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Neil Emersen Kemp

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Neil Emerson Kemp Born in Eureka on July 5, 1937, Neil Emerson Kemp Jr., son of Neil Emerson Kemp Sr. and Sarah Denica Gillaspie Kemp passed away June 2, 2013 at his home in Salmon Creek near Miranda. By his side were his beloved wife, Myrna Jean Hollis Kemp, his daughter Kym Kemp, his son Neil Eugene Kemp, and his granddaughter of the heart, Brandy Ogletree. He was preceded in death by his parents and his brother, William Kemp. He is survived by three sisters Thelma Pavlich, Ellen Wilson, and Vada Johnson, two brothers Jim Kemp and John Kemp and three grandsons Clay, Quinn, and Malachi Church. The Farkle and Zigler families as well as Zachary Ogletree will also miss him. A memorial will be held at Neil and Myrna's home on July 4, 2013 from 2:00 -10:00 P.M. with a Potluck and Fireworks. All are welcome. Here's to the working men with their strong shoulders and wild hearts. Here's to the men with callused hands who quiet their rough side enough to raise families and build roads, but who tell true stories with wicked grins about their younger selves...and last weekend. Here's to the ab divers, the deer hunters, the horseshoe pitching crowd. Here's to those who brush their sawdust covered shoulders off at the end of long, hot working days, smooch their wives, crack open a cold one, load up the inner tubes, and take all the neighborhood kids to the river swimming. Here's to my dad, Neil Kemp, a hard worker and a wicked grinner with a holler of joy that would make women stand a little taller, kids come a runnin', and men whoop back. He could make his old pickup haul a trailer down a muddy road that a mule would refuse to walk, work 12 hours in the rain, and then twirl my mom at the Riverwood 'til two in the morning. Here's to the men who take adversity and claw their way to a place they can keep for their own, long after others would have given up. Here's to my dad who when the nature cursed him with MS, still drug himself up ladders to patch his roof, balanced himself on his walker to chainsaw firewood, and strapped himself with bungee cords to a riding lawnmower to cut the grass. Here's to the man who on his last days, as he lay in bed too weak to open his eyes, answered the anxious question-"Dad, is there anything I can do to help?" with a slight lift of his chin towards the radio that was droning a baseball game and whispered, "No, there's nothing you can do, the Giants are losing...." This is for Neil Kemp, but it is for all those men who tame their demons enough to raise families and build communities, but whose wicked grins reminds the rest of us that a bit of bad boy is a seasoning that makes this dark world a little easier to swallow. Please sign the guestbook at www.times-standard.com, click on obits.

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Published by Times-Standard on Jun. 9, 2013.

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Jack Hallin

October 2, 2013

I didn't know Neil, Jr. personally but knew his father, Neil Sr., well. He was my first boss when I came to District 1 in 1954, fresh out of college. He taught me to be a highway designer which was a great start to my 41 year career ending in District 7. I'm sure Neil, Jr. was as proud as his Dad was of their contributions to the sucesses of the Division of Highways/Caltrans. Quite a family legacy!

Charlie

June 20, 2013

He was a wonderful person and I am so glad I got to work with him and be a part of his life.

Jack Martin

June 18, 2013

I met Neil in 1980 working on Carl's Slide by the old Howling Wolf Cafe.Salt of this Earth.Have not seen him in years , but will not forget.You are missed already.

June 18, 2013

I met Neil in 1990 when he came to Boonville to qualify a few of us on the new mowers that Caltrans had purchased. He made that next few days so entertaining, that I looked forward to working with the Garberville/Leggett crews paving the next few years just to visit with Neil. He will be missed by all who ever met him. Jerry King Dist 1 Caltrans

June 16, 2013

Dear Myrna & Family -- Our thoughts and prayers to you in the passing of Neil. Though we did not know Neil well, the obituary really tells one of the type of man Neil was. So many great memories shared in this obit. God Bless all.
Bill & Betty Barton

John Frame

June 13, 2013

I didn't know Neil but after reading the obituary I'm sure I would have liked him. My wife reads obituaries and says that is the best she has ever read.

May July 4th be clear and and the gathering a reflection of his spirit!

Larry Sullivan

June 9, 2013

Sorry to read about Neil, will always cherish memories as kids in old neighbored on Albee street

rina ellsworth

June 9, 2013

I didn't know him but his obituary is beautiful, sorry for your great loss.

Chuck Dwelley

June 9, 2013

Although I did not know your Dad, I wish I had. Your Obituary was a powerful description of a man who lived an ordinary life heroically. It brought back memories of my own Dad and tears to my eyes. Thank you for your piece.

June 9, 2013

Less & Darlene Claus . Your father was an increadable & wonderful person . How lucky you are .

June 9, 2013

"...is there anything I can do to help?" with a slight lift of his chin towards the radio that was droning a baseball game and whispered, "No, there's nothing you can do, the Giants are losing...." a giant treasure to be remembereed with disregard for time and space.

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