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Vera Gostinger Obituary

Vera M. Gostinger Port Huron Twp. Vera M. Gostinger, 87, passed away Wednesday, October 27, 2010 in Marwood Nursing and Rehab following a long illness. She was born March 13, 1923 in Marine City, grew up in St. Clair, and graduated from St. Clair High School in 1941. On October 21, 1943, Vera married Louis V. Gostinger in St. Joseph Catholic Church, Port Huron. She worked at Cunningham Drug Store in Port Huron for many years, and also operated her own catering business. She was an active member of Holy Trinity Parish and the St. Ann's Altar Society. She and her husband, Louis, were members of the Port Huron Elks Club. She was very involved with the Girl Scouts and many other organizations throughout the Blue Water Area. Vera is survived by her four children and their spouses, Carol and Thomas Lapish of Kimball, Linda and Robert Smith of Port Huron, Louis and Pamela Gostinger Jr. of Harbor Springs, and Kathy Jo and Thomas Davanzo of Castle Rock, CO; ten grandchildren, Todd Lapish, Carrie Schneider, Erik (Lacy) Smith, Justin (Andrea) Smith, Amy (Luke) Lyons, Andrew Smith, Kyle Gostinger, Tyler Gostinger, Alyssa Davanzo, and Amanda Davanzo; nine great grandchildren; two great great grandchildren; her brother, Francis Ernst; three sisters-in-law, Joyce Ernst, Mildred Gostinger, and Dorothy Gostinger; her brother-in-law, Martin "Bob" Gostinger; and several nieces and nephews. Vera was preceded in death by her husband, Louis, who died December 10, 2008. She was also predeceased by two sisters, Rose (Alfred) Hoover and Sylvia (Cecil) Hoover, and her brother, Percy Ernst. Vera was well known for her smile and her many random acts of kindness to everyone she met. Her passion in life was her immanent love for her husband, children, and grandchildren. Visitation will be on Friday, October 29, 2010 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. in Smith Family Funeral Home-North, 1525 Hancock St. The Rosary will be recited at 7:30 p.m. The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00 a.m. Saturday in St. Stephen Catholic Church preceded by one hour of visitation. The Rev. Fr. Brian Cokonougher will officiate. Burial will follow in Mt. Hope Cemetery. Contributions may be made in her memory to Holy Trinity Parish, Marwood Nursing & Rehab, or the charity of the donor's choice. To send condolences, please visit smithfamilyfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Times Herald from Oct. 28 to Oct. 29, 2010.

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Jarie Laws

November 4, 2010

Dear Linda and family,
So sorry about your loss.She is now in a better place and I'm sure she is looking down and smiling at her lovely family.
Yours in thought,
Greg, Jarie,Tyler and Dane Laws

BettieJean Pollina

October 31, 2010

So sorry to hear of your loss, My prayers and thoughts are with you all. Your mother was a beautiful person

ronda burk

October 30, 2010

Carrie, our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We will keep all of you in our prayers. We love you. Joe, Ronda and kids.

October 29, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have such good memories of working with Vera at Cunningham Drug Store. I started there when I was 15 years old and Vera was like a second mother taking me under her wing and teaching me so many things. God Bless!
Marilyn Anderson (California, soon Lansing MI.)

October 29, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Aunt Vera and Uncle Loui from my childhood. They were special people! Always together forever. My prayers and warm wishes are with you today.
Love, Sharon Sibilla (Plymouth, MI)

Maggie (Fitz) Harrington

October 28, 2010

So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Connie and Davey Headlee

October 28, 2010

Our Thoughts and Prayers to all.Vera and Lou together again at last

October 28, 2010

Carol, Tom and family I am so sorry to hear about your Mothers passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. Love Always Linda DeLezenne Coral Springs, Florida

Donna Partipilo

October 28, 2010

our thoughts and prayers follow you through this difficult time...May the Lord hold her and keep her in the palm of his hand.
Much love Frank and Donna and family

Julie Terrace

October 28, 2010

Lots of love and warm memories for a wonderful woman, mother and aunt. Love you all!
Julie Sibilla Terrace & Family

Michael White

October 28, 2010

Our hearts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. May God Bless your Mother and give her peace.
Sincerely
Michael White

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