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Carolyn Van Bibber Obituary

VAN BIBBER, CAROLYN L. (NEE GOINES); of Waterford; passed away peacefully on December 28, 2012; at 70 years of age. Beloved wife of Charlie for 46 years; loving mother of Cynthia Van Bibber (Bill) and Charlie Van Bibber (Danielle); dearest grandmother of Charlie, Madeline, Neve, and Chloe; special sister of Janice Goines, Gail (Helmut) Hietzker, and Melba (Jerry) Colca; also survived by many nieces and nephews. Carolyn worked for Oakland County for 20 years and retired as a Veterans councilor. She loved antiques, being on the water "Lake Living", but most of all she loved her family and always put them first. Memorial Service will be 5 p.m., Wednesday January 2, 2013 at COATS FUNERAL HOME - WATERFORD. Family will receive friends from 2 p.m. until the time of the service and after the service until 6 p.m. Private Family burial at Great Lakes National Cemetery. Memorial donations may be made to The Veterans Administration and The Michigan Humane Society. Envelopes available at the funeral home. To send a private condolence to the family go to
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Published by The Oakland Press from Dec. 29 to Dec. 31, 2012.

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Janice Goines

December 23, 2022

Missing you Carolyn after nearly 10 years. I continue to share your stories with family and friends. As I now travel the world, you are with me as we enjoy new adventures. Love you and am attaching a photo that shows your bright spirit and beauty in the mid 1960s. Love, Janice

December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas, Carolyn! We all miss you and are thinking of you today. I gave special bracelets to Maddie, Neve, Marissa, Jayden & Renee...they have lovely silver/chrome charms called "Carolyn" along with other charms and glass beads. This has been a tough year without you and Little Charlie. Love you, Janice

Barb Goines

December 25, 2013

Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day.
Unseen, unheard, but always near; still loved, still missed and very dear.

Our Montreal Sister Trip 2012

Melba Colca

December 24, 2013

Your favorite holiday is here and you are sharing it with us. We miss you so very much, but I know you are with loved ones who you missed so much. Also you were there to meet your first grand baby. Love you, love you forever, your baby sister, Melba

Tom & Stephanie Adams

January 27, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Carolyn was a great lady and a big impact on my life growing up on West Rundell. I'm sure she will be missed. May God bless your family and comfort you. Tom

Ken & Sharon VanBibber

January 27, 2013

Goodbye sweet sister-in-law. We have so many fun and good memories of you that will live on with us forever. You will truly be missed. We could always count on you to open up your house and your heart to our visits and journeys. The hole in our hearts will never be filled by your passing. You were so loved by Ken and Sharon.

Linda King

January 12, 2013

As many memories have been shared with me it's like I knew my extended cousin Carolyn in person. So many stories from my Mammaw (Marie Goines-Henke) about her brother my Uncle Fred and his family. I wish I had known her in person from the many of stories I have heard from Jan and when they came to visit us here in Lakewood, Colorado. No words can ever replace the feelings people go thru, but know you all and your families are in my prayers. And remember, As long as there are always pictures to look at and their memories to discuss Carolyn is never ever truly away. I Love you all very much.

Marla Jackson

January 10, 2013

As a new teacher at Lincoln Junior High in Pontiac, Michigan, I never forgot my first classes. I will always remember Carolyn because students like her kept me in the profession and brought me laughter and happiness.

January 7, 2013

May the support of family & friends be with you. You're in my prayers, Jody Spehar

Scott Hudson

January 6, 2013

I only learned last night. I am so sorry. I've only known Carol for about 4 years but I have loved her desire to live, and her good heart, and her participation and efforts. Her smile is a blessing to know, and her fight to live and go forward. I left the country Dec. 23 and returned Jan. 1 and was very sad to learn of her passing. May she rest in peace and her family find comfort in knowing they were so blessed by her being.

Bryon

January 2, 2013

R.I.P. Aunt Carolyn you will be missed.

