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Walter J. Wiggins

1925 - 2020

Walter J. Wiggins obituary, 1925-2020, Ithaca, NY

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1925

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2020

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Walter Wiggins Obituary

Walter J. Wiggins

February 23, 1925 - September 9, 2020

The world has lost a renaissance man!

Attorney…Hotelier…Restaurateur…Author…TennisChampion…Civil Rights Activist…Union Organizer…Photographer…US Marine Corporal…Woodworker…Sailor…Teller of Stories…

Husband…Father…Grandfather, Great Grandfather and Great Great Grandfather

Wally was born in St. Louis on February 23, 1925 and was raised by his Aunt Emily and Uncle Jack Wiggins in Glenwood Landing on the north shore of Long Island. He graduated from Seacliff High School, where he played trumpet in the band and earned a soccer scholarship to attend Union College in Albany.

He left college at age 18 and enlisted in the US Marine Corps to serve in World War II. He was sent to the South Pacific where he served in active combat for over 2 years.

He returned to Union College after the war, and met his wife Joyce Young on a blind date in 1946. They were married 6 months later on December 21, 1946 (the longest night of the year!!!)

They left for Switzerland in 1947, where he attended the University of Lausanne for a year. The following year he was accepted at Cornell Law School and they moved to Ithaca, NY.

They purchased a small cottage on the west shore of Cayuga Lake in 1951 which has been his home and sanctuary for the past 70 years. Ithaca was his home. He truly loved Ithaca and the college communities and contributed to their development as a hotelier, a lawyer and an actor.

Wally and Joyce had four children, 9 grandchildren, 12 great grandchildren and opened up their home to dozens of foster children during their lifetime in Ithaca. Married for 54 years, Joyce was Wally's companion in family, work, travel and community.

Upon graduating from Cornell, Wally opened his first law office in Trumansburg, later moving to downtown Ithaca on Seneca Street. In 1959, he developed the Ithaca Professional Building on Tioga Street, where he practiced law for more than 65 years. Wally was an outstanding trial lawyer. He had a talent for connecting with juries and questioning witnesses and was smooth as silk in the courtroom. He mentored many young lawyers over the years, and was a member of the New York State Bar until his passing. He retired from his law career at the age of 90.

Wally was a civil rights activist and always believed that Black Lives Mattered and helped organize and hosted a visit to Ithaca for the Reverend Martin Luther King, Jr. and his wife Coretta Scott King. Wally and his dear friend Ed Hart, worked diligently on issues of civil rights in Ithaca and in New York State.

Wally and Joyce bought the old Miller farm on South Hill and converted the farmhouse into a restaurant in 1969 - L'Auberge du Cochon Rouge with partner Etienne Merle. In 1994 the restaurant became John Thomas Steakhouse (a tribute to his adoptive father) with his new partner Michael Kelly. In 1986 Joyce and Wally opened La Tourelle Country Inn, which expanded in 2005 to become La Tourelle Hotel, Bistro and August Moon Spa.

Wally built his first hotel in Aruba in 1969 - The Divi Divi Beach Hotel, which over many years became Divi Hotels with 12 hotels, 9 timeshare properties, three casinos and 5 Peter Hughes Diving operations. Wally's concept of Barefoot Elegance resonated with the traveling public, and Divi Hotels employed over 1,000 people in the Caribbean and 60 Ithacans at Divi's headquarters in the old Danby School.

Wally and Joyce built the Downtown Ithaca Ramada Inn in 1972, which is now the Hotel Ithaca. The Ramada was the first hotel built under Ithaca's urban renewal program, and its Gazebo Restaurant and Nightclub featured live bands…and then became a disco in the 1980's. The addition of the Tower and Club Panache was completed several years later.

Wally was an avid tennis player, and won the New York State Senior Doubles Tournament in 1985. He built the Buttermilk Tennis Club in the 1980's and had much fun beating the pants off of almost everyone he played. He was best known for his classic shot "The Wally" - where he aggressively rushed the net to return the serve but instead of slamming the ball past his opponent he just tipped it over the net and won the point for his side.

