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RUBY ALDRICH CRISPELL
Ruby Aldrich Crispell, age 85, died at home, surrounded by family, on December 14, 2009.
Born October 29th, 1924 in Guilford, NY to Earl and Gladys Aldrich, she attended two one room school houses, Guilford school #16 and Norwich school #10, and graduated from Norwich High School in 1941 at the age of 16. Ruby served in the U.S. Marine Corps achieving the rank of Private.
Ruby started her life and grew up in Norwich, NY. After high school she worked at the Norwich Pharmaceutical Company. She moved to New York City in 1944 to live and work at the Stuyvesant Settlement House on St. Marks Place. In 1945 she joined the U.S. Marine Corps where she was stationed at Camp Lejeune, NC. While in the Marines she married Thomas Joseph Mitchell, Sr. of Ithaca, NY on October 8th, 1945 at Camp Pendleton in San Diego, CA. Upon leaving the Marines Ruby and Tommy lived in Ithaca, NY where they raised their four children, Mitch, Rory, Michael and Hali. Ruby worked at Cornell University and also illustrated an agriculture book for Professor Arthur Pratt. After the passing of her husband, Tommy, in 1961, Ruby was secretary to James McConnell at GLF (now known as Agway). Ruby married Leslie (Lug) Crispell of Ithaca, NY on October 12, 1963. Ruby and Lug traveled extensively and lived in many places including New York, New Jersey, Connecticut and Indiana, while raising their daughter Eileen. Ruby and Lug retired to Norwich, NY where she resided until October of 2008, when she moved to Claymont, DE to be close to children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Ruby will be especially remembered for incredible meals and knitting sweaters for every member of the family. She had a lifetime passion for politics and an insatiable interest in the world including culture, religion, human interest and genealogy, which inspired some of her travels to ancestral homes in England and Scotland. She was very artistic and started painting prolifically at the age of 60. One of her best known and most treasured paintings is of the classic Blue Bird Diner in Norwich, NY. Hundreds of copies of this painting have been sold through the "Made in Chenango" Store were she was a founding member and artist for many years. She was involved in the Norwich Fine Arts Guild, The Arts Council, volunteered at the Northeast Car Museum and she held the positions of Secretary and Historian on the board of The White Store Church and Evergreen Association and was named volunteer of the year.
Survivors include her children, Thomas Mitchell, Jr., Rory Mitchell and wife, Gussie Burton, Michael Mitchell and wife, Patricia Mitchell, Hilary Smith, Eileen Crispell Ford and husband, Christopher Ford; her grandchildren, Miles Mitchell, Sara Mitchell, Samantha Mitchell, Nathan Mitchell, Jeffery Mitchell, Patrick Mitchell and wife, Dawn Mitchell, Lisa Allred and husband, Donald Allred, Eric Smith, Dannielle Smith, Maximilian Ford and Chloe Ford; great-grandchildren, Kara Hubschmit, Casey Hubschmit, Michael (Tyler) Mitchell, Mason Mitchell, Heather Mitchell, Elizabeth Allred, Alexandra Allred; siblings, Leon (Pete) Aldrich and wife, Grace, Virginia Phettaplace, Irene Weeks, Sandy Melville and husband, Dr. Dean Melville. Ruby was preceded in death by husband, Thomas Mitchell, Sr., husband, Leslie I. Crispell, Jr. and sibling, Gertrude (Trudi) Godfry.
At Ruby's request, an old fashioned country picnic will be held in celebration of her life in Norwich, NY at 12:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 15th, location to be determined. Following the picnic, an open service will be held at The White Store Church at 2:00 p.m. The White Store Church is located in Norwich, NY just off RT. 8 between South New Berlin and Mt. Upton. Relatives and friends are welcome. If you plan to attend the picnic please contact Eileen Crispell Ford at 203-845-0425 or Sandy Melville 607-334-9685 for location and details.
Memorial contributions are welcome at The White Store Church and Evergreen Association as well as The Compassionate Care Hospice of Wilmington, DE. Checks should be made payable to Evergreen Cemetery Association and sent to Barbara Vanderbunt, 121 County Road 3A, Greene, NY 13778. Compassionate Care Hospice is located at 702B Kirkwood Highway Wilmington, DE 19805 and can be reached at (302)-993-9090. Family and friends have been thankful for the care and support daughter, Hilary Smith provided Ruby in the last year, and the Compassionate Care Hospice for helping Ruby end her life with grace and comfort.

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Dec. 17, 2009.

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Blase Marta Sascha Gorny

January 14, 2010

Dear dear Ruby. We are sorry to see you go. It is primarily you that kept us West Coast "outlaws" apprised of the lives of our East Coast family. Thank you for laying down the history and geneology of our maternal roots in the Ruby Book. We cherish it as the bible of the family. You look so peaceful in this last photo of you. Ready to go and be with Tommy and Lug and Trudi and all the others now departed who shared the stage of your life. Rest in peace dear Ruby.

Lisa Allred

December 18, 2009

I will always have gramma in my heart will keep her positive values close to me when making all of the important decisions that life brings.

Kay Holmes

December 18, 2009

I wasn't blessed to know Ruby well but I met her through Eric and Erin and she was a great lady. She will be missed by all of us.

Betty Womack

December 18, 2009

I Thank God for allowing me the privilege of knowing Ruby, she was a kind and gentle soul that I will remember fondly with great joy and miss with even greater sadness. She will be missed.

Linda (Johnston) Wood

December 18, 2009

Dear Family,
I am truly sorry to hear of your loss. I have many memories of your home on Plain Street in Ithaca and how wonderful your Mom was. Having lost my Mom I know the saddness you are feeling. May your Mom's spirit always be present in your lives.
Linda

Ann Katz

December 18, 2009

Dear Eileen,
Your Mom was a beautiful and vibrant woman, open to trying and appreciating new things (Svaroopa Yoga). I am so sorry for your loss. May you be comforted by the wonderful memories you have of her.

Dave Rogachefsky

December 17, 2009

Rory, so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. May her memory always be a blessing for you.

Joan Young

December 17, 2009

I met Ruby when she and I both worked for GLF (Agway) - I worked for Nate ? and Ruby and I became great friends. Several years ago my daughter Julie and I on a trip to NY visited Ruby in Norwich and so enjoyed our time with her and Julie enjoyed meeting her after years of hearing about her. My sister Margaret Riley Rapone rented the upstairs from Ruby and Tommy on Hudson Street (I think!), and my sister passed away unexpectedly while renting from them - that was in 1961. Margaret's daughter Debbie was adopted by us after she lost her mother and has lived in NM since. She has fond memories of Ruby. Please know we are thinking of you and that you have our deepest sympathy. Joan Riley Young

Leslie Eaves

December 17, 2009

You will be missed. I have many fond memories of you and Lug at the log cabin in Norwhich. One of my favorites was when you caught me sobbing at the movie Somewhere in Time.

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