WILKES-BARRE — Mary Ellen McGinley, 80, a proud lifelong resident of the Heights section of Wilkes-Barre, passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving family at her home on Sunday, Aug. 18, 2024.
Mary Ellen graduated from G.A.R. Memorial High School, Class of 1962, where she was crowned the Shamrock Queen. She loved rooting for her Grenadiers many years after she graduated, and two generations of her family would graduate from that same stage.
Not long after graduation, she met her husband of sixty years, Edward "Ned" McGinley. In their decades together, they built a phenomenal family in which they take great pride. They also rescued their beloved home from demolition, while raising two children and pregnant with their third, and turned it into a place where her family will be able to celebrate her memory for many years to come. Mary Ellen also cherished her job as a proxy mother for Ned's wrestlers, during the years he coached at King's College.
Mary Ellen went on to work for many years at Luzerne County Head Start. In her position there, she helped shape the lives of students and their parents. She also built lifelong friendships with her colleagues, which she cherished.
Despite all her many accomplishments, Mary Ellen was most proud of her family, although we did a pretty good job of making her crazy most of the time. She is survived by her husband, Ned; and their three children: Seana McGinley and her partner, Jim Kase; Edward Paul McGinley III; and Bridget McGinley and her husband, Stanley Mirin.
During the final months of her life, her daughter Bridget was her constant caretaker. This ensured that Mary Ellen could pass at the home she adored with her loving family, something for which she and her family are immensely grateful.
All who met Mary Ellen knew how much her grandchildren meant to her. She helped mold them into the fine people they have become. James McGinley, Rose McGinley-Kase, Autumn McGinley, Jessie McGinley-Kase, Cailleach McGinley, Helen McGinley-Mirin, Evin McGinley-Mirin, and Sadie McGinley-Mirin, as well as her two great-grandchildren, Chance McGinley-Kase and Lorelei Cervantes, will never forget her love and guidance.
Additionally, Mary Ellen's beloved niece, Alexandra Fennell, to whom she was at times a second mom, was incredibly important to her. Alex, her partner Mia, and their four children: Benjamin, Harrison, Stella, and Caspar, were always in her thoughts.
While Mary Ellen was a kid running the streets of the Heights, she met her lifelong sidekick and best friend, Pam McClure. "Aunt" Pam, as Mary Ellen's children and grandchildren came to call her over the years, was more a sister than a friend. Pam and her children, who grew up with their "Aunt" Mary Ellen, were an everlasting source of happy memories.
Mary Ellen is preceded in death by her parents, Helen and James Corbett; her beloved and deeply missed sister, Claire Fennell; and her brother-in-law, John Fennell.
Mary Ellen's family will celebrate her life privately.
Since she will be unable to do so, Mary Ellen's other request is that everyone vote to ensure that her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, especially her granddaughters, do not grow up to have fewer rights than she had.
The family and friends of Mary Ellen extend their deepest thanks to the amazing caregivers, especially those at Allied Rehab and Hospice Services; and Iliana McGloe, her home health aide, who became a true friend of the entire McGinley family.
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Joanne Missal
September 3, 2024
I will miss her coming to say hi to me at Wegmans. Always a lovely lady.
Kelly Fretty (Seana´s friend )
August 25, 2024
So sorry for your mom´s loss ! My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time! lots of good memories at there home !
Tom and Jeanine Zaleski
August 25, 2024
Our sympathies go out to the family. Living a full, caring life, she helped out many. We are very sorry for your loss.
Jeff Ray
August 25, 2024
Coach and Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of Mary Ellen. I always appreciated when she would invite the wrestling team to the McGinley house and cook dinner for us. She always treated everyone like one of her own. My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.
Ed Markowski
August 25, 2024
My deepest condolences for your loss. Praying for your family´s strength during this difficult time.
Frank and Marilyn Bonner
August 25, 2024
Ned, I am so sorry to hear about Mary Elllen passing. She was a beautiful woman who loved you so much. Our prayers are with the McGinley family.
