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The Rev. Canon John Fletcher Lowe Jr.

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LOWE, The Rev. Canon John Fletcher, Jr., age 89, died peacefully at home on August 25, 2021.

Born in Greenville, S.C., Fletcher graduated from The Gilman School, Washington & Lee University and General Theological Seminary. During his Baptismal journey in Christ, he was blessed by family and friends, including: his parents, Mary and Fletcher Lowe; sister, Sally Lowe Fant (now deceased); Mary Fran, wife and dance partner of 64 years, who lovingly shared his Faith, ups and downs and his idiosyncrasies; his children, John, Elizabeth and Suzanne; grandchildren, Jordan, Cameron, Grayson Fletcher and Judah; stepgrandchildren, Ben and Max; daughter-in-law, Nancy; and son-in-law, Jeff. Rachel, whose life in his early years planted the seed of social justice and taught him to respect the dignity of every human being; Dean James Leyburn, guiding light during his life changing Washington and Lee days, whose compassionate Christianity inspired his advocacy for the "least of Christ's brothers and sisters"; Roman Catholic Bishop of Richmond Walter Sullivan, whose courageous social justice and interfaith witness gave him wings; congregations in his native South Carolina, Virginia, Delaware and Europe; friends from the Islamic, Jewish and Christian communities who broadened and deepened his commitment to God; numerous inmates whose lives in Christ have been inspirations; Bill Horner, who never let his disability define who he was; and those on society's margins who reminded him of his call to serve the God of Justice.

Fletcher worked passionately for: Reclaiming the centrality of Baptism in the life of the Episcopal Church including the ministry of all the baptized in their daily life and work, Social Justice in Virginia, including getting an Earned Income Tax credit that affected over 200,000 working Virginians, and Liturgical Reform through the Episcopal Church initiating changes to allow lay persons to distribute bread and wine at Eucharist (1970) and lay persons to take communion to the sick and the shut-ins (1985).

His life was also blessed and enriched by playing Lacrosse, dancing with Mary Fran, enjoying dark chocolate with mint, collecting nativity sets from around the world, body surfing, wearing Tartan pants and jackets, Don Quixote, windmills, pink flamingoes, jazz, butterflies, bagpipes, circuses, rainbows and traveling to life-expanding places, taking photographs along the way.

A Memorial Eucharist, giving thanks to God for his life, will be celebrated at St. Paul's Episcopal Church, Richmond, Va. at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, Fletcher requests that you help someone in need, smile and thank God for your life and contribute to a meaningful organization. His suggestions are: Voices for Virginia's Children, Housing Opportunities Made Equal, the Virginia Interfaith Center for Public Policy and the Fellowship Fund of Westminster Canterbury Richmond.
Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Aug. 29, 2021.

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Jacqueline Smith

August 23, 2023

Mary Fran ,thinking of you and your family with much love and many prayers.

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Annie and William Krusznis

August 30, 2021

Love and prayers to you, AMF. May God bless you and your family during this time. We were blessed to share some "virtual" stories and laughs with you and Uncle Fletcher via Zoom earlier this month, and for that we will forever be thankful. We will be down soon to see you and give you in person hugs. In the meantime, please know we love you so very much and send you healing thoughts and prayers.

Jacqueline Smith

August 29, 2021

It was such a shock to learnt about your husband passing. His warmth and kind nature will never be forgotten. Please accept my deepest condolences. Jacqueline Smith (Waitress from Aunt Sarah's).

Sharon Freude

August 29, 2021

Mary Fran and family, my deepest sympathy and prayers. What a loss to all of you and the Richmond community organizations in which he invested his time. I remember with joy all the years I worked with Fletcher at Holy Comforter.

Roy T. Matthews

August 29, 2021

From our days at W&L I admired Fletcher in many ways. Above all, in his ministry and personal life he was a man of his convictions and faith. He represented the best in the Christian faith and its messages of love and forgiveness. HIs work and his influence will be felt for generations. My thoughts and love to Mary Fran and the family.

Steven Warren

August 29, 2021

Elizabeth, even way back there in the day, as they say, I knew your dad was not just nice, but also good - there´s a difference. First, his daughter, you, had given some degree of thought to issues most your age had not. And second, even though I was completely clueless about most things, important and unimportant, and even though your father realized this, he was still willing to give me the benefit of the doubt. Hang in there and please relay my relevant regards to your family.

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C.Peter and Christiane Shields

August 29, 2021

Our thoughts are with your family.
We are very grateful for the help Fletcher gave to our family many years ago.

Fontaine and Ed Williamson

August 29, 2021

One year at the Easter Vigil at Holy Comforter Church in Richmond, people shared stories of their spiritual journeys in the Parish House before the service. Fletcher approached me after I shared and seemed very moved by my experiences. Forever after that moment, whenever I saw Fletcher, he made sure to stop and speak with me. I felt that I was seen, heard, noticed and loved, by Fletcher and through his gentleness and sincere kindness, also by God. A loving servant who co-created with God has left us with an example of how to truly follow Christ. May he Rest In Peace from all of his labors. Thanks be to God for Fletcher.

Debra Artz

August 29, 2021

Mary Fran and family, thinking of all of you in this time of loss and sending each of you love.

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