Cheryl & Clay Barlow
July 11, 2007
For such a wonderful lady to leave this life in such a peaceful, painless way was so befitting. May we all be so lucky to go "between parties". Cecil will be greatly missed by all whose lives she touched, ours included. We extend our love, our sympathy and our prayers to her family and friends. Take care of yourselves during this difficult time.
Cheryl & Clay Barlow
Dale Cassady
July 7, 2007
Thank you for these kind words about my mother. The support from family and friends this past week has helped Cheryl and me, not just to survive these difficult days, but to bask in the love that so many of you have expressed for our sweet mother.
Everyone who met her always commented on her beauty. Pictures of her as a young girl show how delicately pretty she was, yet her eyes show a strength of character that was her true essence. She gave her time as generously as anyone I've ever known. She was a familiar visitor to more people than we'll ever know in nursing homes and hospitals. She really did enjoy making life easier and happier for other people. If your life was enhanced by her efforts, know that it pleased her to do favors for you.
As I said in part of her eulogy, we can only guess at her final requests. I feel certain though, that she would want each of us to continue to care for each other. She would want you to visit or call those who are in need of your love and support. Cecil would want you to hug your children and grandchildren. She would want you to share a glass of wine or a game of cards with your friends. She would want you to take a minute to watch a sunset and she would want you to feed the birds.
Many thanks and much love,
Dale Emory Cassady
Belinda Reynolds
July 6, 2007
I met your Mom and Dad through Dawn and Jeff many years ago. They were always happy and smiling. They were truly a delightful couple. I always loved there tag on their car. Never looked a life in stages until I met them. She will be missed in the neighbor by many. I know Robbie will truly miss Cecil very much. Like I told you on the Fourth you are very much like your mother. Just wanted to say I'm Sorry for Her Passing but God has bigger plans for her now.
Betty Allen
July 5, 2007
Dear Dale, Cheryl, Rob, Kelly, Virginia, and Suzanne:
Cecil was so special to me. I will miss her terribly. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Betty
Dolores Smiley, Jessie Laws, Irene Harcum ,Gladys Barkley,& Mary Williams
July 5, 2007
We are deeply saddened to hear of the death of Cecil. We met Cecil seven years ago , sharing many pleasant moments playing bridge. She was such a lovely, classy lady! We will miss her. May God strengthen and guide you through these days of grief.
Kathy Shumaker Blackburn
July 5, 2007
Cheryl and Dale,
My thoughts and prayers are with your families. Both Cecil and Linwood were two of the most wonder people I know. They taught me how to water ski, and at my wedding in 1991, they followed me around and kept my champange glass full. My mother(Margie Shumaker) was blessed to have such friends. Cecil was at my mothers side in her final days, which meant alot.
Diane
July 5, 2007
I don't know this family but I was so touched by all the messages and felt such relief when I read how she died. I can only imagaine what a woderful life Cecil had and thankfully what seems like peacful death....I love the thoughts that she was just between parties. Pardon the intusion at a time like this but I had to express my thoughts about this lovely woman.
Estelle Gibson
July 5, 2007
Dear Cheryl, Dale and family.
I will never forget this funny story Cecil told about delivering phone books. If memory serves me right, she delivered them in her mink coat. Our family will miss her terribly. Michael took the news especially hard - since he spent time at the river learning to ski, etc. Your mom (and dad) were generous and loving. God knew what he was doing when he sent her to us. Now she is with Linwood, Ervin and Elizabeth. They will have a blast. Much love - Estelle, RW, Mary, Michael and Kate
Mary Ivey
July 5, 2007
Dale and Cheryl,
How lucky I was to be your friend and experience the joy your parents brought to me. In my mind your mom was like Donna Reed, always smiling and gracious, but no monkey business. Your parents will be remembered with many smiles.
Love you,
Mary
Smitty T Elliott
July 5, 2007
To the family of Cecil
I'm so sorry to hear of Cecil's death. I have enjoyed being a friend as well as knowing her thur Bank of Essex.
My prayers are with you"ll
Smitty
Didi Emory McConnell & J.T. McConnell
July 4, 2007
My Dear Cousins,
If there was any way I could ease your pain and heal your hearts, I would do it. I hurt for you and me, and for everyone in the family that has suffered this loss. Aunt Cecil was so special to me my whole life, and I loved her with all my heart. I never heard her say an unkind word about anyone, or complain about anything that life dealt to her. She was a beautiful person, inside and out, her laughter was like the tinkling of bells, and she always had a twinkle in her eye and a smile for everyone. Aunt Cecil had a way of making everyone around her feel better about themselves and she always raised everyone’s spirit. She quietly took care of family and friends with an enormous amount of love and devotion. Aunt Cecil was one half of a wonderful couple and now that couple is whole again and she and Linwood will never be apart. I shall miss her every day of my life, and I thank God that I was fortunate enough to have Cecil Emory as my aunt, for she truly was an inspiration.
Our love to all of you.
Marie Thompson
July 4, 2007
I have wonderful thoughts of Cecil as such a classy lady. My thoughts are with Cheryl and Dale. We sure
had great times together as kids and your mom was such a good example as a working woman and mother. I know she will be greatly missed.
Marie Toney Thompson
Trudy Martin
July 4, 2007
I met Cecil on a bus trip last fall and even though I only knew her for a short time, she touched my heart. My prayers are with her family.
Mark & Judy Waggoner, USNA '61
July 4, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. May past memories bring you comfort.
Lois Nelms
July 4, 2007
I HAVE LOST A GOOD FRIEND AND i WILL MISS HER. HER FAMILY IS IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
Cheryl Emory
July 4, 2007
Dale, Kelly, Virginia, Suzanne, and I deeply appreciate the kind words, thoughts, and prayers from so friends and family members.
Mother died peacefully in her sleep early Saturday morning, June 30. There were no signs of stress or agitation. She seemed very healthy and I know she was happily living her vibrant life, playing bridge, planning her annual July 4 blast at the river with family and friends, and being a magnificent friend, aunt, cousin, and mother.
On Friday evening, June 30, Mother was with her long-time friends next door, Dick and Paula. They played cards, shared a glass of wine, and had a wonderful evening. On Saturday evening, Mother's friend, Shirley, came to pick her up for another party at Betty's. When there was no answer, Shirley thought perhaps Mother had gone to Betty's earlier. When her friends realized she wasn't at the party, they went to Mothers. Dickie and Holly had a key and they found her as if asleep in bed and Dawn called me right away. Thankfully, Dale was not traveling.
Dale and I are struggling through this process, along with Rob, Virginia, Suzanne, and Kelly, and we are truly thankful for Mother's many friends and all of their kind words and deeds. We are so thankful that Mother was very healthy to the end, and died without pain and suffering. Her way of passing was the best. I like to say, "She was between parties."
Mother's spirit was strong, and she loved and cared for so many with humor and dedication. Now, she is with Daddy (Linwood), the love of her life. Dale and I are so very proud of our parents and we know that we are incredibly lucky. Mother and Daddy were such a fun and loving couple, and they taught us many lessons. We pray that we can carry on their traditions.
Much love,
Cheryl
David Gambill
July 4, 2007
Our prayers are with you.
David & Janet
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