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Janet Rutherfoord Moncure

Janet Rutherfoord Moncure obituary, Hanover, VA

Janet Moncure Obituary

MONCURE, Janet Rutherfoord, 71, of Totomoi, Hanover County, Va., died on Sunday, November 1, 2020, following a long illness which she faced gracefully and with undampened spirits.

She was the daughter of Thomas Rutherfoord Moncure and Julia Claggett Moncure of Richmond. She is survived by two sisters, Julia Moncure Boysen (Bill) of Shelburne, Vt. and Clair Tinsley Moncure (Richard Jones) of Charlottesville. She is also survived by her loving nieces and nephew, Janet Moncure Boysen (partner, Robert Ryans) of Washington, D.C.; Catherine Rutherford Boysen (Jonathan Steitzer) of Phoenixville, Pa., William Rutherfoord Boysen of Boston, Mass., Julia Moncure Jones Mishler (Evan) of Richmond; and one great-nephew, Julian Nathaniel Boysen Steitzer.

Janet graduated from St. Catherine's School and Hollins College. She also earned a Master of Social Work from Virginia Commonwealth University. She was employed as a social worker and later started her own counseling practice.

Janet loved friends, family, history, animals and gardening. She was a champion of homeless dogs. Janet volunteered with Animal Adoption and Rescue Foundation (AARF), Hanover Humane Society and Hickory Hill K-9 Rescue, helping thousands of dogs over her lifetime with compassion and dedication. An ardent supporter of historic preservation, she fought against unbridled development in Hanover County and elsewhere. She was a founding board member of the Rural Plains Foundation and a volunteer docent at the Shelton House. She also volunteered at Historic Polegreen Church and for the Democratic Party.

She was a longtime steward of her beloved Totomoi Farm where she lived for 45 years. Friends and family mention how much she loved working in her garden - she was a Master Gardener - and sitting on the porch at Totomoi. The quiet rural life belied an incisive intelligence. A humble person, it was said that she was often "the smartest person in the room without letting anyone know it." She was kind, generous and a supportive friend. She doted on her nieces and nephews. To be around Janet was to feel warmth and acceptance.

Services will be private. Donations in Janet's memory may be sent to the Rural Plains Foundation, P.O. Box 2754, Mechanicsville, Va. 23116 or to your local animal rescue group.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Nov. 3 to Nov. 8, 2020.

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Clair Moncure

November 23, 2020

There will be a Zoom celebration of life on December 6th. Anyone can email me at [email protected] to get a link to the event.

Stephonia Keys Owolabi

November 8, 2020

Although it has been years since contact, I am saddened to hear about sweet Janet but also know how true it was that she embraced her ill health well. Janet was full of life, caring, loved to smile and laugh. We met and became fast friends years ago when we worked as social workers at Richmond DSS. I enjoyed my visit once to her farm/home and learning about its interesting history during slavery.
Janet was full of life and loved everyone and animals, which showed. Her spirit lives on in our memories, her work is done! May she rest in eternal peace.

Gloria H Creasy

November 8, 2020

Janet was such a kind and sweet person. She helped me through a lot when she was in private practice. I have never forgotten what a wonderful person she is and was.

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Teresa Jacobsen

November 4, 2020

Janet was such a kind, calm, and hardworking rescuer. I loved visiting her at her family home. Her spirit is free now and reunited with the multitude fur babies who have waited for her with wagging tails and kisses.

Jane Haynie Holly

November 4, 2020

Janet took me under her wing as a new freshman at St. Catherine´s. Fond memories of our shenanigans during our high and college years.
Sending hugs to Julia and Clair.

Ann Smith

November 3, 2020

Janet was an incisive advisor and had intuitive vision in her help with Medical Care for Children. Her intelligence and kindness will be sorely missed.

Kathy Fleming Barton

November 3, 2020

I will always have fond memories of our time together at St Catherine´s.

Debbie Allan

November 3, 2020

I´m so sorry to hear about Janet. I knew her through AARF Animal Adoption Rescue Fountain and went out to her home several times. She loved her dogs and saved so many of them. Glad bless her soul.

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