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Daniel Del Vecchio Obituary

Daniel "Dan" Del Vecchio Jr., 92, attorney and engaged community member, passed into spirit at his home in North Attleborough, MA, on Monday, July 8, 2019. He was the beloved husband of Anne A. (Nardelli) Del Vecchio, to whom he was married on June 4, 1955.

Born on September 9, 1926 in Providence, RI, he was the oldest child of the late Daniel Del Vecchio and the late Maria Grazia "Grace" (Fornaro) Del Vecchio.

Dan was a graduate of Mount Pleasant High School in Providence, Class of 1944, where he earned the state's first-place medal for Wrestling. He graduated from Providence College and New England School of Law.

Dan practiced law in North Attleborough for more than fifty years and was a well-respected litigator. A solo practitioner for his first twenty-six years of practice, in 1992 he joined the law practice of Clapp & Murphy. Dan had a long and happy association with this team, and felt deep gratitude for the camaraderie of his dear friend, Steve Clapp, as well as their long-time colleague, Linda Braga.

In keeping with his deeply held belief in the constitutional right to representation, for ten years Dan served as the Legal Advisor and Staff Attorney to the Bristol County Bar Advocates, an organization of private attorneys helping clients unable to afford the services of a lawyer. Dan was also an experienced prosecutor, having worked as a Bristol County Assistant District Attorney and coordinator of nine district courts across Bristol and Barnstable counties. He was an active member of the Massachusetts Bar Association, having served on its Board of Delegates, and served as the Past President of both the Bristol County Bar Association and the Attleboro District Court Bar.

Dan's path to legal practice was not a straight line. Drafted by the United States Army while in his second year at Boston University Law School, he was assigned to the Army Counter Intelligence Corps and based in Germany. Returning from the service, he married Anne and went on to work in sales and marketing positions for the Carter Rice and Saxon paper companies. While away in the Army, he discovered that the rules governing law school admission had changed, making it necessary for him to complete additional undergraduate credits before being able to return to law school. Determined to finish his law school education, Dan took additional credits at Providence College and graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree in 1957. To achieve his dream, he commuted from Providence to Boston to attend night classes at Portia Law School (now New England School of Law). He finally became an attorney in 1966 at the age of 39.

A passionate advocate for both clients and his community, Dan was given the Massachusetts Bar Association's Community Service Award in 1990. In 2006 he received a Lifetime Achievement Award from the Attleboro Area Bar Association, in which he was lauded for having "showed the impact that one good person can make on family, friends, colleagues, and the community." In 2009 the Diocese of Fall River selected him for its St. Thomas More Award, given in recognition of service to others, which he received during the annual Red Mass.

Dan was a natural change agent. He would not only recognize an area of need within a community, but would also lead the effort to organize a solution and take action. Dan supported North Attleborough's United Way chapter for fourteen years, working as Business Chairman, Special Gifts Chairman, and President. He also served on the North Attleborough Zoning Board of Appeals and invested time and energy chairing the Fisher Kelley Scholarship Committee and working on the North Attleborough Town Government Study Committee.

In 1993, Dan received one of the most significant gifts of his life: a heart transplant. This enabled him to spend nearly twenty-six additional years with the people he loved, doing what he loved. Dan did not squander this opportunity. He lived his life with exuberance, cherished his family and friends, and had a love of travel and an openness to meeting new people and exploring new cultures. He delighted in cooking for others and, as part of a long tradition, foraging for wild edible mushrooms.

His loving family includes Mrs. Anne (Nardelli) Del Vecchio, his beloved wife of sixty-four years; his daughter, Dyann Del Vecchio Hilbern and her husband, David S. Hilbern, of Matunuck, RI; his son, Dr. Daniel A. Del Vecchio of Boston, MA; and his son, David Del Vecchio of North Attleborough, MA. Dan leaves three granddaughters: Ms. Sharon J. Del Vecchio of New Orleans, LA; Ms. Lana A. Del Vecchio of Brisbane, Queensland, Australia; and Ms. Sabrina L. Del Vecchio of Pawtucket, RI.

He is also survived by his only sibling and friend of the heart, Ronald E. Del Vecchio, and his wife, Louise Del Vecchio, of Lincoln, RI.

Friends and family are cordially invited to attend a Visitation in celebration of Dan's life on Thursday, July 11, 2019 from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. in the Memorial Chapel of the Dyer-Lake Funeral Home, 161 Commonwealth Avenue, Village of Attleboro Falls, North Attleborough, MA.

The Funeral and Celebration of Life Service will take place on Friday, July 12, 2019 from 10:00 a.m. in the Memorial Chapel of the Dyer-Lake Funeral Home, 161 Commonwealth Avenue, Village of Attleboro Falls, North Attleborough, MA. Relatives and friends are cordially invited to attend.

All are invited to attend a Graveside Service which will follow in Mount Hope Cemetery and Arboretum, North Attleborough, MA.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Dan to either the Hockomock YMCA, 300 Elmwood Street, North Attleborough, MA 02760, or to the American Heart Association, 20 Speen Street, Framingham, MA 01701 or at www.heart.org.

The family expresses deep and abiding appreciation for the skillful and compassionate staff of Massachusetts General Hospital, especially Dr. James McFarland, and the heart transplant team at Emory University Medical Center in Atlanta, GA.