Wally authored three books of fiction - Willow Run - a collection of short stories and Dance of the Mantis and The Unintended - both legal thrillers. Wally was also an avid photographer, and his photos were featured in the slide shows at the Ramada's Gazebo Restaurant and in various brochures for his hotels.

Wally and Joyce were world travelers - often with kids in tow - including putting their careers on hold and traveling around Europe in a VW minivan with the whole family for three months in 1963. Wally and Joyce dined with Bobby Kennedy, had tea with Queen Elizabeth, played tennis with Billie Jean King among other celebrity adventures.

Wally loved an audience and whether it was in the courtroom, or the bar room - he was a consummate storyteller. Wally was also known for his unique style of dress - often a plaid sport coat and an "interesting" tie - and loved his classic Jaguar convertibles.

Wally was passionate about his heroes - Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King, Jr, John F. and Robert Kennedy and recently President Barack Obama. Photographs and writings of these heroes were prevalent in his and Joyce's home. They were also avid collectors of hand carved wooden masks and statues - from Africa, the Caribbean and the South Pacific, and displayed them proudly in their home and businesses.

Wally decided to go find Joyce on September 9th and left this earth to begin his next journey, surrounded by his family at home.

Wally is survived by his children Kaethe (Laurent), Marcus (Cindy) Scott (Kash) and Jonni (Richie), grandchildren Xavier, Nathalie, Heidi, Sven, Dane, Maki, Phoenix, Jessica and Moorea and great grandchildren Naea, Kahai, Ryan, Alia, Aviel, Mayan, Amani, Amir, Arson, Wilder, Jaxton and Ivy. Wally is also survived by Coni and her family and Krystal (Scott) and her family. Wally wanted to make sure we thanked his devoted caregivers Debbie, Maria, Karen and Jan…..and Kimmy from Hospicare.

A celebration of Wally's life will be organized in Spring 2021 and will most certainly be in the spirit of a lively Irish wake. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Martin Luther King, Jr. Center at 449 Auburn Ave, NE, Atlanta GA, to The Village at Ithaca (villageatithaca.org) or to Hospicare at 172 East King Road, Ithaca, NY. Wally also wanted us to ask people to honor him by helping get out the vote this November.

When asked what his advice would be for the next generation, he would reply - "To dream the impossible dream" and then go chase it. We have lost our very own Don Quixote….and we will forever be inspired by The Wally….and know that his next life will be full of great adventures.

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Published by Ithaca Journal from Sep. 10 to Sep. 11, 2020.

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Marlene

September 7, 2025

Forty five years worth of memories...and all good ones. Smiling....and grateful to you both for launching the trajectory of my adult life.

Paul Siegel

September 4, 2025

I see your picture and thousands of memories come flooding back. You were an inspiration to all who knew you.

Peter Hughes

September 4, 2025

Working w/ you & for you was a very educational & rewarding experience for me - you will always be missed!

Rosalia Ellis

September 4, 2024

I worked at Divi Divi as a Hostess from 1972. Under the leadership of Roger Coster. I had the privilege to talk to Mr Wiggins, he was a very humble person.

Marlene Macaluso

August 24, 2022

Approaching two years of Mr. Wiggins' passing and still thinking about he and Joyce. I have been intertwined in many ways with this family since 1980. Always and forever grateful for their mentorship, sponsorship, and friendship. Thank you for sharing so happily and so freely, so much of yourselves. May they rest in peace. xxoomm

Bill Thom

September 25, 2020

Wally gave me the biggest break of my career (and life). I had been a desk clerk at the Ramada for a couple of years, and forty years ago next month, on October 7th, 1980, Wally called me down to the Gazebo for breakfast. He said the hotel's controller was moving on and would I like to become the Ramada's controller. I had no experience, but he told me he knew I could do it, and with his faith in me I learned and did the job. The experience I got inspired me to go on to business school and a career in accounting. Without Wally, I might now be a 65 year-old hotel desk clerk!

Laurie Perko

September 21, 2020

Dear Scott, Jonni, Marcus and Kaethe, I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Wiggins' passing this past week. I loved working at Divi Resorts in Ithaca and always considered it the best job ever! Scott, you, your dad and mom taught me so much about the hotel business not in terms of numbers but in terms of loving what you do, experiencing what you are selling and working with the best group of people always. Friendships are formed and true ones will be with you forever. Mr and Mrs Wiggins treated me like a member of your family and for that I am so grateful. I could not have worked for a better family then yours and I will always love your family. Mr. Wiggins lived a great life and so glad he is with your mom. Always thinking of you.

