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William H. Anckaitis, 67, lieutenant colonel, U.S. Army retired, died at his home in Colonial Heights on Sunday, February 6, 2005, after a prolonged struggle with prostate cancer. Mr. Anckaitis's education included a bachelor of chemical engineering degree from Cornell University, a master of science in business administration from the University of Rochester, and a master of science in logistics management from Florida Institute of Technology. He was a graduate of the U.S. Army Command and General Staff College at Fort Leavenworth. Mr. Anckaitis had been a resident of Colonial Heights since September 1978, when he was assigned to the U.S. Army Logistics Center at Fort Lee. A 23-year veteran of the U.S. Army, the Cold War, and Vietnam, Lt. Col. Anckaitis retired at Fort Lee in May 1984, while assigned to the U.S. Army Logistics Management Center. He had two previous tours at Fort Lee, from 1968 to 1970 and from 1971 to 1974, living in Petersburg during those years. He was a member of Wesley United Methodist Church. He served the Fort Lee and Tri-City community in a number of capacities over the years in various leadership positions with the Old Dominion Chapter, Society of Logistics Engineers; as a charter member of the Logistics Toastmasters Club; as an instructor with the Tri-Cities Industrial Management Club; as an adjunct faculty member and part-time instructor with several colleges and universities, including Virginia State University, Florida Institute of Technology, St. Leo College, and Chapman College; as treasurer of the Colonial Heights High School Band Boosters; as an assistant cub master, pack committee secretary, and den leader with Cub Scout Pack 150; and as an assistant coach with the Colonial Heights Soccer Association. He was a member of the Military Officers Association of America. Mr. Anckaitis was preceded in death by his mother and father, Henriette Myers and Victor W. Anckaitis of Easton, Pa. He is survived by his wife, Carolyn W. "Tiny" Anckaitis; three children, Clifford Anckaitis of Arlington, Va., Debra Lynn Harris and husband, Dan of Short Pump, Va., and Sharon Negris and husband, Paul of Wheaton, Ill.; three stepchildren, Mark Fraher, Elizabeth "Scottie" Fraher, and Keith Fraher, all of Colonial Heights; his brother and sister-in-law, Robert and Kathleen Anckaitis of Bethlehem, Pa.; six grandchildren, Stefan and Linwood Fraher, Brandon and Rachel Harris, and Olivia and Grant Negris; and his mother-in-law, Nonnie Burnett of Danville, Va.; also survived by several nieces and nephews, grandniece, nephew, and cousins. A funeral service will be Saturday, February 12, 2005, at 1 p.m. at Wesley United Methodist Church, 3701 Conduit Road, Colonial Heights, Va. 23834 with the Rev. Thomas Dunkum officiating. Burial to follow in Southlawn Memorial Park, Prince George County, with full military honors. The family will receive friends Friday evening from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. at Wesley United Methodist Church. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Prostate Cancer Research and Education Foundation, 5480 Baltimore Drive, Suite 202, LaMesa, Calif. 91942-2015 or to Wesley United Methodist Church. Arrangements by the Colonial Heights Chapel of the E. Alvin Small Funeral Homes & Crematory, 2033 Boulevard.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Feb. 9, 2005.

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Kitty & Paul Ruth

February 12, 2005

Paul and I graduated with Bill in 1955. He cotacted Paul when he heard at our 45th reunion that Paul was just diagnosed with prostate cancer. His advice was very helpful and displayed his caring attitude. We will never forget him. Please know the Ruth family has the Ankaitis family in our thoughts during these very sad times.

Michael and Nancy Loya

February 12, 2005

Mrs. Ankaitis and family,

Please remember you are not alone and you will continue to remain in the thoughts and prayers of Bill's DAMMS family. It is an honor to have been touched by Bill.

Major Blake

February 12, 2005

Our deepest sympathy to Tiny and family. Bill was my first boss after I retired from the military. I will always remember him for his hard work and fairness to all.



Major & Kyong Blake

Ed Zacot

February 12, 2005

My deepest sympathy.

Dan Duhan

February 11, 2005

It brings me joy to know Bill is continuing his journey now in Paradise free of pain. That we may all some day be there to enjoy it with you Bill. Your deep love of life and friends was a gift that is also a gift shared by Tiny. We will miss you Bill. Sue also sends her condolences from Florida.

Love One Another/dan

Donald Charity

February 11, 2005

Bill will be missed and our prayers go heavenward on behalf of his family. May you find comfort and peace in our Lord Jesus during this hour.



You have our deepest sympathy,

Donald Charity and Family

Slick Ward

February 11, 2005

My deepest sympathy. Bill was a special man and made me a better person by just knowing him.

Debbi Williams

February 11, 2005

Tiny,



It was an honor and priviledge to know and work with Bill. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Bob Kabala

February 11, 2005

Bill will be missed... But our loss is heaven's gain!

Garry Moretz

February 11, 2005

I consider the time I was fortunate enough to work with Bill on the DAMMS program one of the most rewarding periods.

Bill Cloyd

February 11, 2005

Bill was my hero of all the great people I worked with in DAMMS.

John Simms

February 10, 2005

I don't remember Mr. Anckaitis but, I know he was a respected member of the DAMMS family. May God bless the Anckaitis family and Bob's many friends.

John Sullivan

February 10, 2005

Bill: You and Tiny are in my thoughts and prayers. It was an honor to know you.

Anita and Bob Gagne

February 10, 2005

I am thankful to have had the opportunity to work and travel with Bill. Anita and I send deepest sympathies to the Anckaitis family. May God bless!

Norm Williams

February 10, 2005

Bill will always be remembered for his kindness and being a wonderful person. Our prayers are with Bill.

Howard Tucker

February 10, 2005

I would like to take this time to

express my sympathy to the family

of Bill Anckaitis. He was one of a kind

and will be surely miss.

Betsy and Gus Muench

February 10, 2005

We are so very sorry

Bill Nall

February 10, 2005

Tiny, Anne and I send our deepest regrets. Please take care and hang in there.

Lee DeArmond

February 10, 2005

May God grant the comfort that only He can give.

Stan Russo

February 10, 2005

I enjoyed working with Bill on DAMMS at Fort Lee. We will all miss him.

John Derr

February 10, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with the Anckaitis family.

Paul Burgess

February 10, 2005

May God Bless for you will be missed by your family and friends.

Adrian Varner

February 10, 2005

Bill Anckaitis and I worked together on DAMMS from 1984 until 1998. I will miss him.



Adrian

Robert Dyer

February 10, 2005

It was a priviledge to have been able to work with Bill.

Charles King

February 10, 2005

It was a great pleasure to work with Bill. We may have some differences of opinion but we resolved then for the betterment of the project. Bill, you will be missed.

william carter

February 10, 2005

My deepest sympathy to the entire family. Bill was a giant among men who will surely be missed.

Tim Middleton

February 10, 2005

My families thoughts and prayers are with you in this season.

Eileen Robinson

February 10, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with Bill's family.

Steve Anderson

February 10, 2005

I was fortunate to know and to work with Bill and count it as one of my many blessings. I am confident that he is now in a place where he can be made whole again.

While I am sad for his family and many friends that Bill is gone, I am glad for him that his long race is finally over and he can now rest peacefully.

Nancy Polak

February 9, 2005

Dear Bob, Sorry to hear about your brother. When I saw the name Anckaitis I was taken aback and then with a short jog of my memory I remembered NO that was Bob. It certainly was a glowing tribute to your brothers accomplishment and I know that his family is both sad and relieved after his long fight with cancer.

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