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JULIE ALEXANDER
JERSEYVILLE — Julie Ann Alexander, 50, died at 2:50 p.m. Saturday, May 14, 2016 at her home, surrounded by her family after a long and courageous battle with cancer.
She was born August 23, 1965, in Alton, Illinois, daughter of Donald J. and Dorothy V. (Hogle) Calvey, both deceased.
She married Larry J. Alexander on June 24, 1989, in Jerseyville, Illinois.
Julie had worked as Activity Director at VIP Manor in Wood River, and later worked as the Activity Director at Jerseyville Manor. After having children, Julie opened up her home as a daycare with the assistance of her mother, to care for many children whom she held dear. Once her daughters began elementary school, she started working at Strang & Parish, Ltd/ Colonial Title & Escrow in 2002 until her retirement on April 1, 2016. She along with her beloved husband, Larry, owned Alexander & Gubser Funeral Home where she comforted many families. Julie was a member of 1st Assembly of God Church of Jerseyville, where she spent many years as a Sunday school teacher. She was also very involved in school activities with her daughters from grade school through college. She had been active with the Jersey County Relay for Life and a member of the Jersey County Republican Women.
She is survived by her husband: Larry J. Alexander of Jerseyville, Illinois; daughters: Alyssa Breann Alexander of Champaign, Illinois, and Kari Jo Alexander of Jerseyville, Illinois; a special niece whom she raised as a daughter and her husband: Kristie and Brad Ross of Warrenton, Missouri, and their son and Julie's special buddy, David Ross; her brother and his wife: Steve and Amanda Calvey of Jerseyville, Illinois; brother-in-law and his wife: Floyd and Diane Alexander of Jerseyville, Illinois; and many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by her parents; father-in-law and mother-in-law: George and Bernice Alexander; brothers-in-law: James, Gary, Ronald Alexander; and sister-in-law: Carolyn Alexander.
Visitation will be 4-8 p.m. Friday May 20, 2016 at the First Assembly of God Church, 500 Cross Avenue in Jerseyville, Illinois.
Funeral will be 10 a.m. Saturday, May 21, 2016 at the First Assembly of God Church in Jerseyville, Illinois with Pastor Larry Hayes and Pastor Carl Hayes officiating. Burial will be at Oak Grove Cemetery in Jerseyville.
Julie was proud of Alyssa and Kari Jo's accomplishments; therefore, in lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the continuing of their higher education.
Alexander & Gubser Funeral Home in Jerseyville is in charge of arrangements.
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Memories and Condolences
for Julie Alexander
Delmare J Allen
May 12, 2024
Wow where does the time go. Happy Mothers Day Julie. I hope that husband of your is going to take you out dancing. You are so very missed by so many of us as I thumb through old pictures and run across those with you and Larry in then all I can do is smile. I've heard all my life he's got a plan and my faith tells me that but, it still hurts when he comes for the good ones. We laughed so hard at times that were probably inappropriate and your smile was infectious. Miss you so so much we will see each other again...I hope it's not just a glance as I pass by to go to where I'm going. Give that big guy a big hug from me, miss you both so very much.
John & Byrl Rhoads
May 9, 2022
Remembering a real lady, she was always so nice to us when we had to visit the funeral home. Rest in peace, Julie, you are missed.
John&Byrl Rhoads
May 10, 2021
She was always very nice to us when we needed their help. May she rest in peace. Prayers for Larry and family.
Delmare Allen
May 9, 2021
Happy Mother's Day Julie!! Wow I can't believe it's been 5 years, where does the time go? I know you've been watching over us keeping us all in line, sort of...lol. Your girls got a lot of their Momma in them, Laura and I were there for a couple of days and did we laugh, sometimes until we cried you know how Larry and I get. Nobody was safe we talked about everyone and made fun of them too. Oh my God your girls are turning out to be quite the amazing women, can tell they learned so much from you. You know you are missed by so many, miss your smile, the way you smirked as Larry and I were getting carried away and the way you always made us all feel we were special to you. Until we meet again, please put in a good word for me....I'm going to need it.
John & Byrl Rhoads
May 9, 2020
She was always super nice when we visited family and friends at sad times. Hard to believe it has been this long since she left on her journey. Take care, Larry and family and God bless. John & Byrl Rhoads
Mike & Lola Feyerabend
May 20, 2016
Our prayers are with the Alexander family.
Vaunda Richardson
May 18, 2016
My thoughts are with your family. Julie was an inspiration and beautiful person.
Jane & Dave Pfeifer
May 18, 2016
You have our sympathy and empathy. We are saddened by your loss.
Bonnie and loyd Carter
May 18, 2016
Larry and Daughters, Our deepest sympathy of the loss of sweet Julie. We are praying for your family . May you find comfort through Christ love and Family and Friends.
Cara & Marty Armstead
May 18, 2016
Larry, So sorry to hear about the recent loss of your dear wife. Sending our deepest sympathy and prayers for you and your family. May the loving memories you have together bring you much comfort at this difficult time.
