Butler. Sharing that day meant the world to me. I love you Mom. Happy Birthday love your son Brian

July 31, 2012

It has been one year since I lost you. You were such a great Mom with a loving and supportive way about you. I miss seeing the ornery smile and that devilish sparkle in your eyes. As I said before your smile could melt an iceberg. They say time heals all wounds but not the pain of losing you. Until we are together again you will live in my heart. I miss you Mom. Your loving son,

Brian

Carolyn Poeppel

June 10, 2012

Mom,
Thinking of you. You'd be so proud of Katie on her graduation day. I bought her yellow roses in remembrance of you, and told her you are always with her in spirit. She has grown into such a beautiful young woman. She misses you so much. We all do, but you will live forever in our hearts. Love always.

Carol

May 13, 2012

Mom,

Today is your special day and I remember how special last Mother's day was for us both. I spent the weekend with you taking you "junking" and to Cummings for a Mocha. I will always cherish the memories of you on Mother's Day and always....Love your son Buddy.

Carolyn Poeppel

January 26, 2012

Happy Birthday, Mom. I am thinking of you and remembering you with love. I know I will meet you again in Heaven, and oh, what a family reunion that will be! Thank you for being such a blessing to our family. We have so many precious memories of you that we will hold forever in our hearts. "I'll love you forever. I'll like you for always. As long as I'm living, my Mommy you'll be."

Love always...Carol

Cindi Morgan

January 26, 2012

Happy Birthday, Mom. I miss the ornery sparkle in your eyes.

I love you, Mom... Cindi

Brian Cashmere

January 25, 2012

Mom,

Today is your 85th birthday, although we are not together physically to celebrate you are still and always will be in my heart. I remember sharing your 84th birthday with you and how much fun you had at Life Butler and to see the outpouring of love the fellow participants showed towards you was so sweet. I remember the tears of joy you shed that day. The memories of your warm and caring smile will last me forever, at least until we are together again...I love you Mom.....Brian

Carolyn Poeppel

August 5, 2011

I am so blessed to have had the honor to call you "Mom." A brave heart stopped beating, but will live forever in our hearts. We love you. Thank you, Heavenly Father for this feisty, fun loving, spirited lady who taught us so many precious life lessons.

Cynthia Morgan

August 5, 2011

Mom,

You fought the good fight, an inspiration to us all. Your smile & sparkle in your eyes filled us with joy

Remember, it's not "good-bye" but "see you later."


I love you.

Cindi

Tia Callender

August 4, 2011

Beautiful Fay,
How I loved our times together. chit-chatting and laughing. You made my nights with you....memories that shall not be forgotten. Rest in peace my dearest. I'll see you up there...in that ol' yellow submarine :)

Brian Cashmere

August 3, 2011

There will be a memorial service for my Mom at the Terrace apartment building 111 South Cliff Street at noon on Saturday August 6th, 2011. It is open to the public.

Brian Cashmere

pam miller

August 3, 2011

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Joyce (Mawhinney) Schindler

August 2, 2011

Deepest sympathy to the family of Fay. She was a kind woman who passed through our life with a smile and a kind word.

LISA WILHELM

August 2, 2011

FAY
Long gone are the fallen leaves
wisked away by the wind
Long gone are the days of summer,
laughing in the morning sun
long gone are the faces red from the sun
long gone are the laughs once shared from me to you
long gone are many of these things
But,my dear friend my love for you
has long since hightened
not long ago do I remember your face,smiling at me saying
"never forget me"
Dear friend for as long as I live
I shall never forget you

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