Patricia Podcasy
August 25, 2024
Thoughts and prayers to the entire McGinley family on the loss of your dear Mary Ellen.
Bob swank
August 24, 2024
Ned and family,please accept our deepest sympathy, the swank family
Kim Materna
August 24, 2024
Dear Ned, my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
Frank McAndrew
August 23, 2024
Ned, this has been such a very sad year for you; I hope you are holding up. I remember your wife well, and she was always so sweet to us, even though we kept you away from home so much. I wanted you to know that I am thinking of you.
Frank Mc.
Don Mazzante
August 23, 2024
Coach, So sorry and saddened by the passing of Mary Ellen. What a great Lady she was. I will always remember her warm smiles when ever we would meet. Even though you were coach she was always out team Mother. Though she was behind the scenes, we all knew she was your first assistant. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Thanks for all you and Mary Ellen did for me.
Don and Patty Mazzante
Lou Ercolani and Family
August 22, 2024
Coach Ned McGinley and Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you on your loss. Your Family has touched so many lives in a positive way.
Michael Olshefski
August 22, 2024
Ned & Family
I remember the profound impact in my life being a part of King´s Wrestling and how fortunate I was to know such wonderful people as Ned and Mary Ellen McGinley. During my time at King´s, Mary Ellen was just as much a part of the King´s Wrestling family by her show of support for Ned and the wrestling program.
There were times the whole wrestling team would be invited to her house for dinner and at the time she had three children as well to take care of. Mary Ellen knew wrestling was Ned´s passion and she provided him with all the love and support to pursue that career.
I will never forget the kindness Mary Ellen extended to me as she did to so many other people who were part of the wrestling program.
Her legacy is passed on and carried forward by Ned, her Children, grandchildren and all that were so blessed to know her.
Sending my most heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
Michael Olshefski
John unvarsky
August 22, 2024
Sorry to hear about your lost and always have great memories of Mary Ellen. Never forget growing up and hanging out with Ned.She helped make her house my 2nd home.Always remember her and Nana Corbett.
Janet Mercincavage
August 22, 2024
Dear Ned and Family,
My sincere condolences on your precious family loss. Mary's attendance at King's College's wrestling matches was as consistent as Head Coach Ned's was. And she cheered on each wrestler as if a member of their family. Always kind and pleasant,may Mary rest in eternal peace and may all of you find your own peace in moving forward.
Most sincerely,
Marisue Sack
August 22, 2024
I have many fond memories of Mary Ellen and Head Start. I will always remember her kindness when my own mother had passed. Sending love and peace-and I will think of Mary Ellen as I cast my vote in November.
David Rivera
August 22, 2024
To the McGinley's,
I will keep you all in my prayers. i pray that God gives you all the strength and love to navigate through these difficult times. Mary Ellen was an amazing soul from whom I learned a lot about helping others and spreading kindness. It is people like her that make the difference in the world we live. We will keep her memory alive by the way we live our lives. Much love,
Lorraine Mabe
August 22, 2024
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with your family.
Michelle Landon
August 22, 2024
My deepest sympathy, Ned. I hope wonderful memories keep you comforted during this difficult time.
Chip Godfrey
August 22, 2024
Claire and I want to extend our deepest condolences to you and the family. Mary Ellen will be greatly missed by all who have known her. Once again we are sorry for your loss. Chip Godfrey
Carol Wills
August 22, 2024
That was a beautifully written, obituary...
Thinking of you, Ned and of your family
Carol Wills
Brie Spak-Heichel
August 21, 2024
To the McGinley's,
Mary Ellen and Ned (along with the whole McGinley family) always treated me with the greatest kindness growing up. Her love towards everyone she knew will truly go unmatched. I cannot tell you how much I appreciated the way Mary Ellen always included me in family events with Jimmy. I will never forget that.
Jimmy, Bridget, Ned, and family-
All my love! Mary Ellen made the world a better and brighter place!