January 2, 2013

Charlie
So sorry for your loss, and your familys loss.
Woody (PMD FD)

January 2, 2013

My love and thoughts have been with Carolyn and family constantly. I loved talking to Carolyn as did my sister Linda. She was interesting and fun to talk to. A loving lady who loved her family so much. I wish that I could have visited with her more. My love to you Chuck, Charlie, Cindy, Janice, Gail, Melba and families. Carole & Phil Harris

Karen & Paul Van Bibber

January 1, 2013

One of Carolyn's most memorable quotes “Wonder who ate at that table?” We were sitting around talking about the old table you had just put in your dining area. Your love of old things is one of the qualities that I will remember most…always repurposing something. Carolyn always saw the best in everyone…what a special person she was and who will truly be missed.

Denise Hughes

January 1, 2013

My Sincere Condolences to all of Carolyn's family, my prayers are with you all at this difficul time!

Gail Hietzker

January 1, 2013

Carolyn, Thanks for all the years of love and support. I always knew when it came to Alissa's welfare I could depend on your help. Love always (#3 sister), Gail. Warren, Vermont

December 31, 2012

Charlie, Im sorry for your loss Carolyn was a great friend and lady, I was very sorry to here of her passing she will be truly missed by all who knew her. RIP Carolyn

Amy

December 31, 2012

We will miss you Aunt Carolyn. I am so glad the Goines Girls made it a priority to take all those special sister trips. We are so grateful you are at peace now.

Wishing peace & strength in this difficult time to all.
Much Love,
Niece Amy (The Hairr Family)

Margaret Adams

December 31, 2012

We've know Carolyn since she was 17. She was our neighbor, sitter and that turned into a longtime friendship. Her and her whole family were always close to our hearts.The Goines family was a big influence on our son's life. Thanks to all of you. She will be missed and never forgotten.

jack&nancy allen

December 31, 2012

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

December 30, 2012

Just the mention of her name brings back floods of memories that were made when we were all very young. Running barefoot in Mama Goines yard in Arkansas and our visits to Michigan. We all shared alot of laughter and good times. There were alot of us. Thanks for the memories. Love John, Sharon(Sissy), and our families from Denver

December 30, 2012

I will miss you so very much. You were my second mother....Love you forever....Your first baby and baby sister, Melba

The Tharp Family

December 30, 2012

Dear Mr. VanBibber & family,
We are so sorry to hear of your great loss. Carolyn was a wonderful lady, and the best
neighbor. We will always have fond memories of her.

Michael Shields

December 30, 2012

Aunt Carolyn,
Thank you for the wonderful summers on the lake and all the laughs and fun. I'll never forget.
Love, Mike

David Lucas

December 30, 2012

Carolyn Van Bibber was a first class, hardworking woman that always put her family first. We are blessed to have shared memories with her and her family. - Dave and Marla Lucas

Cindy

December 30, 2012

I love you mom. I miss you so much already. Thank you for all of the wonderful memories.

December 30, 2012

RIP, CAROLYN. I WILL MISS YOUR POSTS ON FACEBOOK.

Janice Goines

December 30, 2012

A lifetime of shared memories...she will always be with my sisters and me...a Goines Girl forever! Love, Janice Goines

Mary Ruth Rhodenbaugh

December 30, 2012

Janice Goines is my friend and I feel as if I know all of her sisters. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad occasion. Hear my prayer, Oh, Lord.

December 30, 2012

David and Marla Lucas

December 30, 2012

Carolyn was such a beautiful woman and a fighter. We love her and all the family and may she rest in peace.

Jerry Colca

December 30, 2012

We will always hold Carolyn close in our hearts. Love you all and see you soon.

Bill Hampton

December 30, 2012

So sorry to read about Carolyn's passing....she was always upbeat and happy. Growing up a few doors from the Hampton family, we watched the Goines family grow.....Carolyn, Janice, Gail and Melba. Mr.Goines always working on a vehicle, or a motor bike...when he wasn't keeping Pontiac safe as a Police Officer, and later as a Command Officer....helped keep all of us boys in "tow"... :-) Carolyn will be missed....God Bless and keep her....

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