Lucienne Cruvellier

September 19, 2020

Great sorrow for your loss.
Wally was a wonderful man and had so much life in him. I’m sorry to hear he has left this world. He brought so my joy into the lives of myself and others. I always enjoyed his stories and being with so many friends and family in France!. I’ll never forget and always be grateful.
Rest well Wally but I’m sure you won’t, instead, you’ll be singing and dancing with your loved ones in heaven.
My very deepest blessings to the rest of the family❣

Carmelita Mix

September 19, 2020

When I read the passing of Wally Wiggins, tears came to my eyes! Wally was my lawyer for the pass 20+ years. He helped me thru the darkest days of my life when my late husband passed away and the tragic accident of my daughter Heather Mix Collins. I am Not sure where I would be today if it weren’t for his perseverance and Dedication In
Turning my life and my daughters life around!
His autograph in the book he gave me Willow Run was “To Carmen we have been through enough to make us friends until death do us part”.
May you Rest In Peace my dear friend, lawyer and therapist !
Until we meet again Carmelita Mix

Peter Feitner

September 17, 2020

Great man, great family, I'll miss him! An inspirational life-bravo and thanks go with you!

Bertica De Palm

September 16, 2020

My deepest condeleance and sympathy. He will sure be missed. Wally RIP and THANK YOU for the opportunity to have worked for you.

September 15, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Michael and Mimi Thuesen

September 14, 2020

Scott, Kash and family. Very sorry to hear of Wally's passing, though, like my parents he will be reunited with the loved ones who have preceeded him. The Universe and God do have a plan for us all.
Much love and peace,
Mike Thuesen

David S. Bahn, Attorney at Law

September 14, 2020

Damn,

Wally was a tremendous person and great attorney. Having worked with Wally on a number of cases, I can thank him for trial skills that could not be learned from anybody but a master.

I will miss you, my friend, forever.

David
David S. Bahn
Attorney at Law

Theresa Bellavigna

September 14, 2020

Scott and Family Sorry to hear about your Dad's passing.Thinking of you at this time of sorrow ..Theresa Miller Bellavigna, Burdett N.Y.

Sherri Porter

September 13, 2020

I never met him personally, but I have heard his name mentioned in many stories of helping my extended family because an injustice had taken place and he fought for my family to make things right. Thank you for doing that. I do remember your name and the good that you did for many people. May your family be comforted by God's GREAT LOVE. God bless you.

Kenneth Rager

September 13, 2020

Tomorrow the hurt will start to fade away and gradually go by;
but the fond memories of the one we loved will last and never die.

Dave Rogachefsky

September 13, 2020

Marc, my sincere condolences on the passing of your Dad. A remarkable man to say the least. Glad you got as many great years together as you did. May his memory always be for a blessing to you and your entire family.

rick gravelding

September 13, 2020

Has it been 50 years? Those years were always brighter for me, for knowing you. Thank you Wally for your friendship, mentoring, and just plain fun. I doubt that I'll see your like again. My condolences to all the Wiggins family. R.I.P. my friend, you walked the road less traveled, with a job so well done.
Rick Gravelding,
Auburn,N.Y.

sharon guardiola

September 12, 2020

i have grat memories of wally as i worked for him when the ramada came to life with the wiggens dream a great kind man who helped many people in his life time rip wally sharon guardiola

Robin McDonald

September 12, 2020

Glad I had the chance to know you.

Carlos Benjamin

September 12, 2020

My condolences to his family, meeting Mr. Wiggins, was a real inspiration...you will never knew that he was the boss man...unless he wanted you to know that.

September 12, 2020

My condolences Karel Vlaun Castro and family from Aruba
Strength to Mr. Wiggins family hurting this dificulta time

Nancy Newberry

September 12, 2020

Wally loved life and all that he saw that it offered. Each and every one enriched by his presence loved him as well. Great memories of a great man. With Love from the Youngs - Chauncy, Nancy and Wizzy

Siera (Milton) Beal

September 12, 2020

Sending love and well wishes on behalf of the Milton Family. What a beautiful legacy Mr. Wiggins leaves and what a gift that he was here for so many very rich and impactful years. All the best to your family as you continue on. Heidi, Dane and Jessica, you’re in my thoughts.

