Search by Name

Search by Name

Carol Helard Obituary

Carol Jeanne Helard Carol Jeanne Helard passed away peacefully in her sleep, in the early morning hours of Oct. 13, 2013 at the age of 71. A 41 year resident of Blue Lake, Carol was born May 26th, 1942 in Portland, Oregon to Robert and Rosemary Creelman. She was the 5th of 7 children. Growing up in Aberdeen, Washington, Carol graduated from Weatherwax High School in 1960, where she excelled and won awards in journalism and writing. Shortly after graduating, she moved to the San Francisco Bay area where she started a career in banking. She then met and married Michael J. Helard in Daly City CA, where they had 3 children before moving to Humboldt County, where she gave birth to their 4th child in 1972. They settled in Blue Lake where they raised their children and lived out their lives. Upon their arrival to Humboldt County, Carol continued her banking career, until she was hired for a cashier position at Humboldt State University; a job which she ultimately retired from after 25 years of service. Carol, along with her husband Mike, were very involved within the community of Blue Lake. They were active members in the PTA as well as publishers of The Northern Advocate newspaper, formerly known as the Blue Lake Advocate, which had been discontinued in the 1950's. Although not very profitable, the newspaper quenched Carol's journalistic desires and showcased her writing talents, as well as her artistic abilities, in writing and illustrating much of the newspaper. She was an exceptional painter and artist and continued to enjoy crafting and creating well into her retirement. Carol and Mike both loved to garden and spent much of their retirement years, yard sale-ing and offering the many "treasures" they were able to find, for sale on Ebay, before internet selling was even common or popular in this area. Her beloved husband, Mike, passed away in January 2010. After his death, Carol became an even more prolific writer; penning numerous poems and short stories, retelling the many experiences of her youth as well as the trials and tribulations of raising a family in rural Northern California. Since Mike's passing, Carol's enthusiasm and zeal for life seemed to rapidly diminish without the company of her soul mate and lifelong companion. You could see in her eyes that she missed him so much and the light that he provided to all of our lives could never be replaced. She was also preceded in death by her siblings, Theodore Creelman, Neil Creelman, Leslie Creelman, as well as her nephew, Jeffrey Lawrence and Grandson, Michael Anthony. Carol was always so very proud of her children and grandchildren. She is survived by her four children, Angela Marsh and her partner Scott Easterling of TN, Michael Helard and his partner Lisa of Blue Lake, Ted Helard and his wife Heather of Ashland OR, and Tracy Helard-Shumard and her husband Trent of Mckinleyville. She was the proud grandmother of Kelley Rose Baker and her partner Jimmy McBeth of Eureka, Timothy Christie of Fieldbrook, Amanda Mcbride, Chelsea Mines and Husband Clayton, Sarah and Patrick Henry, Ashlyn Mcbride and Benjamin Marsh, all of TN, Brenden, Angela and Michael Shumard, all of Mckinleyville, as well as great-grandmother to Ryan Baker and Brody Mcbeth of Eureka, Caleb & Kallie Rose of TN, and two Great Grandchildren on the way. She is also survived by siblings Doris Creelman of Vancouver WA, John Creelman, of Auburn WA, Theresa (Trisha) Lawrence and her husband John of Bend OR, as well as numerous nieces and nephews: Robert Creelman, Douglass Creelman, Chris Creelman, Brian Creelman, Suzanne Creelman Morchin, Paul Creelman, Barbara Creelman Diggs, Daniel Creelman, Rebecca Creelman Pederaski, Gregory Lawrence, Amy (Lawrence) Bishop and Anthony Lawrence. Friends and Family are invited to attend a celebration of Carol's life on Saturday, November 9th between 1-4 PM at E & O Bowl in Blue Lake. Please sign the guest book at www.times-standard.com and click on obits.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times-Standard from Oct. 19 to Oct. 22, 2013.

Memories and Condolences
for Carol Helard

Not sure what to say?





Amber Burgess

January 13, 2014

Carol, you and Mike have always been a second family to me. I thank you for your kindness and love that you have shared with me throughout my life. You are forever in my heart. I love you forever.

Trish Lawrence

November 13, 2013

My beautiful sister has passed away. I have been overwhelmed with a quiet sense of loss, but I am experiencing enhanced and welcome memories.

But for the memories that have come to the surface of my night dreams and my waking thoughts, I am not sure I would be able to cope. They are good dreams and good thoughts.

I think Carol left because she knew we would all be strong enough to let her go. Mike has been waiting.

Carol has left a huge imprint on this planet - four children who she always called her greatest gift, and many grandchildren and great grandchildren. In them and because of them, she will live forever.

We have all been blessed to have been family or friends. We will not forget the many kindnesses she has extended, wonderful gifts she has made, poetic words she has written, or simply the comfort of her presence.

Her talents, like her charm and generosities, were endless. Her smile was warm, her sense of humor, big, and her laughter, contagious.

I loved her, I was in awe of her and I never felt I was worthy of being her sister. She was the person I always wanted to be.