Mary Anne Hagedorn
May 17, 2016
Larry and family, Our deepest sympathy on the death of Julie, I always liked her a very kind loving woman.
Al & Mary Anne Hagedorn formerly of Jerseyville IL Now St. Charles, MO
Delmare,Laura & Jennifer Allen
May 17, 2016
Larry,Alyssa and Kari Jo,
My heart goes out to all of you.I am so sorry.She was a beautiful person inside and out.She will be greatly missed,not only by you but by all of us.There is not much I can say that hasn't been said already.Julie made me laugh,sometimes kept me in line with my shenanigans, the way she would smile and kind of tilt her head and look at me, when I may have went a little to far with a joke or I should say when Larry coerced me to take it that far but,she always made me feel loved.When it came to Larry and I she had that father Flannigan approach,no such thing as a bad boy.Maybe it was she knew it was no use.I know she is no longer suffering or in pain.God got himself one of the good ones.
We Love you all so very much.
Bev & Jerry Lavey
May 17, 2016
Words don't feel like enough just now, but know that my heart goes out to you and our prayers go out for the comfort of you and your family. I'm so very sorry.
Dacra Couch
May 17, 2016
Prayers for Larry, Alyssa, & Kari. Julie was a Truely special woman. GOD be with the family.
Joanne Berry
May 17, 2016
Thoughts and prayers are with everyone
Gary & Linda Cameron
May 16, 2016
Larry,Alyssa,Kari Jo, . Linda and I feel blessed to have such wonderful friends as you and getting to spend some great times with you and Julie. She had a smile that could melt anyone's heart and a personality to match. You and Julie have raised two sweet young ladies and we will all miss her . God Bless and keep you and your family in his care as you go through these hard times.
Katie Alexander
May 16, 2016
LOVE YOU ALWAYS
Jennifer Koranyi
May 16, 2016
Sending love to the Alexander family.
cindy nichols
May 16, 2016
Larry we are so sorry for your loss and our heart and prayers go out to you and your family...Jackie Pyles also said that she is thinking about you and your family also.
Charlotte Suttles
May 16, 2016
So sorry for your loss!
Clare Brud
May 16, 2016
My heart felt sympany to the Alexander family. May the Lord give her peace and you comfort, Enjoyed working with her at VIP.
Steve & June (Steckel) Reynolds
May 16, 2016
Our deepest sympathy and prayers for peace go out to you, Larry, and your family. So very sorry for your loss.
Gloria Burch
May 16, 2016
My sincere condolences for the family of Julie. I knew her through a business connection and she was always so nice, helpful & understanding. We will miss her so much. Knowing she is no longer hurting and in an eternal resting place helps the heart heal. God's blessings to her family & friends.
May 16, 2016
Larry and Alyssa and Kari, i am so sorry for your loss may god be with you all,my heart is broken for you all ,i want to say thank you for the time that i shared with you in the past i am glad i seen Julie at amoco and we got to talk for a bit,i love you guys and miss your smiles.Julie had a smile that would weather any storm,God is truly picking his most important angels,fly high Julie,you will be missed Jerseyville lost her smile when you left us.deepest sympathy and god bless this large family and friends,what are we going to do without her .love to all Bob and Pam Tucker.
Bob & Cindy Lucas
May 16, 2016
Our prayers for peace and comfort during your time of loss are with you. God bless you all.
Jana Reno
May 16, 2016
My condolences to the Alexander Family.
John and Jeri Patton
May 15, 2016
Larry Alexander and family: Our deepest condolences to you all during this difficult time in the days, weeks and months ahead. May God give you strength. Our prayers are with you all. God bless....
May 15, 2016
We are so sorry for you all. Thoughts and prayers to your family. Randy and Jill Fraley
Mary Ann Wadlow
May 15, 2016
My heartfelt sympathy goes to Larry, Alyssa and Kari Jo in the loss of a beautiful wife and mother. What special people who have given so much to their community. I pray the community will rally behind them and help them in their time of need. Praying for peace and comfort.
Kelly Chamberlin
May 15, 2016
Thinking of you in this time of loss. Find strength that she is in a Beautiful Place - full of peace. God Bless
Cheryl Wadlow
May 15, 2016
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls.
May 15, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the girls Larry The Rethorn
Janice Thaxton
May 15, 2016
With heartfelt sympathy to you and your loved ones at this time of sorrow.
Dayle and Mary Lou Devening
May 15, 2016
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your loved one.
We didn't know Julie but Larry has always been a great person in our time of need.
Dayle and Mary Lou Devening
john & byrl rhoads
May 15, 2016
Our hearts are saddened to learn of Julie's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Larry and your family. Sincere sympathy to all of you.
Tom and Sandy Moore
May 15, 2016
Praying for comfort and strength for all of Julie's family. She will be missed by many.
Misty Johnson
May 15, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to you all. She was a wonderful person, will miss seeing her.
May 15, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Julie was always smiling and will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
Ron & Ginger Avery (Florissant, MO)
Heidi McDonald
May 15, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Alexander family, Julie was a wonderful woman, she will be greatly missed.
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