For additional information, or to send the family a written expression of sympathy, please visit the online guest book at www.dyer-lakefuneralhome.com.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Dyer-Lake Funeral Home, 161 Commonwealth Avenue, Village of Attleboro Falls, North Attleboro, MA (508) 695-0200.

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Published by Sun Chronicle on Jul. 10, 2019.

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Laureth Curran

July 13, 2019

Dan was my late mother's attorney. He was a wonderful man who helped me choose a lawyer for my own divorce. Great guy!

Paul Fioravanti

July 12, 2019

Extremely well written obituary and tribute to a truly distinguished gentleman. He and my father had a deep mutual respect for each other and shared many intellectual and philosophical discussions each week in the store. Dan would spend hours in the rear corner of the store where dad was working and they'd have entertaining conversations with customers from all walks of life, and both Dan and dad had the gift to be able to connect with all of them and find good and common ground with each. I recall Dan as a brilliant and polished man, one who lived with old school hard work ethic and vigor, and as a passionate advocate for all that he believed in. Another strong pillar of that incredible "greatest generation". Deep condolences on your loss.

MARYLOU VITICONTE

July 12, 2019

RONNIE & LOUISE
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR YOUR LOSS
HE 'S IN MY PRAYERS
LOVE MARYLOU

Steve Soule

July 12, 2019

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of such a great man. God bless his family and I am praying for all of you.

Ann Marie (Fioravanti) Iannazzi

July 11, 2019

Mrs. DelVecchio, my dad was Emil Fioravanti . I have fond memories of when you and your husband would visit the market. My dad always held both of you in such high regard. My husband and I were at a fund raiser at Roger Williams park Botanical Center several years ago and I recognized you and introduced myself. I recall both of you being so kind as we reminisced and shared such happy memories. Looking back, I was so happy to have that moment with you both. As a two time kidney transplant recipient, once from my brother and most recently from my son, I have a deep appreciation for what all of you had experienced. Thankfully, my parents were spared that heart ache of watching their family endure the process. May your memories sustain you in the difficult days ahead, I know that Dan and my dad have a front row seat to some fabulous opera performances up there. May he Rest In Peace and May their friendship be rekindled.

Ann Marie (Fioravanti) Iannazzi

Karen (Hagarman) Sullivan

July 11, 2019

Some of my fondest memories are sitting in the Del Vecchio kitchen as Ann and Dan took turns feeding us. I thought then that there couldn't be a finer way to age with my loved one than enjoying good food with family and friends.

Dan shared his respectful memories of my father when I visited, and I will never forget how much comfort that brought to me. I felt welcome, always, in that kitchen where I spent so much time as a teenager, and visits throughout the years.

My deepest condolences to the Del Vecchio family for their loss. I know you will hold Dan's memory in your hearts for the rest of your lives.

edmund calcagni

July 10, 2019

To Mrs DelVecchio my deepest condolence to you and the family.
As you know, Dan and I was close friends, until we departed were I had to leave and go into the service. I kept in contact with your brother-in-law to see how both of you were feeling.

Elizabeth Pensavalle

July 10, 2019

Betty Pensavalle and her family sends their sympathy. He was always so kind to my son Dana.
Betty Pensavalle

George Spatcher

July 10, 2019

Our sincere condolences, thoughts and prayers to Dan's family. It has been an honor and privilege for George to know and work with him for the past 40 years as a fellow lawyer. A wonderful person and a fine lawyer with a real passion for life. He was always a go to guy for a criminal law issue. When George was laid up with a serious illness more than 20 years ago he and Steve Clapp offered to help in any way they could. One never forgets that kind of sincere caring. He is certainly missed now and hereafter.

George & Debbie Spatcher

Norma DiPetrillo

July 10, 2019

Good bye to an old friend. Your chronology of life published in the Providence Journal filled in your journey of accomplishments since we parted at BU Law School in 1951.
Until we met again several years ago. Our renewed friendship since then with you and your lovely wife, Ann has been a source of pleasure for myself and my wife, Norma.
We regret we are unable to attend the funeral service but please know that our hearts and prayers will always be with you, Ann and family.
Thanking God for you, With love and friendship, Judge Carmine and Norma DiPetrillo

Judge Carmine and Norma DiPetrillo

July 10, 2019

To Ann and Family,
Goodbye to an old and cherished friend. Your chronology of life published in the Prov. Journal filled in your journey of accomplishments during the hiatus from BU Law school in 1951 until we met again several years ago. Our renewed friendship since then and meeting your lovely wife, Ann has been a source of pleasure for myself and my wife, Norma.
We regret we cannot attend the funeral service but our hearts and our prayers will be there for you, Ann and family.
Thanking God for your life,
In friendship and love,
Judge Carmine and Norma DiPetrillo

American Heart Association

July 10, 2019

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Bob Peck

July 10, 2019

Iam so sorry to read of Dan's passing.Dan was a down to earth man's man. He fought hard for his clients at the Probate and Family court.I am extremely proud to call him a friend.My condolence to Dan's family. Bob Peck Register of Probate and Family Court Emeritus

The Staff of Dyer-Lake Funeral Home & Cremation Services

July 10, 2019

Our thoughts remain with you and your family at this time. We are honored by the trust and confidence you have placed in us during this difficult time.

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