Lisa Torbitt

September 12, 2020

Lisa Torbitt

September 12, 2020

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Lisa Bloom

September 12, 2020

So sorry for your loss. I am inspired by the breadth of his life and the love within your family. Much love to you all.

Diana Sint Jago

September 11, 2020

Wishing you all strenght and sending hugs from Bonaire

Leo Mayer

September 11, 2020

R. I. P. Mr. Wiggins. Remembering your visits to Bonaire at the Divi Flamingo Hotel.

Laurie Porter

September 11, 2020

Wally and Joyce were wonderful people to work for. They gave me cherished opportunities and memories. May the hearts of those who they touched be filled with love, light and laughter.

Kelly Henderson Veit

September 11, 2020

My deepest sympathy to all his family we have known Wally for many, many years and have wonderful memories of he and Joyce. R.I.P. Wally

Hank Wientjes

September 11, 2020

Dear Mr Wiggins, thank you for everything you did for Aruba. May you rest in peace
My condolences to the family and especially to my friend Marcus and family.
Forsa

September 11, 2020

wally you re in my memories for sure i was the first employee of the ramada and enjoyed working for u and knowing you thru the yrs

Astrid Muller

September 11, 2020

To Marcus, Scott and Wiggins Family our sincere condolences with the loss of your father Wally. I am very grateful to Mr. Wiggins for believing in me and for shaping my hospitality career. Mr . Wiggins put Aruba on the tourism map with his vision . Thank you for all what you did for Aruba ‘s Tourism and Its community. You will be forever remembered. Rest In Peace Wally.

Jamie and William Decker

September 11, 2020

You are an amazing man and you will be dearly missed. You have received you wings for sure.

William and Jamie Decker

Val Evans

September 11, 2020

I met Mr. Wiggins during the time that his Son Scott had a few of us over for our class's reunion of 75. he made me feel right at home and admiring his African masks that he had display on his walls. Thank You Scott and jonnie and family for sharing him with us. rest in peace Mr. Wiggins u received your wings now fly high.

Laura DeSEna

September 11, 2020

Thank you for this biography. My deepest sympathy to the family. Wally & Joyce changed the world for the better, and changed my life in the 1980s by opening doors of opportunity as I began a career in graphic design.
Laura Gilbert DeSena

Peter Hughes

September 11, 2020

I worked w/ or for Wally & Joyce for 20 years and they were both an amazingly, positive influence on my wife’s and my lives - we will miss Wally!! RIP Kind Sir!!

Judith Briggs

September 11, 2020

My condolences to the family, friends and the city he loved. Wally was a one of a kind! May his legacy live on.

Randy Sterling

September 11, 2020

If you were a police officer in Ithaca, you had better be ready for the "ride"- testimony of your life with Wally. He was prepared and knew exactly, more than you, what he needed from you as a witness. Always kind and clever, sneaky as a fox, this man had a warm smile and the wink oy eye. We became "friends" as much as any attorney and cop can be. I miss him..

Dhaddy Brokke

September 11, 2020

Dhaddy Brokke

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Dhaddy Brokke

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Dhaddy Brokke

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Dhaddy Brokke

September 11, 2020

This is the man that believed in Dhaddy and the star shines. He believed and decided that we had to start the next day entertaining the quest. I was 15 and was singing with a rock band not with Spanish guitar. I was at Divi to pick up my brother who was the entertainer at Divi. That night Mr. Wiggens made the decision that my brother will be traveling with him and me and two of the members of the rock band who give me a ride to pick up brother had to take over my brother place at Divi Divi Hotel. This was making impossible, possible. We became famous I left school and started my journey. What started with 5 songs became my passion, my job, my hobby, my life and with time transformed in a wonderful career. His favorite song was Sunglasses. I loved you then and I will love u forever. You and your family will always have a special place in my heart. Have a wonderful journey. Dhaddy Brokke.