Sue Hunter

November 8, 2013

Angie, Mikey, Teddy and Tracy, You know how much your family has meant to me and my family. We have so many great memories of not only when you guys were little, but then again when my kids were little. There are just so many stories that bring laughter to my heart. Knowing that your dad has prepared a place for your mom to join him brings comfort to my heart. They will always be watching over you guys and forever in your hearts! Love you all! Sue and family.

Lisa Petersen

November 8, 2013

Dear Helard Family: Your Mother will be missed and forever in my heart. It won't be the same driving up the hill when I go home knowing your parents aren't there.

Beckie Thornton

October 26, 2013

Prayers to your family Angela, loved your mom dearly. Blue Lake will miss her. Much love to you all.

Paul J Creelman

October 24, 2013

I will forever cherish the times I spent with Aunt Carol. She was always so loving and supportive not only to her children but to her entire extended family. She was creative and intelligent, loving and compassionate. She had a spark in her that shone with a wonderful brilliance. The world will be a darker place without Carol Helard in it.

Angela Helard

October 21, 2013

Mom...
I miss you soo much already. Everyday I have picked up the phone to call you....I love you and pray you have found peace.
Your daughter
Angela

October 21, 2013

To the family of Carol
Our deepest sympathies to you.
I worked at HSU for 21 years and knew Carol, always a very nice lady to know.
Nancy and Ken Hansen
McKinleyville, CA.

Amy Bishop

October 20, 2013

In memory of my dear Aunt Carol. Forever in our hearts and memories. Your love and compassion will live on. May you be resting in peace, in the arms of the love of your life.

Amy Bishop

October 20, 2013

My Dear Aunt Carol,
I am missing you already. You were one of the sweetest, most thoughtful, talented ladies I have ever known. I will cherish forever my memories of you. I hope you have found peace in the arms of your big teddy bear. May you two be dancing in heaven. I love you.

Carol Combs

October 20, 2013

Our thoughts are with the family. Carol and Mike Combs

Cherylanne Winston-Sanford

October 19, 2013

My deepest condolences for your loss for your family of Carol. I knew her as a co-worker at HSU Cashiers..I just loved Carol's spirit and funny stories she told...I always made a point to stop by her window to say hello and what is up for the day..will miss her dearly..Cherylanne Sanford :)

Judith Massey

October 19, 2013

My prayers and thoughts are with all the family, especially Angie.

October 19, 2013

Our prayers are with you at this great loss in your life. Tracy I see that your Mom and I shared birthdays, May 26th. I lost my Mom in 1997 at 76 years of age and I felt like I got cheated out of some years as people live much longer than your Mom and my Mom. They were tired and wanted elsewhere. I am so sorry and i didnt know her only met her, but if by knowing you, she must have been a wonderful person as she instilled so much of her in you, and you are a kind and great family member. Love Jimmy and Vera

Beckie Thornton

October 19, 2013

Our prayers go out to your family. Carol was a big part of my life as a child growing up in Blue Lake. She will be missed very much.

Inez Orlandi

October 19, 2013

Carol and I were very good friends for many years. Well over 30, I believe. We used to laugh over the years because we found two things to fight over and couldn't remember what one of them was. We also had talks about our mothers, as they both lived in the same little town of Ione, Washington. This town was much smaller than Blue Lake, Truth be known, it was probably smaller than Korbel ! I will miss her friendship.

BunE Daly

October 19, 2013

One of the kindest people I have ever had the good fortune to call my friend. I have so many memories of Carol, including some very funny ones because she was always able to laugh at herself. I loved playing Words With Friends with her and just knowing she was there in her beloved Blue Lake.

I'll miss you, Carol, and your family will be in my prayers.

Kelley Baker

October 19, 2013

Nanny it's hard to believe your gone. I'm going to miss you like crazy. Your with poppy now and he will take good care of you like he always did. One day I will see again. Until then I will miss the both of you. Love you Nanny. Love your grand daughter Kelley Rose

Janice McIntosh

October 19, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of Carol's passing. I met Carol while working at HSU and she was one of the most honest & kindest people there. We used to be amazed and tickled about how our paths criss-crossed without prior meetings. Thank you Carol for all your words of encouragement.

rebecca Paderesky

October 19, 2013

I love you aunt Carol..

Becki paderesky

Tracy Helard-Shumard

October 19, 2013

Mom, I still can't believe you are gone. I miss our daily phone calls and our visits. The void that I feel right now with both you and Dad gone is overwhelming. I know this void will diminish with time, but your memory never will. Thank you for doing the best that you could while us kids were growing up, always trying to provide and making the best of good and hard times. I wish I could have bottled your talent, kindness and creativity...I also know I will never see that in someone again. I love you Mom...and I always will....Your loving Daughter, Tracy

Showing 1 - 21 of 21 results

Make a Donation
in Carol Helard's name

Memorial Events
for Carol Helard

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Carol's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Carol Helard's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more