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Vera Gray Obituary

Vera L. Gray
Alton - Vera Lee (Boyd) Gray (87) was born in Caruthersville, Missouri on March 27, 1935, to the union of Canaday & Lula (Burns) Boyd. On April 15, 2022, Vera passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving family.
She was the seventh child born to this union. At an early age she moved to Alton, Illinois and attended Alton High School.
On July 12, 1952, she married James Gray and through that union they were blessed with seven children, five boys and two girls. Her children were the source of much love and pride. They remained so throughout her life. In 1966, Vera went to work for the Olin Corporation with the only intention of making enough money to buy some new living room furniture. After more than 34 years of service she retired.
Vera was a true advocate for the education of each of her children. She encouraged each of her children to them to pursue higher education after high school, which each of them accomplished.
After retirement, Vera assisted others by taking them to doctor's appointments and delivering meals to those who were not able to cook on their own. She had several passions including gardening, cooking, shopping, and spending time with her family and friends. She enjoyed hosting Sunday dinners for her family. She never met a stranger and was a friend to everyone. Another source of her extraordinary pride was when she was awarded "Best Yard in Alton" and the "Living Legend Award" by the Madison County Board.
Vera was a Devout Catholic and a member of St. Mary's Catholic Church until her passing. She served numerous ministries such as cleaning sacristy linens. Vera was a proud member of the Zonta Club of Alton/Wood River, National Council of Negro Women, Alton Beautification, Altar Society of St. Mary's Catholic Church, and the Coalition of Concerned Citizens. Vera was proceeded in death by her son: Brandan Joseph Gray; parents Canaday and Lula Boyd; brothers: Eugene Boyd (Martha), Canaday Boyd Jr. (Louise), Gene Boyd, Edward Boyd; and sisters: Cora Lee Sharp (Frank), Vesta Lee Boyd, Lucille Boyd, and Mary Boyd.
Left to cherish fond memories are her six children: Anthony "Tony" Gray, Curtis "Curt" Gray, Policia "Lisa" Andrews (Rosman), Stephen Gray, Venita Sciacca, and Kirstan Gray (Kathleen). Grandsons: Omar, Franklin, McKaley, Kaz, and Andrew. Granddaughters: Shonda, LaKisha, Erica, Bianca, Ché, Andrea, Benaim, Surya, Sofia, and Ayumi. She also leaves a host of great grandchildren, nephews, nieces, cousins, and a multitude of other family and friends.
The family thanks everyone who called our mother, dropped off gifts and showed her great love during her time of illness over the past 2 years. We also express a special thanks to Danetta, Leona, and Traci of BJC Hospice Care, who cared for our mother as if they were caring for their own mothers. Mom really loved you Ladies! Visitation service will convene Tuesday April 26, 2022, 9 a.m., mass will follow at 10 a.m. at St. Mary's Catholic Church in Alton, IL. Services entrusted to Harrison Funeral Chapel and Cremation Center of Alton, IL.

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Published by The Telegraph on Apr. 25, 2022.

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Denise Snipes-Denham

April 11, 2024

We are missing U

Lisa

April 9, 2024

I really miss you mommy! You´ll always have a place in my heart!

Lisa

April 10, 2023

Mom you are missed everyday. Life is so different without you. I get peace knowing that you are with God. Please watch over us and pray for us. I love you.

Burt Owusu

May 14, 2022

A good soul has gone to heaven!!





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Eric Robinson

May 6, 2022

Vera and James Gray were great friends and neighbors to my parents. Mrs. Gray loved everyone as a mother, even when we seemed hard to love. We children of the Salu neighborhood felt her blessings every day, and all of us hold her light in our hearts. May her family find comfort in the grace Mrs. Gray exhibited so freely, and so lovingly. You remain in my heart, and thoughts, in this time of need.

Lisa

April 30, 2022

Missing my wonderful, sweet mother. But at peace, knowing that she is with God.

Barbara Weeden

April 26, 2022

R.I.P. Vera...you were truly an angel here on earth. After retiring. you was here for all you could do for others. Your wings were invisible here on earth, but now you will spread them proudly. Love you

Roley Overmeyer

April 26, 2022

So sorry for your loss. She was truly an amazing woman.

Linda McGovern

April 25, 2022

Lisa & Family: So sorry to hear of your mother´s passing. She was always a beautiful person and a class act!

Jacqueline spiker

April 25, 2022

Bless your kind heart Vera..We groomed your little Lucky Gray for years at Club Paws..You may not have known but we dearly loved you..Absolutely a beautiful person I side and out. Rest well kind soul.

Denise Snipes-Denham & Family

April 24, 2022

To ALL the family & friends of Ms. Vera Gray: Please accept our most sincere condolences & deepest sympathy for the loss of a lady that treated my Brothers,Sister & myself as her own after our Mother, Emogene Snipes passed away in 2009. My Mother & Vera connected as best friends & Vera was truly loved by all of us. We considered Vera family & she showed us love in a way only family does. So please know, despite the hundreds of miles between us, we are mourning with each of you.

Tony

April 24, 2022

Love!

Carl and Michele Ohlson

April 18, 2022

So sorry for you loss - Vera was a very classy and loving person - she will be missed by many - hugs and prayers to the entire family. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Rosalie Keys

April 16, 2022

I cannot say enough good things about Mrs. Gray. She was a role model. My sincere sympathy.

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