Jade Perrillo
August 21, 2024
Mrs. McGinley was always Super Nice
to Me She always went out her way
to say hi or asked if I needed anything She will be Missed by many
Marianne Boylan McKinley
August 21, 2024
So sorry for your loss
Sally Cooper Bolesta
August 21, 2024
My condolences to the McGinley family so sorry for your loss
Mike Stas
August 21, 2024
I graduated from King's College in 1978. I fondly remember having several Thanksgiving dinners with the McGinley family. Mrs. McGinley was always very welcoming to me and other wrestlers that needed a place to go during the break. My sincere condolences to Ned and the entire McGinley family.
Mike Hricik
August 21, 2024
I went to King's College from 1977 to 1981. Mrs. McGinley was a constant presence for the wrestling program. One Thanksgiving, I stayed in the Holy Cross dorm and went to the family's home for dinner, which was amazing. I was there on many occasions. You always had a great friend with Mrs. M. I'm sure she was a great teacher, mentor, confidant for students and parents, and leader for Head Start. Ned was also an educator in the Wyoming Valley SD and he coached for about 45 years. What a great team!. I am sending my condolences to the family at this very difficulty time. Mike Hricik, Class of 1981 and retired Profess of English at Westmoreland County Community College in western Pa
Dennis Morgan
August 21, 2024
Ned and Family,
My deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers are with you during this difficult time. Mary Ellen was so many things to so many people.
May she rest easy
Kelly Lyons and family
August 21, 2024
Bridget, Ned and Family,
When I met Mary Ellen in 1987 from day one she inspired, supported and encouraged me to pursue my passions as she has done for so many others whose lives she has touched. She was truly a great human with a fantastic sense of humor. So sorry for this great loss.
Kathy Conklin Sadowski
August 21, 2024
So so sorry to hear of your loss.Thoughts and prayers for your entire family
Frankie Onorato
August 21, 2024
My heart goes out to the entire McGinley family. Mary Ellen was truly an amazing woman who clearly left a lasting impact on many people´s lives including mine. She will be missed but her memory lives on through those she loved.
Tom Conti
August 21, 2024
Ned and Family,
Truly sorry to hear about your loss. My condolences.
Tom Conti Jr and Family.
Charlie Chase
August 21, 2024
Coach,
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Charlie Chase
Jerry bonner
August 21, 2024
Dear Ned and McGinley Family we are so sorry to hear about your lovely wife Mary Ellen she was always such a nice Lady please accept our condolences may Mary Ellen rest in peace Jerry Bonner family Florida
Danny Blaine
August 21, 2024
Ned and family . So sorry for your loss . Thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time .
Michael Khalife
August 21, 2024
Stan & Family,
I am very sorry for your loss.
Michael Khalife
Dot Crowley
August 21, 2024
The grief of our loss may be with us for a long time, but the joy of our memories will stay forever. Mary Ellen was loved by all who knew her. I have many memories that make me smile and these I will hold in my heart! Love,
Dot Crowley and John Michaely
Marty&Kathy Kane, Ft Myers, Fl
August 21, 2024
Dear Ned&Family: We would at this time like to extend our most sincere condolences on the recent death of your wife&mother Mary Ellen. Our thoughts & prayers are with your entire family at this time.
Denise
August 21, 2024
Although I didn´t know Mrs McGinley for a long period of time, I did have the privilege to meet her this past spring when we were both patients at Allied Center City.
I found her to be the most kind and caring person.
Never feeling sorry for herself, but very concerned about me and others around her.
Both she and Coach Ned have the most beautiful/amazing souls.
Bridget and Stan, my heart goes out to you and the kids.
May God bless all of you.
Corey
August 20, 2024
One of the kindest souls. Always treated everyone who walked in her door as family. May you rest in peace, Mary Ellen. Thank you for help start a family that I am grateful to know. Your memory will continue to live on for generations to come.
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