Rosalia (Rosta) Ellis

September 10, 2020

I will like to extend my deepest condolences to the Wiggins family. I worked for nine years as a hostess at the Divi Divi from 1972. I remember a promotional trip we went to Merida Venezuela with Mr Wiggins and Celeste Berkle and myself. This is one nice memories I have of Mr Wiggins beside He was a very humble boss. May he rest in peace.

Donna Brodsky/Calapa

September 10, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Resa Reynolds

September 10, 2020

I met Wally in the Ithaca Airport on Thanksgiving Day 2003. It turned out we were both headed to Aruba (me for the first time). I was surprised that others would be headed there on the holiday. Our Aruba flight was already boarding when we arrived in Philly so I ran through the airport and told the gate employee to keep the door open because there were two more coming. Once on board, Wally thanked me and offered to buy me a drink in Aruba. Keep in mind, I had no idea who Wally was. We arrive in Aruba and after I'm settled in my hotel room, Wally shows up to buy me that drink. We walk to the tiki hut where the bartender greets him as Mr Wiggins and treats him like royalty. Wally proceeds to tell me his story. He went on to make sure my friends and I had the best vacation ever that week. He was a gentleman and a great tour guide! RIP Wally. Fly high and watch over us.

Marilyn Hoek

September 10, 2020

My condolences to Scott, Marcus and the Wiggins family. Tamarijn/Divi Divi Hotel 1980-1988

ESTHER ESCOBAR

September 10, 2020

Wally you will always be a wonderful memory in my heart! I thank you so much for all the opportunities you gave me and the warm and friendly conversations! I hope you met up with Joyce waiting for you with open arms! I bet you are both walking in barefoot elegance♥

Sanju Luidens

September 10, 2020

My sincerest and deepest condolences to Scott, Marcus and the entire Wiggins family. Thank you Mr. Wiggins for your your vision and love for Aruba and for the Divi. You are forever present in Aruba.
May your onward journey be a peaceful one.
Sanju Luidens

Hetty Grote

September 10, 2020

Thank you for giving me, as a student all the opportunities.
The Wiggins family, Ithaca, the Caribbean and Barefoot Elegance are forever in my heart

A big hug from Holland

Rory Arends

September 9, 2020

The barefooted elegant Aruba tourism pioneer is no more. My deepest condolences to Marcus, Scott and the entire Wiggins family. So sorry for your loss. May Wally rest in peace.

Gregg LARMONIE

September 9, 2020

On behalf of my late parents Carl and Laura Larmonie that also are not with us anymore and my brother I wish to express my gratitude for all that Mr. Wiggins has done for Aruba and for being kind and loving to it's people.
May he find the peace that he well deserves. To his family, my deepest and heartfelt condolences. Gregg

Marcelo Profet

September 9, 2020

My most sincere condolences to all families and friends with the loss of Mr. Wiggens. He was well respected and appreciated in our island, Aruba. I am glad to have had the occasion to meet him and gratefull for having formed part of his Divi Family in Aruba. May Mr. Wiggens R.I.P.
Marcelo G. Profet

rob & diana smith

September 9, 2020

Our condolences to Scott and the entire family. Wally believed in Aruba before anyone else in NA saw what she would and could become. RIP

Nancy Shehu

September 9, 2020

So sorry for your loss. Wally was our boss when we both worked for Divi Hotels for many years. He became our lawyer in the last 20 years. He was a great boss and a fabulous attorney. Well respected throughout the community. He had a bigger heart than he wanted to let on! He will be missed by many.

Brenda Bouwman

September 9, 2020

So sorry, so dedicated, a Divi man, thank you for loving our island. May you Rest In Peace. My condolences to the family.

Valerie Peterson

September 9, 2020

May Mr.Wiggins rest in peace.
Thank You for Divi, your dream come true.
My condolences to Marcus and family Wiggins.

Marvel Vilchez

September 9, 2020

He was a one-of-a-kind person. Thanks for everything you did for my Island Aruba and its tourism. May Mr. Wiggins rest in peace.

Swienda Hengeveld

September 9, 2020

May he rest in Peace, he was loved at Divi Resort. Always with his barefoot ellegance. Swienda Hengeveld Divi Resort 1980 - 1990

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