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5 Entries
Heidi Hughes (formerly Ross)
March 9, 2024
I was Ben´s niece by marriage, for 20+ years, and had the pleasure to spend time with Uncle Ben and Marcelle over the years. He was an important part of my wedding ceremony, saying the blessing over the bread. He was such a sweet, thoughtful, intelligent man, who always had something wise to add to any conversation. He was also an excellent listener, joyful, adventurous, and devoted to his beloved Marcelle. He was a wonderful father to his kids; Dan, especially, spent a lot of time with him and it was obvious Ben was a doting father and grandfather. I have fond memories of both Ben and Marcelle, and my heart goes out to his family. Rest in peace, Uncle Ben.
Lizabeth Widdifield
February 1, 2021
Good times at Cooked Goose, Junk and Java, and Guytannos.
Lizabeth Widdifield
January 31, 2021
I met Ben years ago at Westerly Nursing home. I nicked name him “Big Ben” because he originally told me he was from England. As guarded as he was.....We grew to become very good friends. Visiting our loved ones daily, we both shared something very special; I knew Marcelle in the winter years -a unique way that only Ben could understand. Ben too, knew my mother in a way most did not while she too, resided in the nursing home. No one knew Marcelle and my mother the way Ben and I did. How could you unless you were there daily for hours.
Ben was there for me when I “lost my mother”- a term he did not like me using. He insisted the crying stopped. He shared a metaphor about death and his words washed over me as part of my healing. His presence was extremely strong. He spoke of not fearing death and shared stories about his expertise in the matter due to his Holocaust experience. Yet, as private as he was, Ben did share some of those with me.
Ben was a man with a brilliant mind. When Ben spoke you couldn’t help but draw yourself closer- He was that interesting!!!! He spoke in a satirical prose, drizzled with criticism, followed by laughter that I found captivating. I always told him he should have taught a class at the University.
Ben has influenced me greatly and he is one of the most fascinating people I will ever know in my lifetime. He is from the greatest generation to have ever lived!!!!!
Ben, thank you for all you’ve taught me. I love you and will miss you dearly.
Lizabeth Widdifield
Yvonne OClair
January 31, 2021
I had the pleasure of meeting Ben and caring for him for 2 weeks. In that short time of knowing him taught me a great lesson. I’m grateful to have crossed paths with been and thank him fir the knowledge he instilled .
Yvonne O’Clair
Ginny Fyfe
January 30, 2021
I met Ben several years ago on the tennis court. Always a gentleman and a pleasure on the courts. I'll miss you Ben. Luv in tennis. Ginny Fyfe
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